What were your first swinger experiences really like? A listener couple just entering the swinger lifestyle dropped that question in our anonymous confessional, and Adam & Pris answer it with zero filter. From a drunk Halloween party that went completely sideways to a first full swap that turned into a lifelong friendship, this is the ethical non-monogamy origin story we've never told on the show — mistakes, jealousy, death glares, and all.

In this episode:

• The Halloween party "non-experience" that almost ended everything — and the boxes every new ENM couple must check first (sober, communicating, on the same page)
• Pris's first single-guy experience, nerves on all sides, and why the equipment failing is almost never about you
• Adam's unauthorized round two — and the look Pris gave him that he calls "visual cyanide"
• The full swap couple who became forever favorites
• The strangest swap of all time: a historic mansion, uncontrollable laughter, and a velociraptor impression we cannot unsee
• Jealousy, disconnecting, and the communication lessons that saved their marriage

Got a confession? Leave it anonymously at beyond-monogamy.com — where you'll also find every past episode, clips, the blog, and the merch store. Catch our FREE livestream every Thursday at 7PM Central, right on the website.

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Birthdays hit different in the swinger lifestyle. On this quickie episode of Beyond Monogamy, Adam & Pris recap Adam's entire birthday weekend — from free sopapillas and a taco-house serenade to a full-blown celebration at their home club that proves ethical non-monogamy knows how to throw a party.

In this episode of your favorite swinger podcast:

• Birthday breakfast at Eddie's Taco House, where Adam campaigned like a politician for free sopapillas
• An intimate dinner with three other couples — and Adam's very honest confession about where his mind goes at the table
• Their friend Ray and her famous bag of toys: why so many women say no, and why Pris says yes
• Kink vs. fetish — Pris finally settles which one exhibitionism is (for her, anyway)
• THC lemonade math gone wrong: Pris gets sent to the moon
• Midnight lap dances, a double birthday treat, and the moment Pris created a scene straight off a vintage VHS cover
• The Odyssey, new-job news, and why the sexiest plans sometimes lose to cold sheets and leftover pizza

Whether you're new to the swinger lifestyle, curious about open relationships, or a longtime ENM couple, this non-monogamy podcast episode is a fun, candid look at how one real couple celebrates — together and with friends.

Watch us LIVE: Every Thursday at 7PM Central, totally free, at beyond-monogamy.com — chat with us in real time. Replays live on our Patreon, along with ways to support the show.

Also on FullSwapRadio: Catch us Thursdays at 2PM and 7PM Central at fullswapradio.com alongside a whole lineup of adult podcasters.

Upcoming event: We're doing a LIVE show in February from Krazy Winter Nights, hosted by Krazy Kasbh and Full Swap Radio! Use code BEYOMONO at krazykasbh.com for a discount — yes, it's spelled that way. We'd love to meet you there.

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Got a confession, question, or story? Drop it (anonymously if you like) at beyond-monogamy.com — you might hear it on a future episode.

Swinger? Poly? Friends with benefits? If you've ever mixed them up, you're in good company — Adam's own barber had no clue. This week on Beyond Monogamy, real-life couple Adam & Pris break down the real differences between swinging, polyamory, and friends with benefits in the ethical non-monogamy (ENM) world — from a couple who has lived all three and collected a few red flags along the way.

In this episode:

• Why so many swingers think they want polyamory… when what they really want is friends with benefits
• Adam & Pris's five years of poly: unicorn hunting, red flags, and the girlfriend who texted way too much
• Pris's journey from not knowing her worth to discovering her inner dom
• The Great Date Debate: why "date" is now a forbidden word in their house (say hello to the "meetup")
• Jealousy in open relationships, hierarchy, and the rules they hold sacred — no vacations with others, no showering with others (unless it's content)
• Could they ever date another couple? The empty-nester master plan

Whether you're lifestyle-curious, a seasoned swinger, or somewhere on the open relationship spectrum, this candid, funny conversation will help you figure out which flavor of non-monogamy actually fits — before you learn it the hard way like we did.

Join us LIVE: Free livestream every Thursday, 7–8 PM Central at beyond-monogamy.com — full episodes, the blog, merch, and our 100% anonymous confessional. You can also catch us on FullSwapRadio at fullswapradio.com every Thursday at 2 PM and 7 PM Central.

Come meet us: Krazy Winter Nights in Kansas City, February 19–21, 2027 — use code BEYOMONO for your discount. https://www.krazykasbh.com

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What actually makes a swinger club great? On this Wednesday QUICKIE, Adam & Pris throw open the doors of their home club — Club Eden San Antonio — for a candid, laugh-out-loud review of everything a lifestyle club should be. Whether you're a seasoned swinger or just ethical non-monogamy curious, consider this your field guide to on-premise club life.

