Beyond Vanilla

🎙️ Episode 12: Full Swap, Soft Swap & Shifting Dynamics

This week, we’re diving deep into the delicious world of dynamics and play styles in the lifestyle — from full swap to soft swap and all the spicy stops in between.

We’re breaking down:
🔄 Common lifestyle terminology (because it’s a lot at first, we know! Check out our tiktok for our lifestyle lingo 101 series)
💬 How different dynamics work for different people — and how they evolve
💑 Amy & Ben’s current journey of possibly shifting their boundaries (and how that convo’s going 👀)
💞 Darren & Emily’s evolution into their dynamic, what went right & wrong.
🔮 Plus: our predictions for the new season of Open House… filmed before it aired — and let’s just say, we clearly had a crystal ball 🪄

Whether you’re brand new or already exploring the lifestyle, this ep is full of insight, personal stories, and a whole lot of real talk from both perspectives.

💌 Don’t forget to grab our FREE Rules & Boundaries Quiz to help you figure out your own dynamic:
https://tr.ee/beyondvanilla

🎙️ Episode 11: Open House – 2 weekly breakdown.

🔞 This podcast is for adults only. We chat openly about sex, non-monogamy, and all things spicy — so if you're under 18 or not into frank conversations, this one's not for you.

We’ve just watched the last two episodes of Open House: The Great Sex Experiment on Channel 4 — and you know we’ve got opinions.

In this episode, we’re breaking down everything that went down on screen and how it stacks up against real-life in the non-monogamous lifestyle with our genuine experiences.

From awkward conversations to questionable editing choices, we're unpacking it all.

As always, expect:
💬 Our brutally honest takes
🔍 The good, the bad & the “that would never happen in real life”
🔥 A reality check from two happily married non-monogamous besties & their husbands.

Is Open House helping open minds — or just creating drama for views? Let’s get into it.

💌 Don’t forget to download our FREE Lifestyle Rules & Boundaries Quiz:
https://tr.ee/beyondvanilla

⚠️ Trigger Warning: Amy and Emily do speak about sexual assault in this episode. Please skip this one if that’s not something you’re comfortable hearing.

🔞 This podcast is for adults only. We chat openly about sex, non-monogamy, and all things spicy — so if you're under 18 or not into frank conversations, this one's not for you.

We’re back with more thoughts on Open House: The Great Sex Experiment — and this time, we’re joined by Ben, who’s giving us the much-needed male perspective on episodes 3 and 4.

After being very vocal about our disappointment with the first two episodes, we have just watched epsiode 3 & 4 so, what did we think? Did Channel 4 redeem itself — or are we still screaming at the screen?

We're diving into:

📺 What worked, what didn’t, and what still feels performative
🧠 Emotional safety, real communication, and lifestyle red flags
👀 Whether these episodes did a better job of showing what non-monogamy can actually look like
🧔 Ben’s take on what it’s like watching this as a lifestyle man

💌 Don’t forget to download our FREE lifestyle boundaries quiz to help you establish your own rules:
https://tr.ee/beyondvanilla

💋 Honest. Unfiltered. Passionate. And always Beyond Vanilla.

🔞 This podcast is for adults only. We chat openly about sex, non-monogamy, and all things spicy — so if you're under 18 or not into frank conversations, this one's not for you.

We're back for Part 2 of your juicy listener questions — and we’re bringing more laughs, more honesty, and a few spicy stories along the way!

This week, we’re diving into even more of your brilliant queries about non-monogamy, swinging, and everything that comes with living life Beyond Vanilla. Expect:
💌 Real answers to your real questions
😂 Hilarious stories we probably shouldn’t share
💡 Pearls of wisdom (aka “We did this so you don’t have to”)
✅ Actionable tips you can take into your own lifestyle journey

We’re here to make navigating non-monogamy feel a little less scary, a lot more fun, and 100% judgment-free. So grab a cuppa (or a cocktail), and let’s get into it.

📥 Don’t forget to download our FREE Rules & Boundaries Quiz:
https://tr.ee/beyondvanilla

💋 Honest. Playful. A bit chaotic. Always Beyond Vanilla.

🔞 This podcast is for adults only. We chat openly about sex, non-monogamy, and all things spicy — so if you're under 18 or not into frank conversations, this one's not for you.

This week on Beyond Vanilla, we’re diving into Channel 4’s Open House: The Great Sex Experiment — a show designed to introduce vanilla couples to non-monogamy. But as two happily married besties in thriving non-monogamous relationships, we have thoughts… and not all of them are good.

We waited until episode 2 aired to really dig in — giving you our take on what played out on screen, plus your opinions sent in via Instagram.

We’re unpacking:
📺 The good, the bad & the downright cringey moments
🎭 How the show may be using the hardest parts of the lifestyle to fuel drama
🧠 Why mindset, communication & boundaries are everything

🙃 And what mainstream media keeps getting wrong about non-monogamy

We love this lifestyle — and we’re not here for it being reduced to a TV ratings tool.

📥 Don’t forget to download our FREE rules & boundaries quiz to help you and your partner find your own way:
https://tr.ee/beyondvanilla

🎙 Episode 6: Let’s Talk – Communication, Mindset & Non-Monogamy

🔞 This podcast is for adults only. We chat openly about sex, non-monogamy, and all things spicy — so if you're under 18 or not into frank conversations, this one's not for you.

