In this episode, we explore why taking a family approach to therapy can be one of the most powerful ways to create lasting change—especially for families navigating divorce.

We talk about how parents often come into therapy hoping the counselor will “see” their perspective or prove the other parent wrong. But real healing begins when we shift the focus toward curiosity, trust, and the bigger picture of family well-being.

We remind parents that growth rarely happens inside our comfort zones. This season of divorce may feel overwhelming, but it won’t last forever. The question to keep in mind is: What kind of future do you want for your child—and how can you help create it, starting now?

Whether you’re in the middle of divorce or finding your footing afterward, this conversation offers encouragement and practical perspective for the road ahead.

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Love doesn’t always end when a marriage does—and that leftover love can show up in surprising ways during co-parenting. In this episode, we share some of the things we, as counselors, notice when one or both parents may still be in love with the other. Sometimes it shows up not as affection, but as intense anger. We talk about how people often set you up to feel what they’re feeling, and how holding onto past pain can create even more challenges in your co-parenting relationship.

We also discuss three key practices that not only improve co-parenting but also help you heal: being vulnerable, speaking your truth, and staying flexible. Vulnerability can feel risky—many parents fear their ex will use it against them—but the reality is, if someone wants to use something against you, they will regardless. By choosing to be vulnerable, you create the possibility for deeper healing and may even open the door for your co-parent to soften and be vulnerable, too.

If you’ve ever wondered why it feels so hard to fully move forward after divorce, or if old wounds keep showing up in your co-parenting relationship, this episode will give you clarity and practical steps to begin healing.

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Forgiveness is one of the most powerful yet misunderstood parts of healing after divorce. In this episode, we explore what forgiveness truly is—and what it isn’t. Forgiveness is about letting go of anger and hurt, finding peace instead of seeking revenge, and releasing the other person’s power over your emotions. Just as importantly, forgiveness is not about approving of hurtful or harmful behavior, or pretending you weren’t hurt.

Why does forgiveness matter? Because it’s vital for your own healing, your ability to co-parent effectively, and your overall health and wellbeing. We also dive into the “how” of forgiveness: separating the person from the pain, processing the hurt feelings, finding meaning in the experience, creating boundaries that protect your peace, and remembering that forgiveness is for you—not for them.

If you’re ready to loosen the grip of the past and step into more freedom, this episode will guide you toward a better understanding of what forgiveness can look like in your journey.

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The back-to-school season can feel overwhelming for any family—and even more so when you’re navigating co-parenting. In this episode, we dive into how parents can support their child’s school life while managing life between two homes.

We talk about why school routines matter and how to keep them consistent across households. You’ll hear a simple rule of thumb for when parents don’t agree on rules, and we discuss why it’s so important that both parents have access to school apps, portals, and records. We also share practical ways to approach school staff with co-parenting concerns or court orders, along with tips for communicating with your child about their school day. Finally, we reflect on the importance of thanking and recognizing the educators and school staff who play such an important role in your child’s life.

Whether you’re just starting your co-parenting journey or have been navigating it for years, this episode will give you strategies to help your child feel supported, secure, and ready to thrive in the classroom.

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Divorce is more than a legal process—it's an emotional rollercoaster. In this powerful episode, we unpack the Top 5 Fears in Divorce that so many parents silently carry.

We explore common emotional fears, including:

Being alone

Regret and doubt

Loneliness and second-guessing yourself ("Could I have saved this?" or "Was this a mistake?")

Anxiety about finding love again

We also dive into financial fears, such as:

Supporting yourself and your children

Adjusting your lifestyle

Managing legal fees and ongoing expenses

These fears can be overwhelming—and if left unaddressed, they may unintentionally impact your child, influence how others perceive you, and lead to judgment, shame, or emotional instability.

In this episode, we offer ways to work through those fears and shift your focus back to what matters most: your child’s well-being. We talk about how fear can show up in parenting, and how to avoid letting it drive your decisions or interactions.

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When you walk into court-ordered counseling expecting support—and find yourself at odds with the therapist’s approach—it can feel like everything is working against your goals. In this episode, This Isn’t What I Asked For, we explore the tension that can arise when a parent’s expectations don’t align with the counselor’s role or the court’s intention.