In this episode:

• The #1 thing to look for in any swinger club (hint: it's not the dance floor)
• Why vigilant staff make or break a lifestyle club — and the single-men policy that keeps the playroom comfortable
• The ladies' restroom that's basically a rite of passage, stocked with wipes, mouthwash, and photo-op lighting
• The infamous toilet paper story from their very first club visit — Pris's nightmare scenario, fully realized
• BYOB culture, Jell-O shot generosity, relaxed dress codes, and dancing naked from the front door
• The BDSM room, the spanking bench Adam insists is a "horse," and the porn room that delivered seven orgasms
• Why you should ALWAYS tip the hardworking playroom "chambermaids"
• Loaded fries, pizza, and a friendly warning about eating before you play

If you've ever wondered what an open relationship night out looks like — or how to judge a swinger club before you commit — this ENM podcast quickie has you covered.

Join us LIVE: Free livestream every Thursday, 7–8 PM Central, at beyond-monogamy.com — full episodes, the blog, merch, and our 100% anonymous confessional. You can also catch us on FullSwapRadio at fullswapradio.com, Thursdays at 2 PM and 7 PM Central.

Come see us: Krazy Winter Nights — Kansas City, February 19–21, 2027. Use code BEYOMONO for a discount! krazykasbh.com

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This one's serious, y'all — but it's a conversation the swinger lifestyle needs. Adam & Pris pull back the curtain on one of the darkest corners of ethical non-monogamy: sexual predators in the lifestyle. It's not the highlight reel, but after seeing too much of it lately, they're saying the quiet part out loud.

In this episode of Beyond Monogamy, the swinger podcast for lifestyle-curious couples and ENM veterans alike:

• What actually makes a predator — the difference between an awkward newbie's mistake and a genuine pattern of circumventing consent
• The red flags: pushing past a "no," repeat asking to wear someone down, escalating touch without checking in, using alcohol to lower guards, and pressuring one half of a couple when the other said no
• The saga of the drunk single guy (and his big box of White Claws) who creeped out the whole club — and how a great club staff handled it
• The gut-punch of realizing people you called friends were grooming newbies and targeting the newly single
• Adam & Pris debate: do you blast a known predator to the community, or is that not your job? (Spoiler: Adam is not swinger Batman)
• Why CNC dynamics mean things aren't always what they look like — and the look that tells you something is genuinely wrong
• How to protect yourself: speaking up, partner check-ins, reading the room, and why verification (SDC, 3Fun, video-verified groups) matters in open relationships

Hang out with us LIVE: Free livestream every Thursday at 7PM Central at beyond-monogamy.com — plus every past episode, the blog, the merch, and our 100% anonymous confessional. Full livestream replays are a Patreon-only perk.

Also streaming Thursdays at 2PM & 7PM Central on Full Swap Radio — fullswapradio.com.

Come party with us: Crazy Casba's Crazy Winter Nights 2027 is happening in February and we're doing LIVE shows! Lock in your spot at crazycasba.com with code BEYOMONO for a discount.

And next Saturday we're celebrating Adam's birthday at Club Eden in San Antonio — sign up on their site, come find our couches, and say hello. We love meeting listeners!

Beyond Monogamy with Adam & Pris — real talk on the swinger lifestyle, ethical non-monogamy, and open relationships.

Slut. It used to be the worst thing you could call someone. On this Wednesday Quickie, swinger lifestyle veterans Adam & Pris grab the S-word by the collar and ask: what actually makes someone slutty — and why are we still letting a word from the 1400s do our thinking for us?

In this candid ethical non-monogamy (ENM) conversation, the real-life couple behind Beyond Monogamy digs into slut-shaming, double standards, and why the swinger community doesn't just tolerate sluttiness — it celebrates it.

In this episode:

• Pris gets called a slut in sixth grade — and again as a freshman, for not giving it up
• The actual Merriam-Webster definition of "slut" and its 1400s origin story
• Alcohol vs. weed: which one actually lowers your inhibitions?
• Adam's hotwife kink and consensual "cheating" fetish — and what happens when the fantasy talk ends
• Pris discovers her "hot husband" dominant side ("You can borrow him. He's coming back.")
• Is being touchy-feely slutty? Is teasing? The couple debates what counts as slutty behavior
• The double standard: what do you call a man who acts the same way? "Just a man, baby."
• Slut-shaming inside the lifestyle — yes, it happens, and it's ridiculous

Watch us LIVE: Every Thursday at 7PM Central at beyond-monogamy.com — full episodes, the blog, merch, and our 100% anonymous confessional. Drop your lifestyle, ENM, or kink confessions and we might read them on air!

Also streaming on FullSwapRadio: Catch us at fullswapradio.com Thursdays at 2PM and 7PM Central.

Come see us: We'll be at Krazy Winter Nights in Kansas City, February 19–21, 2027! www.krazykasbh.com | Use code BEYOMONO for your discount.