In this episode of Beyond Vanilla, we’re answering your burning questions about non-monogamy — from communication struggles to mindset shifts and everything in between.

We’re chatting about:💬 Why communication is everything in the lifestyle
💬 How to handle different communication styles
💬 The mindset it really takes to be a swinger
💬 Our own experiences with insecurity and growth
💬 Rules, boundaries & how to build them together

📝 Grab our FREE rules & boundaries guide to help you and your partner get clear on your yes, no & maybe list:
https://tr.ee/beyondvanilla

This is just Part 1 — we’ve got even more real talk coming next week in Part 2. So get comfy, grab a cuppa (or a cocktail), and come chat with us Beyond Vanilla.

🎙 Episode 5: Swingers on Tour – From Bliss Cruises to Butlins Chaos

🔞 This podcast is for adults only. We chat openly about sex, non-monogamy, and all things spicy — so if you're under 18 or not into frank conversations, this one's not for you.

Ready to pack your bags and spice up your holiday plans? In this week’s episode of Beyond Vanilla, Amy C and Emily Spice are diving into the wild, wonderful world of lifestyle holidays and swingers’ getaways.

Emily and her hubby Darren have literally just stepped off a Bliss Cruise (yes, the floating paradise for swingers) and they're giving us all the juicy details — from poolside antics to what really goes down after dark. 👀

We’re also spilling the tea on:
💋 What really happens at Butlins adult weekenders
💋 Swinger hotspots like PDI, cabin stays, and adult-only resorts
💋 Virgin Voyages cruises – are they lifestyle-friendly?

So whether you're dreaming of a naughty getaway or just curious about the lifestyle holiday scene, this episode is your passport to all the fun (and chaos) that comes with swinging on tour.

🎧 Press play, grab a cocktail, and let’s go Beyond Vanilla — swinger holiday edition.

🎙 Episode 4: Your Guide to Swingers Clubs

🔞 This podcast is for adults only. We chat openly about sex, non-monogamy, and all things spicy — so if you're under 18 or not into frank conversations, this one's not for you.

Curious about what really goes down inside a swinging club? 🍸👀 In this episode, Amy C and Emily Spice are giving you the full backstage pass to the world of swinging venues — from what to wear (and what not to!) to what you’ll find behind those mysterious playroom doors.

We’re chatting about:
💋 Different types of clubs & what to expect
💋 Swinger etiquette 101 (seriously, don’t skip this)
💋 Must-have items for your "swinging bag"
💋 Outfit tips to help you feel 🔥 and confident
💋 Men’s insecurities, common dilemmas & the not-so-secret chat about Viagra

Whether you’re a first-timer, a curious listener, or a seasoned pro looking for a laugh, we’re spilling everything you wish someone told you before stepping into the lifestyle.

No filter, lots of tips, and plenty of laughs — because we’re all about keeping it real (and a little bit naughty).

🎧 Tune in, take notes, and get ready to step Beyond Vanilla.

🎙 Episode 1: A Taste of Beyond Vanilla – Meet Your Hosts

🔞 This podcast is for adults only. We chat openly about sex, non-monogamy, and all things spicy — so if you're under 18 or not into frank conversations, this one's not for you.

Welcome to the very first episode of Beyond Vanilla! 🎉 Join your hosts, Amy C & Emily Spice, as we pull back the covers (literally and metaphorically) and share how we ended up living lives anything but ordinary.

We’re diving into:
💋 Our personal journeys into non-monogamy
💋 How our hubbies fit into the adventure
💋 Friendship, sex work, real talk — and plenty of spicy moments
💋 The stories we’d normally only tell after a few cocktails 🍸

Expect laughs, cheeky overshares, and a proper introduction to what Beyond Vanilla is really all about. Whether you’re curious, exploring, or just along for the ride — grab a cuppa (or something stronger) and join us!

🎧 A taste of life Beyond Vanilla awaits…

🎙 Episode 3: Swiping Beyond Vanilla – Apps, Websites & How to Connect.

🔞 This podcast is for adults only. We chat openly about sex, non-monogamy, and all things spicy — so if you're under 18 or not into frank conversations, this one's not for you.

Welcome to Episode 3 of the Beyond Vanilla Podcast! 🍸 Today we’re diving into the world of swinger apps and websites — where to find them, how to use them, and our top tips for making real connections.

With years of experience under our belts (and a few cheeky stories to share), we’re covering:
💋 The best sites & apps: Fab Swingers, Swinghub, We Are X & Playful Pineapple
💋 How to set up a killer profile that gets attention
💋 The do’s and don'ts of messaging other couples
💋 What happens after you match — and how to take things to the next level

Grab a cuppa or a cocktail, sit back, and let us guide you through everything you need to know for swinging success!

✨ Bonus: Download our FREE Lifestyle Quiz to help you set your rules and boundaries: https://tr.ee/beyondvanilla

Ready to swipe Beyond Vanilla? Let’s go! 🎧

The sites/apps we are talking about are:

Fab Swingers - Website

Swinghub - App

We Are X - App

Playful Pineapple - App