BIBLICAL HEALING | Confident, Childhood Trauma, Self-Esteem, Social Anxiety, Guilt, Resentment

Do your disagreements ever leave you feeling distant instead of united? 😔

This episode will cover how to handle marriage problems with Bible verses and how to handle conflict in marriage, without losing intimacy. 

We’re getting real about fighting fair in marriage—how to stop constant arguing, miscommunication, and emotional shutdowns from stealing your peace.

Micaiah shares a funny (and totally relatable) story from her own week and walks you through five biblical steps for handling conflict in marriage without losing intimacy or respect.

You’ll discover:

The secret power of the apology 

The trick to putting yourself in your husband’s shoes and seeing through his lens

The hidden cause behind chronic fighting in marriage

What Scripture says about handling conflict and hard conversations

Examples of how to blend your different conflict styles so your marriage becomes a team again

If you’re tired of arguing in marriage or struggling with communication problems, this episode will help you invite the Holy Spirit into your disagreements—so that even conflict can become a doorway to deeper connection.

Because a strong, Christ-centered marriage isn’t one without conflict—it’s one that learns to handle conflict God’s way.

What's Next? 

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Do you ever feel like no matter how much you plan, there’s never enough time? Like your to-do list keeps growing, but your quality time with your spouse keeps shrinking?

In this powerful conversation, Lissa Figgins shares why “time management” isn’t working—and what God really wants us to do instead. As a recovering busy-ness owner, Lissa helps Christian women stop trying to control time and start partnering with the One who created it.

She’ll show you how to shift from managing your time to stewarding it, how to stop living in hurry-mode, and how one simple question—“What is it time for?”—can change everything about the way you show up for your marriage, your kids, and your calling.

If you’ve ever felt stretched thin, constantly behind, or guilty for not doing enough, this episode will help you breathe again. You’ll walk away with a heart reset and a whole new way to look at your days.

About Lissa Figgins:

Lissa Figgins is a recovering BUSY-ness owner who UN-hurried her heart, finally letting go of her addiction to controlling time, multitasking, and always doing. Now her mission as a Scaling Strategist is helping busy Christian women business owners scale their revenue (+ results).  Instead of just managing time, she teaches how to multiply the 24 hours you are entrusted each day so that time is no longer your biggest obstacle, but your greatest opportunity for growth!

Lissa loves walking & talking, traveling & planning, reading & leading…plus lots of dark coffee + dark chocolate.

And most importantly, she speaks the truth that: YOU. HAVE. TIME.

Links Mentioned:

💻 REDEEM Her Time Balance Assessment

📱 REDEEM Her Time Phone Screensaver

🎧 REDEEM Her Time Podcast

Relevant Scriptures:

Ephesians 5:15–16

2 Corinthians 9:10–11

John 10:10

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Your Next Steps:

🩵 Book a 1:1 Emotional Healing Coaching Call

🤎 Join the Emotional Healing Facebook Group for prayer + support

🩷 Grab the free 30-Day Healing Strategy Quiz + Trigger Tracker

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Feeling a little disconnected and wondering how to bring back fun and friendship in your marriage—without spending a ton of money or making it another thing on your to-do list? You’re not alone, and this episode will help you find joy again with your spouse through cheap date night ideas in winter that build connection, laughter, and faith.

Inside this episode, Micaiah shares the best winter date night ideas for couples who want to feel close again, even when life feels busy or disconnected. From cozy winter at-home date ideas to simple outdoor moments, you’ll find practical ways to reconnect and enjoy your spouse in a way that feels lighthearted and meaningful.

If you’ve been craving quality time but feel stuck in a rut, these winter-time date night ideas are simple, realistic, and rooted in God’s design for connection. Whether you’re curled up on the couch for a winter date night at home or planning something fancier with your spouse, you’ll learn how to bring back romance—without pressure.

Fun and laughter are just as spiritual as prayer and Bible study in your marriage

Your Next Steps:

🩵 Book a 1:1 Emotional Healing Coaching Call

🤎 Join the Emotional Healing Facebook Group for prayer + support

🩷 Grab the free 30-Day Healing Strategy Quiz + Trigger Tracker

Loving the show? Don't Forget To Leave 5 Stars And A Written Review!  ⭐️⭐️⭐️⭐️⭐️

Learn More: micaiahgray.com 

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Are you tired of trying harder and getting the same old results in your marriage and faith? Learn why staying connected— not trying harder — is the secret to real change.

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“What Dying to Self Really Means for a Godly Wife”

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Your Next Steps:

🩵 Book a 1:1 Emotional Healing Coaching Call

🤎 Join the Emotional Healing Facebook Group for prayer + support

🩷 Grab the free 30-Day Healing Strategy Quiz + Trigger Tracker

Loving the show? Don't Forget To Leave 5 Stars And A Written Review!  ⭐️⭐️⭐️⭐️⭐️

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Are you tired of the world shouting, “Follow your heart!” when your spirit knows you’re called to follow Jesus?

If you’ve ever wondered what the true dying to self meaning is—or how to live it out as a biblical wife in your everyday life—this episode is for you.

