Beyond Blind Blaming

Carla Howard spent years navigating corporate change, and now she’s leading others through the maze of self-doubt, tough negotiations, and career transitions on her own terms.

As a mentor, strategic change leader, and confidence-builder, Carla empowers speakers to ditch limiting beliefs, build an unshakable foundation, and advocate for themselves in the marketplace. Her toolkit: clarity, bold action, and mindset shifts.

In this episode, Carla joins Kevin St. Clergy to unpack the hidden traps speakers face – from overcoming imposter syndrome and blind blaming, to mastering the art of negotiation, niching down for impact, and becoming truly indispensable on any stage.

In this episode, Kevin and Carla will discuss:

(01:12) Introducing Carla Howard

(03:47) How speakers really get paid

(08:06) Turning speaking into a profession

(10:00) Overcoming nerves on stage

(14:31) Finding the right conferences for your niche

(17:14) Negotiating fees and adding more value

(20:23) How to get paid from the stage

(23:21) Focusing on what the audience actually needs

(27:35) Habits of proactive event speakers

(30:26) Promoting events before and after they run

(33:00) Simple ways to keep an audience engaged

(37:46) Why mistakes fuel real growth

Carla Howard is a sought-after speaker, coach, and communication strategist who helps leaders and entrepreneurs get paid for their expertise. With decades of experience on stages and in boardrooms, she teaches how to own your voice, deliver real value, and turn speaking into a profitable, impact-driven career.

Connect with Carla:

The Speakers Connection: https://thespeakersconnection.com/

Carla’s LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/changestrategist/

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What if the biggest obstacle to wealth isn’t external, but the story you tell yourself? Sunil Tulsiani was once a Toronto police detective who doubted he could write a single paragraph. Now he’s a seven-time bestselling author, high-profile real estate investor, and business mentor.

Founder of the Private Investment Club, Canada’s largest real estate investment group, Sunil has empowered thousands to rewrite their futures, building wealth and confidence through strategic deals and a no-excuses mindset. His journey from working at gas stations to partnering with legends like Tony Robbins and Robert Kiyosaki inspires people to go beyond self-imposed limitations.

Kevin St. Clergy and Sunil dig into the vital role of mindset, and practical steps for anyone, regardless of background, to unlock financial independence.

In this episode, Kevin and Sunil will discuss:

(04:07) How mindset drives action

(09:19) Why you need a mentor

(12:48) Building a real estate business

(15:52) Journey from struggle to privilege

(18:58) Overcoming challenges and setbacks

(21:43) Lessons in growth and accountability

(24:08) Real estate wealth from no money

(27:30) Benefits of real estate wholesaling

(32:22) Property investment and partnerships

(35:44) Importance of having a mentor

(39:22) Proximity, coaching, growth strategies

(42:52) Russell brunson's strangest secret

Sunil Tulsiani is a global leadership coach, bestselling author, and founder of the Private Wealth Mastery Program. Known as “The Wealthy Life Mentor,” he helps entrepreneurs and executives align purpose, prosperity, and performance – guiding high achievers to build wealth, legacy, and a deeply fulfilling life.

Connect with Sunil:

Professional Investors Club: https://professionalinvestorsclub.com/ 

Sunil’s YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/c/suniltulsiani

Sunil’s Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/suniltulsianiofficial/ 

Sunil’s LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/suniltulsiani/ 

Resources Mentioned:

ACHIEVE by Sunil Tulsiani and Robert Allen: https://www.amazon.com/dp/1628651385  

Science of Getting Rich by Wallace D. Wattles: https://www.amazon.com/dp/B001WYVB7O/ 

Rich Dad Poor Dad by Robert Kiyosaki: https://www.amazon.com/dp/B07QPQ8WBL/ 

Cash Flow Quadrant by Robert Kiyosaki: https://www.amazon.com/dp/B009PSK0RG 

Think and Grow Rich by Napoleon Hill: https://www.amazon.com/dp/B000XJNDVQ/

The Strangest Secret by Earl Nightingale: https://www.amazon.com/dp/B00OH7DRT8/ 

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For singer-songwriter Mandy Harvey, losing her hearing at 18 could have meant an ending – but instead, it became the start of her most powerful story.

An acclaimed musician, author, and motivational speaker, Mandy has inspired millions through her performances and her resilience, including her unforgettable run on America's Got Talent. With a unique journey marked by setbacks, reinvention, and grit, she shows what’s possible when adversity is met with unwavering hope.

In this episode, Mandy unpacks separating dreams from self-worth, overcoming “dream thieves,” embracing risk, and discovering strength in vulnerability.

