In this deeply meaningful episode, I sit down with Dr. Vanessa Scaringi—licensed psychologist, certified eating disorder specialist, and co-owner of CALM Counseling in Austin, Texas—for a conversation that feels both grounding and transformative.

Vanessa brings her relational approach to the forefront as we explore what it really means to feel connected—to ourselves, to others, and to our relationship with food. We dive into her upcoming book, Hungry for Connection, and unpack the powerful themes behind it.

Together, we talk about perfectionism and rigidity, and how these patterns quietly shape our relationships—with both people and food. Vanessa shares insight into hunger cues, fullness cues, and the experience of “food noise,” helping us better understand what our bodies are trying to communicate.

We also explore the practice of slowing down—learning how to eat with intention, reconnect with our needs, and step out of autopilot. Vanessa speaks candidly about loneliness and disconnection, and how these experiences can pull us away from what we truly need, both emotionally and physically.

This episode is filled with practical tools, thoughtful reflections, and moments that will leave you seeing your relationship with food—and yourself—in a new light.
 

Call to Action:
Vanessa’s book Hungry for Connection officially releases October 1, 2026, and it’s a must-read for anyone looking to heal their relationship with food and deepen their connection to themselves and others. Pre-order your copy now to be among the first to experience this powerful guide—and take a meaningful step toward more connected living.

I truly can’t wait to hold this book—and I know you’ll feel the same after listening.

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