Bevin: A Femme Over 40 and her Friends

Listener question! Do I ever watch old vlogs and videos? How do I feel after having left the hustle bustle of Los Angeles? Following up on Episode 2 about my Gay Divorce and the healing of that heartbreak.

Here's the performance art piece I created about Mariah Carey and Activism on the occasion of the inauguration in 2017, which feels relevant to these times: https://youtu.be/dXPZFjxGMWI

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Are the ten core principles of Burning Man an example of how we can create an interdependent society and bring out the best in one another? I immersed myself for the first time in their culture for four days at the Alchemy Burn near Atlanta, GA and I radically received! The feeling of personal freedom is contagious and I had a great time at this fire festival right below the full moon and Jupiter. Thanks to my bestie Rachael for getting me there!

Buy me a treat box from my friend Reiki Baker Manduh! https://sites.google.com/view/manduhsreikibakery

Here's all the things I do to fortify myself against C19, the virus that causes Long C19: https://queerfatfemme.com/2024/08/21/heres-what-im-doing-to-prevent-c19/

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Melissa is bisexual, sapphic and polyamorous. She is a coach who helps folks align their values and their lives, navigate heartbreak and build relationship skills. We talk about her coming out story. De-centering men. The academic industrial complex and, with her PhD and my JD, whether and how to pursue higher education. Freelance work and whether to take the plunge. Melissa was raised Catholic and has developed a spiritual practice after leaving The Church (TM). Join us!

Melissa's website: https://www.melissafabello.com/

Melissa's IG: fyeahmfabello

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Colin of Queer Cosmos is a Gemini who teaches me how to change the world without taking it too seriously. This is a fun conversation going deep on astrology themes, relational understanding and making jokes and teasing all the Zodiac signs. A Course in Miracles, autonomy, community and my hyper focus on the 1989-1991 birth year microgeneration.

This is a FUN episode! Join us for this long form conversation! (When we finished I couldn't believe we clocked in at 1:44:44! An angel number!)

Previous episodes with Colin: Episode 142 about partner pre-selection https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/bevin/episodes/142--Colin-Bedell-of-Queer-Cosmos-Healing-Wounds-and-Partner-Pre-Selection-e1r4f9f

Episode

Previous episode 96 with Colin about values: https://anchor.fm/bevin/episodes/96--Colin-Bedell-of-Queer-Cosmos-Discerning-Values-to-Create-a-Life-Worth-Living-e145hdt/a-a63f69k

Previous episode 68 with Colin about his back story! https://anchor.fm/bevin/episodes/68--Colin-Bedell--Queer-Cosmos-eo7bfk/a-a475usk

Colin's website! https://www.colinbedell.com/

Join Colin's Daily Subscription (I value his voice notes so much): https://www.colinbedell.com/subscriptions

Colin on IG: @queercosmos

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"Living authentically is the key that unlocks the door to life!" Dylan returns to the podcast and we talk all things transition, transformation and self trust. Releasing fundamentalism and the wedge to trusting self and your connection to God. Living in integrity through listening to that still, small voice and following our purpose.

Previous episode with Dylan: Episode 51 https://spotifyanchor-web.app.link/e/1s4Q9T4FOMb

Dylan Hill on IG (DM to set up a reading!): https://www.instagram.com/the_dylanhill/

Dylan's Links: https://linktr.ee/the_dylanhill

Dylan's Podcast: The Dylan Hill Show on Spotify or Apple Podcasts

Support the podcast!

Patreon.com/fkdp (you can follow for free and get updates and freebies from me!)
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I'm hearing propaganda that being queer or trans is being "pushed" onto kids. There's an important distinction between having information about actual human diversity available to people and pushing people into making decisions about a very fluid experience.

Queer and trans people have existed since people have existed, natural human diversity is more fluid and spectrum than white supremacy culture's binary thinking deluded people into believing.
My entire podcast exists to help show lots of different ways to be a happy successful adult!

I invite you to explore the archives and meet people of so many genders and sexualities!

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Can you believe it before you see it? Listener question about how I walk with faith and trust in God. (The Goddess, the Universe, Spirit, a life force greater than myself, etc...) I talk a lot about faith in dreams and visions for your life with a brief visualization exercise towards the end to help orient you towards your dreams!

Join us on the virtual porch as we chat faith!

As with all spiritual content on my podcast this is take what you like and leave the rest. It's simply an offering; I have no ambition other than to encourage you to trust your intuition.

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Audio episode 181. It's been 25 (...almost 26) years since I came out of the closet as queer! In this video I recall those days, how I came out to myself and what the repercussions have been. I also talk about all the other coming out occasions I have had like speaking openly about using plant medicine, being spiritual and psychic, being a flashy sparkly person in a small town of lots of boring judgey people!

SUPPORT THE PODCAST!

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Richard Simmons just passed away and Erica and I share a queer freak aerobics root in his workout videos and she reminisces about being in his last workout video and I reminisce about his influence on me in the intro to this episode. Erica and I talk sobriety, exploring who we are in a normie world, processing emotions, dating a cis man while being queer, the heteropatriarchy, officiating weddings, hypnotism, and so much more! Erica is one of one and I hope you enjoy her as much as I do!

Erica on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/workoutwithericanix

All of Erica's Links: https://linktr.ee/workoutwithericanix

Support the Podcast:

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Cash App: $BevinBoss
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In 2024 we are faced with insidious, well organized power grabs from the far right. Sonya is a dear friend of mine who has been a community organizer and activist for more than two decades. She's great at breaking down big concepts in ways I can understand and I hope it will help you, too. It's hard to know what to do to stem the tide of political forces who want to repeal women's right to vote and no fault divorce (for real!) and there's more we can do than we think.

Grab your favorite beverage and join me and Sonya for a great conversation!

Previous episode with Sonya about policing and prisons: Episode 41 https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/bevin/episodes/41--Sonya-Mendoza-on-Life-without-Prisons-and-Police-efkgpl/a-a2gjugr

Resources:

Sonya on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/sssssspacekitten/

Donate to help Abdullah's family escape Gaza: https://www.gofundme.com/f/help-abdallahs-family-escape-gaza

Trailer for God and Country, a new documentary on Christian Nationalism you can rent to stream:

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=-MFQ2uESrjU

Jesus and John Wayne by Kristin Kobes Dumez, history of the conservative christian movement in the US:

https://kristindumez.com/books/jesus-and-john-wayne/

Fundie Fridays, YouTuber who talks about conservative christian politics, christian influence on pop culture and the media, and "gay stuff": https://www.youtube.com/@FundieFridays

Information on Christian Zionism (and Palestine) and Christian Hegemony:

https://linktr.ee/czresources

The New Evangelicals Podcast, up to date news and deep dives in podcast form about fundamentalist christianity and the world of christianity in the political sphere:

https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/the-new-evangelicals-podcast/id1557794865

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