We dive into the different types of counseling often ordered in family court, including:

Family therapy

Co-parenting counseling

Reunification therapy

Individual therapy

We unpack common misalignments, such as:

Expecting advocacy from the therapist vs. their neutral role

A resistant child vs. the court’s reunification goals

Confusion around blame and responsibility

The financial burden of mandated services

You'll learn how to navigate these challenges by:

Setting clear expectations from the start

Defining the court order in writing

Building rapport with the therapist

Looping in your attorney when needed

Prioritizing transparency and your child’s best interest

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What does it really mean to win in family court?

In this episode, we dive into what winning looks like—from three unique perspectives: an

internet search engine, a family law attorney, and a therapist. While each viewpoint offers

different strategies and advice, one message is clear across the board: Keep the focus on your

child and what is best for them.

We’re not attorneys or therapists ourselves, and this episode is not intended to provide legal or

mental health advice. Instead, we want to validate what you may already be doing right—and

offer guidance on what to avoid and prioritize as you navigate the court system.

In this episode, we discuss:

• What the internet says it takes to win a family court case (and why you should take it

with a grain of salt)

• A lawyer’s perspective on how judges really evaluate decisions

• How a therapist frames what’s in the best interest of the child—and how that influences

outcomes

• Actions that can help (or hurt) your case emotionally, legally, and personally

Whether you're just beginning your family court journey or deep in the process, this conversation

offers clarity, reassurance, and practical insight to help you center your child’s well-being

through it all.

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In this episode, we welcome Dr. Robinson back to the podcast! Together, Dr. Robinson and Armando dive into the emotional landmines of blended families—especially the tension that often arises between biological parents and stepparents. If you've ever heard (or said), "Why does my mom hate my stepmom?"—this one's for you.

We explore the underlying dynamics that make these relationships so complex, including:

Emotional loyalty binds and how kids get caught in the middle

Common reasons why biological parents may resent or distrust a stepparent

How stepparents can build trust without overstepping

The difference between showing up and taking over

Why “staying in your lane” doesn’t mean being uninvolved

Whether you're a stepparent trying to find your footing, a co-parent struggling with resentment, or a young person trying to understand the tension between the adults in your life, this episode offers real talk, compassionate insight, and practical tools for making it work.

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We’re bringing back your #1 favorite episode of all time—and for good reason. This one is packed with practical tools and a step-by-step process to help you have more productive, collaborative conversations with your co-parent—even when things feel tense or communication feels impossible.

In this episode, Michael Flores, LPC-S and Dr. Jacobie Robinson, Ph.D., LPC-S break down how to approach tough conversations with clarity and intention. You’ll learn:

✅ How to manage your emotions so you can respond—not react

✅ The power of “Yes, if…” and how it can shift a stuck dynamic

✅ A simple but effective 4-step conversation starter that works, even in high-conflict situations

Michael’s method includes:

Expressing gratitude

Stating a shared value

Naming where you agree

Asking a “no”-oriented question

Whether it’s your first time hearing this or your fifth, this one is worth every minute.

Hit play—and don’t be afraid to listen twice.

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What do you do when co-parenting requires trust—but you don’t have it? In this episode, we unpack one of the hardest truths of divorce and shared parenting: trust isn’t always present, but collaboration still needs to happen.

We explore the Trust Formula—Consistency + Predictability, Over Time = Trust—and what it means when you're the one who needs to give trust… or the one trying to earn it back. Whether you're feeling hesitant or working to repair the relationship, this conversation gives you tools, language, and clarity for moving forward.

We’ll walk you through:

-The difference between not trusting and being afraid to trust

-Why letting your co-parent solve problems (instead of doing it all yourself) builds trust—and how to say that out loud

-A 3-step process with key questions to help you decide if you’re ready to take a step toward trust

-How to show up consistently if you're working to rebuild the trust you’ve lost

-The role of vulnerability in earning and extending trust

This episode is full of real talk, practical tools, and compassionate guidance to help you rebuild what’s been broken—for the good of your kids and your peace of mind.

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