In this episode, Kevin and Mandy will discuss:

(03:15) Finding identity through music

(07:18) Growth beyond cancel culture

(12:24) Pursuing dreams through resilience

(13:35) Embracing growth through challenges

(19:11) Isolation and the deaf experience

(21:54) Dealing with cyberbullying insights

(25:57) No barriers inspire songwriting

(28:12) Overcoming fear to create

(31:26) Pursuing dreams embraces change

(34:35) Overcoming fear through performance

(37:49) Creating music fuels my soul

(43:31) Gratitude for caring audiologists

(46:07) Overcoming doubt and fear

Mandy Harvey is a deaf singer-songwriter, speaker, and finalist on America’s Got Talent. After losing her hearing, she rebuilt her relationship with music through vibration and muscle memory. Today, she inspires audiences worldwide with her resilience, creativity, and message that limitations don’t define potential.

Connect with Mandy:

Mandy’s Website: https://mandyharveymusic.com/

Mandy on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/mandyharvey/

Mandy’s Music: https://open.spotify.com/artist/15BFYS3S38ABXsEs8AVrXL?si=bLrHJwXNQ4ukllZX1OITow&nd=1&dlsi=799c1e5b3ebe47ad 

Resources Mentioned:

‘Sensing the Rhythm’ by Mandy Harvey: https://www.amazon.co.uk/dp/1501172255

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Legendary road manager turned marketing maverick Craig Duswalt knows firsthand that playing it safe can leave you invisible – even if you’re brilliant.

After touring with Guns N’ Roses and Air Supply, Craig Duswalt infused his backstage wisdom into the world of entrepreneurship, helping business owners and speakers break free from bland branding. His Rockstar approach has made him a sought-after coach and event leader.

In this episode, Craig Duswalt joins Kevin St. Clergy to explore what it really takes to stand out, the myths that keep entrepreneurs stuck, and why making daring decisions is the ultimate power move.

In this episode, Kevin and Craig will discuss:

(00:00) From touring to rock-star marketing

(05:51) Interactive branding through performance

(09:23) Rock stars and keynote icons

(13:00) Accepting the worst-case scenario

(13:53) Patience and perseverance pay off

(19:21) Decisions define leadership

(21:46) Decision-making and mastermind success

(24:53) Maximizing coaching and mastermind value

(27:46) Storytelling enhances marketing impact

(31:25) Personalizing AI content creation

(39:42) Breaking into the music industry

(46:37) Mindset shapes success

(47:40) Wrestling with self-esteem issues

(50:33) The fly swatter success story

Craig Duswalt is a keynote speaker, leadership coach, and former tour manager for Guns N’ Roses. Drawing on decades of real-world experience, he helps leaders and teams build discipline, accountability, and high-performance habits through practical, no-nonsense lessons that translate directly into results.

Connect with Craig:

Craig on LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/craigduswalt

Craig’s Website: https://www.craigduswalt.com/

Rockstar Marketing Speaker Website: https://rockstarmarketingspeaker.com/ 

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Too often, the story you’re telling yourself is the very thing holding you back.

Personal brand strategist and Built to Impact CEO Maya Elious empowers high-achieving women to get radically clear on their core values, uncover their “why,” and turn expertise into meaningful, profitable work. Featured on stages nationwide, she’s a force for clarity, confidence, and alignment.

In this episode, Maya Elious joins Kevin St. Clergy to share actionable frameworks for building your brand, breaking mental blocks, and charging your worth… so you can finally step into influence without apology.

In this episode, Kevin and Maya will discuss:

(05:54) Personal branding clarified and simplified

(08:25) Passion as a blend of what you love and what you hate

(12:09) Stop solving the wrong problem

(19:22) Align offers with client desires

(23:24) Identity and foundational values

(24:23) Decisions guided by core values

(29:31) Transformative success through value recognition

(31:57) Crafting authentic personal stories

(36:13) Investing in growth and learning

(37:45) Learning from success

Maya Elious is a brand strategist and messaging expert who helps founders and businesses turn clarity into commercial growth. She specialises in positioning, audience psychology, and building brands that convert attention into revenue – without gimmicks or fluff.

Connect with Maya:

Maya on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/mayaelious/

Maya’s Website: https://www.mayaelious.com/ 

Resources Mentioned:

‘The Mountain Is You’ by Brianna Wiest: https://www.amazon.co.uk/dp/1949759229

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What really holds entrepreneurs back, and how some turn setbacks into massive success? The secret isn’t hustling harder, but learning to say no and pivot with purpose.

