Beyond Blind Blaming

Most leaders are blind to the real source of their team's underperformance — and it almost always traces back to them.

Dawn Henning-Reeman is a UK-based coach, business consultant, and leadership development specialist with a background as an international field hockey umpire with 85 caps for England and GB. Through her company, DHR Coaching, she helps founders and senior leaders lead with greater clarity, resilience, and self-awareness.

In this episode, Kevin and Dawn explore how blind blaming shows up in leadership, why wellbeing directly impacts decision-making, and what it really takes to lead with intention.

In this episode:

(00:00) Introduction and Dawn's background

(03:00) Field hockey umpiring and high-pressure decisions

(04:52) Transitioning from sport to leadership consulting

(06:12) How blind blaming shows up in leadership

(08:19) Distinguishing what leaders can and can't control

(09:37) A unique strategy for overcoming procrastination

(11:02) How fatigue and sleep affect decision-making

(14:06) Why wellbeing is overlooked in high-performance environments

(16:04) Self-awareness and the shift to intentional leadership

(18:12) Mindset, accountability, and long-term performance

(21:06) Why every leader needs a coach

(22:52) How Dawn invests in her own growth

Dawn Henning-Reeman is a UK-based leadership coach, business consultant, and former international field hockey umpire with 85 caps for England and GB. Through her company, DHR Coaching, she delivers evidence-informed coaching focused on leadership effectiveness, wellbeing, sleep, and sustainable performance, helping leaders and organizations build healthier, higher-performing cultures.

Connect with Dawn Henning-Reeman:

LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/dawnhenningreeman/ 

Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/dhr_coaching/

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What if the real reason your business isn't growing is that you are the bottleneck – and the fix isn't working harder; it's doing less?

Erik Sorenson is the founder and CEO of Platinum Partners, a business growth consultancy helping owners double revenue and build businesses that run without them. A former business owner who built and sold companies including HearWorks and Sorensen Advertising, Erik is also a two-time TEDx presenter and published author.

In this episode, Kevin and Erik unpack the hustle trap, blind blaming in business, and how AI agents are reshaping what it means to run a company.

In this episode:

(00:00) Introduction and hustle versus smart growth

(02:57) Why business owners stay stuck doing more

(05:02) Growing by doing less, not more

(06:35) What got you here won't get you there

(07:08) The tyranny of how and subconscious limits

(10:26) Where blame hides when growth stalls

(11:39) Solving the wrong problem perfectly

(15:20) Building a full AI workforce for owners

(17:22) Agentic AI versus basic AI tools

(20:21) The first 90 days with AI agents

(23:45) Letting go of the "do it yourself" lie

(27:08) What separates owners who build freedom

Erik Sorenson is the founder and CEO of Platinum Partners, a business growth and coaching platform helping owners across multiple industries scale revenue and build self-running businesses. A two-time TEDx presenter and published author, Erik also builds AI agent workforces that give business owners leverage without adding headcount.

Connect with Erik Sorenson:

Website: https://www.platinumpartnergroup.com/ 

Email: [email protected] 

Resources Mentioned:

Ready, Fire, Aim by Michael Masterson: https://www.amazon.com/dp/0470182024 

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Most entrepreneurs aren't failing because they lack talent – they're failing because they're trying to be everything to everyone.

John Lee Dumas, known as JLD, is the founder and host of Entrepreneurs on Fire, an award-winning podcast with over 160 million listens and 4,400+ episodes. A former U.S. Army officer and tank commander, JLD built a multimillion-dollar business by going all in on one niche.

In this episode, Kevin and JLD unpack niching down, content creation for local businesses, AI disruption, burnout recovery, and why masterminds are non-negotiable for growth.

In this episode:

(00:00) Introduction and JLD's background

(02:30) From Army officer to entrepreneur

(04:06) Finding and owning a blue ocean niche

(06:19) Productivity, discipline, and focus explained

(08:25) Winning tomorrow by planning today

(10:06) Content creation for local private practices

(12:46) Why short-form solo content beats interviews

(13:32) Building long-term client relationships

(15:07) Lifestyle business versus grinding 24/7

(18:40) AI disruption and staying competitive

(20:11) The mastermind structure that drives growth

(23:36) Investing in health to beat burnout

John Lee Dumas is the founder and host of Entrepreneurs on Fire, an award-winning daily podcast interviewing the world's top entrepreneurs. A former U.S. Army officer, JLD launched his show in 2012 and has since grown it to over 160 million listens. He is also the author of The Common Path to Uncommon Success, published in 2021.

Connect with John Lee Dumas:

Website: https://www.eofire.com/

Resources Mentioned:

The Common Path to Uncommon Success by John Lee Dumas: https://www.amazon.com/dp/1400221099/ 

Atomic Habits by James Clear: https://www.amazon.com/dp/0735211299 

Matt Wolfe's AI YouTube Channel: https://www.youtube.com/@mreflow 

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What if the secret to growing your audiology practice had nothing to do with marketing, and everything to do with purpose?