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Kink 101: Fetish vs. Kink, Power Exchange & Hot Wifing with The Kink Consultant

We're stepping outside our usual non-monogamy lane and into the wide, wild world of kink with special guest Amanda Dames, aka The Kink Consultant. Amanda is a certified somatic sex & relationship coach and sexologist (and former NYC dominatrix!) who breaks down the real difference between a "kink" and a "fetish," why labels actually help you find yourself, and how power exchange, hot wifing, pre-claiming, and reclaiming sex all fit on the same spectrum. We also get into the light-bulb communication hack that took Adam's breath away, healthy boundaries around aftercare, and why justice might be Pris's real kink.

• Kink vs. fetish: what's actually the difference
• Amanda's journey from curious kid to NYC pro-domme to kink coach
• Foot fetishes, power exchange, and why "normal" kink is a spectrum
• The $20 light bulb trick for signaling dominant energy
• Hot wifing vs. hot husbanding, pre-claiming and reclaiming sex
• Compartmentalizing fantasy without cheating
• Aftercare, boundaries, and honest communication in ENM relationships

• Website: amandadames.com (grab her free guide, "Speaking Your Desires With Confidence")
• Podcast: The Kink Consultant Podcast
• Instagram: @the_kinkconsultant
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• Email: [email protected]
• Meet Amanda in Jamaica: swingcation.com - use code TKC50

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• Website: beyond-monogamy.com - full episode library, listener confessionals, and our brand-new live show launching soon
• Streaming Radio: Catch us live every Thursday at 2:00 PM & 7:00 PM Central on Full Swap Radio
• Beyond Monogamy Live at Club Eden San Antonio - join us in person!
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Beyond Monogamy with Adam & Pris — This week's Quickie tackles one of the most relatable topics in ethical non-monogamy: that flash of jealousy that hits in the moment, even when everything else feels solid.

An anonymous listener sent in a voicemail describing a familiar scene: a good time at a pool party or meet-and-greet, a partner doing something he thought he was okay with... and then that sudden hand squeeze or whispered "please don't." Adam and Pris read the voicemail live and dig into it — no filter, no judgment.

• Why in-the-moment jealousy is normal (even for people who don't consider themselves jealous)
• The "code" system Adam & Pris use to signal discomfort without killing the vibe
• How alcohol lowers inhibitions AND lowers your ability to process what you're feeling
• Why you shouldn't feel guilty for pulling back, even when your partner "attends to you well"
• The one time Adam & Pris broke up over a jealousy fight — and what fixed it

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Catch us at Krazy Winter Nights KC, February 19–21, 2027 — grab tickets at krazykasbh.com and use code BEYOMONO for a discount.

Catch us live on Full Swap Radio every Thursday at 2:00 PM and 7:00 PM Central at fullswapradio.com. And coming soon: our own live show, Thursdays 7–8 PM Central right on our website!

Visit beyond-monogamy.com for the full episode library, our listener confessional line, upcoming events, and everything Beyond Monogamy. Got a question, confession, or "does anyone else do this" moment? Leave us a voicemail — you might end up on a future Quickie!

She's been with over a dozen people in the lifestyle — and has never once had an orgasm with any of them. Meanwhile, her husband comes every time. More than once. At the club.

This week, Adam & Pris dive headfirst into one of the most common — and least talked-about — issues in the lifestyle: the orgasm gap. Is it a vetting problem? A communication problem? A men-are-oblivious problem? (Spoiler: yes, yes, and yes.)

• Why the orgasm gap is real — and gets worse in the lifestyle
• Why she comes easily at home but not at the club
• How to vet for pleasure-focused partners
• The power of over-communication before you ever get to the back room
• Toys, body language, cheat codes, and how to advocate for your own pleasure
• Is everyone just out for themselves? Adam & Pris give the honest answer

Find everything Beyond Monogamy at beyond-monogamy.com — including our 100% anonymous confessional. Drop your story and it might become our next episode.

Catch us on fullswapradio.com every Thursday at 2PM & 7PM Central.

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Episode Summary: Things got real this week on Beyond Monogamy. Adam and Pris pull back the curtain on what it actually looks like when financial stress collides with the swinging lifestyle — missed events, killed libidos, emotional eating, and the very adult decision to stay home and pay the bills instead of living that highlight reel.

They open up about skipping Naughty N'awlins 2026 and the Port Aransas beach takeover, navigating life on one income, the struggle to grow an OnlyFans when you actually have a full-time job, and how stress messes with your sex drive more than anything else ever could. Plus: Pris's big three-career plan, her Series 65 journey, and the mystery of why Buddies THC drinks are the unlikely hero of their recent club nights.

Raw, honest, funny, and deeply relatable — this one's for every lifestyle couple who's ever had to choose between the club and the electric bill.

In This Episode:

• Why Adam and Pris had to cancel Naughty N'awlins and the beach takeover
• Living the lifestyle on one income — what's actually possible
• The OnlyFans reality check nobody talks about
• How financial stress tanks your libido (and what to do about it)
• Pris's plan: financial advisor + lifestyle event planner + secret project for women
• Why Buddies THC seltzers are now a club night staple
• The St. Andrew's Cross history lesson nobody asked for (but got anyway)

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