Meet Feras Alhlou, a seasoned entrepreneur, author, and co-founder of Epsilon Technologies, who’s mastered the art of strategic focus. From an unexpected layoff to leading groundbreaking data strategies and selling his company, Feras now dedicates his time to mentoring founders and sharing practical frameworks for building sustainable businesses.

Feras joins host Kevin St. Clergy to reveal lessons on overcoming blind spots, harnessing the power of analytics, and why true growth happens when you stop blind blaming.

In this episode, Kevin and Feras will discuss:

(05:39) How marketing strategies really evolve

(09:01) Why focus matters more than revenue

(11:49) Leadership means giving credit and reflecting

(14:22) The real best time to start a business

(17:46) Why market research is non-negotiable

(20:18) Rethinking expectations and blame

(26:08) Why entrepreneurship takes time and commitment

(29:35) Taking care of your people

(32:01) A transparent profit-sharing strategy

(35:03) How transparency shapes better business decisions

(39:12) Balancing skills while building your network

(41:14) The lifelong journey of learning and mastery

Feras Alhlou has built and sold companies in Silicon Valley and globally, generating $65M in sales and an eight-figure exit. Now a mentor and advisor, he helps entrepreneurs make informed decisions at every stage, from idea to exit, while supporting nonprofits, youth development, and conflict-resilient leadership.

Connect with Feras:

Start Up With Feras on YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@StartUpWithFeras

Start Up With Feras Website: https://www.startupwithferas.com/ 

Start Up With Feras Newsletter: https://www.startupwithferas.com/black-belt-startup-newsletter/ 

Feras on LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/ferasalhlou/ 

Resources Mentioned:

‘Google Analytics Breakthrough’ by Feras Alhlou: https://www.amazon.com/dp/1119144019

‘Good to Great’ by Jim Collins: https://www.amazon.com/dp/0066620996/ 

‘New Happy’ by Stephanie Harrison: https://www.amazon.com/dp/0593541383/ 

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Is your inbox a graveyard of unwanted messages, or the secret weapon your business has been ignoring? What if mastering email was the missing link between stagnation and breakthrough sales?

Liz Willits, a top email marketing strategist, copywriter, and entrepreneur, has helped everyone from scrappy startups to multi-billion-dollar enterprises turn overlooked emails into powerful engagement and revenue drivers. Her career spans scaling teams at AWeber and consulting industry leaders on building brand loyalty through words that actually convert.

In this episode, Liz Willits breaks down blind spots holding businesses back: myths about deliverability, the art of list-cleaning, why buying email lists is a losing game, and actionable steps for turning subscribers into lifelong customers.

In this episode, Kevin and Liz will discuss:

(04:48) Customer connection versus corporate growth

(08:40) Hidden challenges in email deliverability

(11:55) Why unsubscribing helps emails

(13:52) Typos and unexpected reactions

(16:22) A B testing to minimise risk

(19:33) Optimise email lists for engagement

(24:27) Trust the experts in marketing

(28:33) Buying email lists fails

(29:27) Why purchasing email lists backfires

(32:51) Effective email frequency strategy

(37:05) Podcast resources and farewell

Liz Willits is a marketing strategist and email expert known for helping brands build trust, boost engagement, and convert through smarter messaging. With decades of experience across digital marketing, list growth, and customer psychology, she helps businesses create email strategies that connect and perform.

Connect with Liz:

Liz’s Website: https://lizwillits.com/

Liz’s LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/liz-willits/

Liz’s Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/lizwillits 

Liz’s Email: [email protected]

Resources Mentioned:

Liz’s Free Guide – How to Get Benchmark-Busting Email Open Rates: https://lizwillits.com/open-rate-guide/ 

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Most entrepreneurs spend years trapped by hidden beliefs, only to discover their biggest blind spots are right under their noses.

For Evan Charmichael, best-selling author, global speaker, and YouTube pioneer, inspiring belief isn’t a slogan; it’s a mission forged in the fires of real struggle. From selling his first biotech startup at age 22 to building one of the world’s largest entrepreneur communities, he’s lived the cycles of doubt and reinvention.

On this episode, Evan Charmichael sits down with Kevin St. Clergy to reveal how blind blaming keeps us from serving others, why growth is impossible without outside perspective, and the practical steps to break out of old patterns to step into meaningful impact.