Lisa Earlel McLeod is the author of the bestselling book Selling with Noble Purpose and founder of McLeod & More. She is a keynote speaker and sales leadership expert who has worked with organizations across healthcare, biotech, and beyond.

In this episode, Kevin and Lisa unpack why purpose-driven practitioners outperform quota-focused ones, how to humanize technology, and why your team's mindset is your most powerful business tool.

In this episode:

(03:10) What led Lisa to write Selling with Noble Purpose

(05:12) Why caring professionals make more money

(06:44) The big disconnect between money and meaning

(09:12) Why patient referrals are a leading indicator

(11:38) Dispelling the fear around the word "sales"

(13:02) The biotech rep story that sparked noble purpose

(15:59) Why one patient story changes everything

(20:09) Transactional vs. noble purpose organizations

(24:04) How practice owners can lead with purpose

(29:17) Brain science behind sharing patient stories

(31:19) Humanizing technology beyond specs and numbers

(36:13) How to create a Noble Sales Purpose for your practice

Lisa Earle McLeod is the author of Selling with Noble Purpose and founder of McLeod & More, a sales leadership consultancy. A sought-after keynote speaker, she has helped Fortune 500 companies and healthcare organizations build purpose-driven sales cultures that outperform quota-focused competitors and deliver lasting impact for customers.

Connect with Lisa Earle McLeod:

Website: https://www.mcleodandmore.com  

Book: https://www.amazon.com/dp/8126565144 

LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/lisaearlemcleod 

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The story that protects you imprisons you. What if the quiet, throwaway lines you repeat about yourself aren't descriptions – they're commands keeping you stuck?

Kevin St. Clergy is a speaker, coach, and host of Beyond Blind Blaming. He recently delivered a TEDx talk at Cambridge four years in the making, and coaches practice owners and entrepreneurs to break through the hidden stories that cap their growth.

In this solo episode, Kevin unpacks how protective identity stories quietly run our lives – and shares a practical three-step process to name, rewrite, and escape them.

In this episode:

(00:00) The story that protects you imprisons you

(02:39) Identity statements masquerading as facts

(03:32) Why your brain is wired to keep you stuck

(04:31) Where these stories originally come from

(05:15) How self-deprecating humor becomes a lock

(07:01) Why identity must change before behavior can

(09:34) Step one — name the story out loud

(10:17) Step two — divorce the fact from the story

(11:26) Step three — build and speak from your to-be list

(13:01) The door that opens when the story changes

Kevin St. Clergy is the host of Beyond Blind Blaming podcast and author of the book "Beyond Blind Blaming." With over 50 episodes interviewing entrepreneurs and thought leaders, Kevin explores how hidden truths hold people back from breakthrough success in business, relationships, and personal growth through systematic questioning and awareness.

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Kevin St. Clergy, host of Beyond Blind Blaming podcast and author, takes listeners deep into Chapter One of his book, exploring the unconscious patterns that trap us in cycles of misplaced blame and frustrated effort across business, health, and relationships.

This solo episode reveals the psychology behind why we instinctively assign fault to the wrong sources and provides practical steps for recognizing these destructive patterns in your own life.

In this episode:

(00:00) Introduction to Chapter One

(01:24) What is blind blaming exactly?

(02:15) Common blind blaming scenarios everywhere

(03:49) Fatal Flaw One: feels completely right

(05:13) Fatal Flaw Two: self-reinforcing cycles

(07:45) Fatal Flaw Three: blocks real solutions

(09:15) Psychology behind the illusion of control

(12:06) Three dangerous cognitive biases at work

(15:29) Recognizing blind blaming in your life

(20:44) High cost of missing hidden truths

(28:50) Key takeaways and reflection questions

Kevin St. Clergy is the host of Beyond Blind Blaming podcast and author of the book "Beyond Blind Blaming." With over 50 episodes interviewing entrepreneurs and thought leaders, Kevin explores how hidden truths hold people back from breakthrough success in business, relationships, and personal growth through systematic questioning and awareness.

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What if the very thing holding you back isn't what you think it is, and everyone, including yourself, is blaming the wrong problem entirely?

Kevin St. Clergy is the founder of Beyond Blind Blaming and author of the bestselling book of the same name. After successfully selling his company in 2022, Kevin has dedicated his mission to helping thousands through coaching programs, mastermind groups, and live events overcome hidden obstacles to breakthrough success.

This solo episode reveals Kevin's origin story, from championship baseball player to complete failure, and the life-changing discovery that transformed everything he understood about problem-solving and blame.

In this episode:

(00:00) Introduction to Beyond Blind Blaming origins

(01:46) From hero baseball player to complete zero

(04:45) When everything changed at age eleven

(08:01) The eye doctor visit that changed everything

(08:54) Seeing clearly for the very first time

(09:52) What blind blaming really means in practice

(11:35) From business exit to Lamborghini purchase success

(14:26) The TEDx talk journey and book creation

(16:40) How this framework will transform your life

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What separates authors who get published from those who stay stuck with just an idea? Sometimes it's not about the quality of your writing at all.

