Bevin: A Femme Over 40 and her Friends

Manduh is back on the podcast talking about the string of miracles that have unfolded since she followed Spirit's guidance to release her day job and focus full time on her Reiki Bakery and Mediumship development. We talk about the Water Heater Miracle of 2024, her mediumship development work at Camp Chesterfield, coming out with no queer experience and her birthday Qveen Herby concert adventure!

Previous episode with Manduh: 155 https://spotifyanchor-web.app.link/e/BMq57jRVoKb

Come to Zoom church with me and Manduh (if you want)!

https://queerfatfemme.com/2023/11/11/come-to-church-with-me-if-you-want/

Manduh on IG: https://www.instagram.com/manduhsreikibakery

https://www.instagram.com/manduhdawn

(DM her for a reading or Reiki healing)

Manduh on FB: https://www.facebook.com/CakesByManduh/

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Oregon recently legalized facilitated psilocybin journeys and Lisa is back on the podcast talking about them! She is a licensed facilitator and we go through the whole process of taking a potentially life changing journey with plant medicine at the center she works for. We also talk about career pivots and connecting to our loving ancestors with fungi!

Previous episode with Lisa, with her background: Episode 63 https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/bevin/episodes/63--Lisa-Snyder--Co-Founder-of-Tokeativity-on-Women--Cannabis-and-Unity-emnv2c

Lisa's website: https://liberadiate.com/

Women's retreat July 12-14: https://www.innertrek.org/july12-14

October 6-8: https://www.innertrek.org/oct6-8

Tokeativity.com

Lisa on IG: @lisalibra

@liberadiate

@tokeativity

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My relationship with God is my top value. Since relationship is an action word my practice evolves as I evolve. It's been over three years since I did an episode about this and thought an update was due!

My hope is it will inspire you to develop your own spiritual practice (if you want one) and/or give you some ideas of folks to connect to who can help guide you on your path! Grab a notepad!

My blog post about going to online church with me! https://queerfatfemme.com/2023/11/11/come-to-church-with-me-if-you-want/

Previous episodes on this topic:

Episode 85: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/bevin/episodes/85--Solo-My-Spiritual-Practice-and-the-folks-who-bring-me-spiritual-nourishment-evfjk2

Episode 4: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/bevin/episodes/4--Solo-Spirituality-e5jenv

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Quality of grief is quality of life! In my belief and how I connect to the ancestral realm, I've received more "I love you" messages from my dad this past year than I did my entire adult life when he was alive! Checking in on my grieving process with y'all.

My previous episodes about dad grief:

Episode 127: https://spotifyanchor-web.app.link/e/3P1hOFogSJb

Episode 124: https://spotifyanchor-web.app.link/e/nMPoZYwgSJb

And my Patreon post about connecting with ancestors:

https://www.patreon.com/posts/cancer-season-53133765

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Astrologer, Akashic practitioner, divinator, musician, actuary, gentle human Jonathan Koe joins me on the podcast! We talk about traditional metrics for success versus claiming it for yourself. How to devote to art and spiritual practice without needing an outcome and lots and lots of astrology tid bits.

Jonathan's website: https://www.jonathankoe.com/links/

Jonathan's podcast: Healing the Spirit https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/healing-the-spirit-astrology-archetypes-artmaking/id1610376555

Jonathan on IG: https://www.instagram.com/jonathankoeofficial

Jonathan on Threads:

https://www.threads.net/@jonathankoeofficial

Episode 173 (Solo): Reflection on recent trauma healing https://www.patreon.com/posts/patreon-only-on-103700269

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Continuing my series digging into the characteristics of white supremacy culture--talking about choosing quality over quantity vs quantity over quality. We live in a society and economy that pushes for infinite scale and likes to put people into boxes. When slowing down and focusing on connection is the more relational, effective and joyful way to live life.

Characteristics of white supremacy culture: https://www.dismantlingracism.org/uploads/4/3/5/7/43579015/okun_-_white_sup_culture.pdf

The Impossible Hamster (and Economic Growth): https://youtu.be/bqz3R1NpXzM?si=QuWIVvjROYRMtgj-

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Unmet needs, leveling up, connecting to your guides as a way of making life easier. We all deserve to get our needs met and when our subconscious needs things we aren't getting it creates self sabotage! I learned about that in Leah Garza's Akashic Mentorship (now enrolling for 2024 cohort) and since I've been seeking to meet my unmet needs for affirmation and connection through safe sources, I've been able to level up steadily instead of sinking to self sabotage!

Leah's Akashic Mentorship Info: https://crystalsofaltamira.com/akashic-mentorship

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Audio Episode 170. I welcome back body positive personal trainer Bianca Russo to the podcast. How to use Chat GPT to design a personal habits protocol tailored to your specific goals. What is wealth and how do we define abundance. Unlearning extractive capitalism overwork. A surprising update about women's sports. Toppling the patriarchy.

Listener question! Asked about whether I have career regrets from my pivot away from law (which created massive mental and physical chronic health conditions) and into my current career. And when to quit or when to stay the course! This is touching on a special nerve for me right now because I'm needing to seek additional streams of income to supplement my aerobics business right now. Join me on the virtual porch as we deep dive.

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Life is full of hard conversations--break-ups, asking people out on a date, setting boundaries, revealing vulnerable things about yourself, so many more! I talk about my experience learning to open up to conflict, intimacy, and releasing defensiveness (this was huge). When to have hard conversations versus walking away, when to offer unsolicited advice, and physiological ways to prepare for hard conversations. There's so much avoidable stress the better you get at having hard conversations.

"Blessed are those who are brave enough to make things awkward for they wake us up and move us forward."--Glennon Doyle

Mycellial Economic Solutions: https://queerfatfemme.com/2024/03/22/my-federalist-papers-mycelial-economic-solutions/

Article on symptoms of White Supremacy: https://www.dismantlingracism.org/uploads/4/3/5/7/43579015/okun_-_white_sup_culture.pdf

Support the podcast!

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