In this episode, Kevin and Evan will discuss:

(02:39) Evan’s background

(06:56) Charge more, clarify offerings  

(10:42) Finding purpose beyond success  

(14:13) Embrace growth through imperfection  

(17:26) Purpose comes from pain  

(21:51) Expanding perspectives through coaching  

(24:15) Advice on belief and asking  

(25:29) Closing thoughts and resources

Evan Carmichael is an entrepreneur, author and keynote speaker who spends his life helping entrepreneurs succeed. At 19, he co-founded and later sold a biotech software company, and by 22, he was raising venture capital for startups. Since then, he’s built a popular personal-growth and business brand, running a widely followed YouTube channel, writing books, and speaking globally, all rooted in his mission to make self-belief “automatic.”

Connect with Evan:

Evan’s YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@EvanCarmichael 

Evan’s Website: https://believe.evancarmichael.com/homepage 

Resources Mentioned:

Built To Serve by Evan Charmichael: https://www.amazon.com/dp/1642934917

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What if the biggest obstacle in your life isn’t what you think it is? Sometimes, the fears and “hidden truths” holding us back are tucked deep inside, only revealed when we’re willing to look beyond our inner monologue.

Elizabeth McCormick knows this firsthand. A former US Army Black Hawk helicopter pilot turned bestselling author and keynote speaker, she’s spent years translating high-stakes lessons from military command to everyday leadership and resilience.

Elizabeth joins Kevin St. Clergy to trace the surprising power of awareness – how blind spots stall growth, why fear (of success or failure) quietly rules our lives, and the practical, no-nonsense ways to reclaim your story and truly lead from within.

In this episode, Kevin and Elizabeth will discuss:

(04:40) “My helicopter, my command”

(08:50) Overcoming fear to find purpose

(10:48) Fear of success vs failure

(15:07) Corporate leadership vs military training

(16:31) Personal leadership and awareness

(21:02) Testing content like comedians

(23:37) Soft selling at events

(28:41) Testing stories through speaking

(30:45) Ethical publishing for new authors

(32:45) Empowerment through audience feedback

(36:17) Engaging the audience with key phrases

Elizabeth McCormick is a former U.S. Army Black Hawk helicopter pilot turned award-winning leadership speaker and author. Drawing on high-pressure military experience, she teaches leaders how to perform under pressure, communicate clearly and build strong teams. A sought-after keynote speaker, she is known for translating aviation lessons into practical strategies for business and personal success.

Connect with Elizabeth:

Elizabeth’s Website: https://yourinspirationalspeaker.com/

Elizabeth’s LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/pilotspeaker/ 

Resources Mentioned:

The P.I.L.O.T. Method by Elizabeth McCormick: https://www.amazon.com/dp/1629030082

Bookability Factor by Elizabeth McCormick:https://www.amazon.com/dp/B07D2M5H3V

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What if chasing traditional success is actually holding you back from real fulfillment? Elyse Archer hit all the markers: top sales, a dream house, a picture-perfect life, yet found herself anxious, empty, and stuck. It took hitting a personal crossroads to realize that true transformation starts with rewriting your own story.

As a sought-after sales and business mindset coach, Elyse Archer guides entrepreneurs and high performers to master their inner game, build authentic brands, and shift their relationship with money. She’s the founder of Supersize Life and a dynamic voice in the growth space.

In this episode, Elyse Archer joins Kevin St. Clergy for a candid conversation about breaking free from self-imposed limitations, selling from wholeness, and the pivotal power of living a life true to yourself – not one defined by others’ expectations.

In this episode, Kevin and Elyse will discuss:

(04:21) Embracing change and growth

(09:18) Redefining success and fulfillment

(10:55) Aligning mindset for wealth

(16:00) Transformational power of inner work

(19:25) Breaking barriers and embracing success

(21:07) Trust intuition over opinions

(25:55) Soul's calling and transformation

(29:50) Awareness and embracing growth

(33:05) Transforming through positive identity

(36:54) Inner child work transformation

(38:49) Own your success confidently

(42:30) How Elyse 10X’d her growth in six weeks

Elyse Archer is the founder of Superhuman Selling and She Sells, helping entrepreneurs and sales professionals rethink how they sell and grow their income. A Salesforce Top Influencer featured in Forbes and Inc, she teaches clients to sell using their natural strengths while building wealth. Elyse is an international keynote speaker and host of She Sells Radio, sharing insights from high-performing female entrepreneurs and sales leaders.

Connect with Elyse:

Elyse’s Website: https://elysearcher.com/ 

Elyse’s LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/elysearcher

Super Human Selling Podcast: https://open.spotify.com/show/34yp0GfjX1ERkUhKyR8zCl

She Sells: https://shesellsremote.com/

Superhuman Selling: 

Resources Mentioned:

The Top Five Regrets of the Dying by Bronnie Ware: https://www.amazon.com/dp/140194065X 

Amberly Lago: https://amberlylago.com/ 

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