Randy Peyser is the founder of Author One Stop, a literary advocate, book coach, and speaker with over two decades of experience helping authors secure traditional publishing deals. She's built strong relationships with literary agents and publishers, successfully selling books to major houses and helping clients gain national exposure.

In this episode, Kevin explores the publishing industry with Randy, covering platform building, common author mistakes, and the real requirements for landing traditional book deals.

In this episode, Kevin and Mike will discuss:

(00:00) Introduction and Randy's publishing background

(03:04) How Randy entered the publishing industry organically

(04:36) What separates published authors from stuck dreamers

(06:46) The two main factors for book deals

(09:31) Common blind blaming mistakes authors make

(11:09) Why doing things out of sequence kills deals

(14:05) What book deal advances actually look like

(18:14) Amazing success stories from board housewife to Oprah

(20:11) Biggest mistakes when pitching in crowded markets

(27:08) First steps for people with book ideas

Randy Peyser is the founder of Author One Stop, a literary advocate, book coach, editor, and speaker who helps authors turn ideas into published books. With over twenty years of experience and established relationships with literary agents and publishers, she has helped countless authors land traditional book deals and gain national exposure through major media outlets.

Connect with Randy Peyser:

Website: https://authoronestop.com/

Book: https://authoronestop.com/ 

Email: [email protected] 

Resources Mentioned:

Crappy to Happy by Randy Peyser: https://www.amazon.com/dp/0979662982/ 

The Power of Miracle Thinking by Randy Peyser: https://www.amazon.com/dp/0979662915/ 

Finding the Wow by M.J. Margraf: https://www.amazon.com/dp/0988619199/ 

Secrets of Shameless Self Promoters by Debbie Allen: https://www.amazon.com/dp/0965096556/ 

The Tao of Influence by Karen McGregor: https://www.amazon.com/Karen-McGregor/dp/1642502758 

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What if the key to your practice's success isn't better marketing, but simply understanding who you're actually trying to serve?

Mike Green is the owner of Dr. Demographics and a seasoned healthcare strategist with over 30 years of experience helping doctors and practice owners build thriving patient-centered businesses. He has conducted more than 10,000 market studies, transforming complex data into practical strategies that help practices excel.

Kevin explores how demographics and psychographics drive sustainable practice growth, why location alone isn't enough, and how to stop blind blaming when facing business challenges.

In this episode, Kevin and Mike will discuss:

(00:00) Introduction to data-driven practice strategies

(03:13) Mike's journey into healthcare demographics consulting

(06:55) Why marketing should be scientific equations

(08:08) The power of psychographics over demographics

(10:26) Location dangers without proper research

(13:50) Common blind blaming patterns in practices

(16:04) How practice owners misuse demographic data

(18:12) COVID's impact on practice demographics

(21:06) Actionable steps for understanding your market

(22:31) Strategy and mindset for long-term success

(24:29) Mike's approach to continuous learning

(25:23) Working beyond medical practices

Mike Green is the owner of Dr. Demographics, a healthcare strategist with over 30 years of experience helping doctors and practice owners build thriving businesses. He specializes in practice placement, demographics, and psychographics, having conducted more than 10,000 market studies to help practices identify optimal locations and attract ideal patients.

Connect with Mike Green:

Website: https://drdemographics.com 

Email: [email protected] 

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Trigger warning: This episode includes discussions of mental health challenges.

Dr. Erika Horwitz is a registered psychologist, mindfulness expert, and co-author of the award-winning book "Improbable and Extraordinary." With over 25 years of experience, she combines clinical expertise with real-world transformation stories, helping people navigate mental health challenges, stress, and personal growth through mindfulness and radical self-awareness.

Kevin explores mental health myths, practical mindfulness techniques, the power of community in healing, and how awareness becomes the foundation for lasting personal transformation.

In this episode, Kevin and Jason will discuss:

(00:00) Introduction and mental health misconceptions

(02:57) Erika's journey from Mexico to psychology

(04:03) Mental health affects everyone, not just diagnosed

(05:04) Brother's bipolar disorder and near-suicide story

(08:40) Hope for those feeling too far gone

(10:57) Blind blaming in mental health treatment

(14:26) Identity labels that keep people stuck

(15:33) Personal responsibility without shame or guilt

(18:51) Hidden factors that influence real change

(21:43) Five-senses mindfulness exercise explained

(29:12) Self-awareness and effective leadership connection

(31:30) Daily meditation and therapy investment practices

Dr. Erika Horwitz is a registered psychologist, mindfulness expert, author and speaker with over 25 years of experience helping people navigate mental health, stress and personal transformation. She co-authored the award-winning memoir "Improbable and Extraordinary" and served as director of counseling services at Simon Fraser University, blending clinical expertise with practical mindfulness approaches.

Connect with Dr. Erika Horwitz:

Erika's Website: https://mindfulnessyvr.com/ 

Improbable and Extraordinary: https://improbableandextraordinary.com/ 

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