In this episode, Micaiah unpacks what it really means to become a God-led woman in a world obsessed with self. You’ll discover how practical examples of dying to self can bring more peace and power into your marriage—not less. She shares how your mindset, heart posture, and accountability work together to shape your growth in your biblical wife responsibilities, helping you live out your biblical role in marriage with grace and confidence.

You’ll learn how to develop biblical wife characteristics and godly wife characteristics that reflect the heart of Christ, find freedom from control and fear, and walk out your biblical woman characteristics with peace and purpose.

Whether you’ve been wondering how to balance your biblical wife duties or simply want to grow as a godly wife, this episode will show you that surrender isn’t weakness—it’s your superpower.

Your Next Steps:

🩵 Book a 1:1 Emotional Healing Coaching Call

🤎 Join the Emotional Healing Facebook Group for prayer + support

🩷 Grab the free 30-Day Healing Strategy Quiz + Trigger Tracker

Loving the show? Don't Forget To Leave 5 Stars And A Written Review!  ⭐️⭐️⭐️⭐️⭐️

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Your Next Steps:

🩵 Book a 1:1 Emotional Healing Coaching Call

🤎 Join the Emotional Healing Facebook Group for prayer + support

🩷 Grab the free 30-Day Healing Strategy Quiz + Trigger Tracker

Loving the show? Don't Forget To Leave 5 Stars And A Written Review!  ⭐️⭐️⭐️⭐️⭐️

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Do you ever feel like no matter what you do, resentment keeps creeping back into your marriage? Like you’re trying to forgive, but the hurt just won’t go away, and it's left you struggling to show up as a good wife?

This episode is for the Christian wife who’s tired of living in that in-between place — loving her husband, but feeling distant from him — and is ready to find peace again.

In today’s episode, we’re talking about the choice every Christian wife faces: to resent or to respect. I’ll walk you through how to shift your heart posture, how to see your husband the way God does, and how to surrender control so true healing can begin.

If you’ve been stuck in survival mode or feel like you’re the only one trying, this episode will bring clarity, peace, and a God-led plan for real emotional healing in your marriage.

Links Mentioned in This Episode:

📖 Bible Study: Redefined- A Study on Identity In Christ

💬 Join the Facebook Group

🤩 Sign up for a Five-Day Communication Challenge

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What if you could replace Halloween with something that actually grows your family’s faith and joy instead of just skipping it altogether? 

In this special bonus episode, Micaiah shares how her family chooses not to celebrate Halloween—and what they do instead. You’ll hear her honest convictions, how she keeps it fun for her kids, and a creative alternative you can adapt to fit your own home.

It’s not about fear—it’s about walking in the Spirit, even when the world walks the other way.

Your Next Steps:

🩵 Book a 1:1 Emotional Healing Coaching Call

🤎 Join the Emotional Healing Facebook Group for prayer + support

🩷 Grab the free 30-Day Healing Strategy Quiz + Trigger Tracker

Loving the show? Don't Forget To Leave 5 Stars And A Written Review!  ⭐️⭐️⭐️⭐️⭐️

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How To Handle Your Husband’s Emotional Shutdowns Without Losing Your Confidence (Healing Anxious Reactions & Resentment in Marriage)

If emotional walls, silence, and disconnection are creeping into your marriage—if it feels like you’re living in a marriage without emotional intimacy—this episode is for you.

Today, we’re diving into what really causes a person to shut down emotionally—what causes a person to shut down emotionally—and how to break the cycle of the silent treatment in a marriage—God’s way.

You’ll learn a biblical framework to help you respond with grace when your spouse shuts down, instead of reacting from hurt or fear. We’ll talk about how to give space without losing connection, how to stop taking his silence personally, and how to invite the Holy Spirit to guide your words, your timing, and your peace.

If you’ve ever whispered, “Why won’t he just talk to me?”—this episode will show you a path toward healing a broken marriage and rebuilding trust, intimacy, and understanding.

What You’ll Learn:

Your Next Steps:

🩵 Book a 1:1 Emotional Healing Coaching Call

🤎 Join the Emotional Healing Facebook Group for prayer + support

🩷 Grab the free 30-Day Healing Strategy Quiz + Trigger Tracker

Loving the show? Don't Forget To Leave 5 Stars And A Written Review!  ⭐️⭐️⭐️⭐️⭐️

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Do you ever feel like no matter how hard you try, your marriage just isn’t changing? What if the real battle isn’t between you and your husband—but a spiritual one?

In this episode, Micaiah unpacks the hidden reason so many Christian marriages struggle: spiritual warfare and spiritual starvation. Through her own marriage restoration testimony and Bible scriptures on marriage, she shows you how to fight for your marriage God’s way. You’ll discover how marriage as a covenant changes everything, what biblical healing looks like, and simple, powerful steps you can take to save your marriage through prayer, fasting, and the Word. If you’ve been searching for a Bible verse to save your marriage or asking, “How do I save my marriage?”—this episode is for you.

Your Next Steps:

🩵 Book a 1:1 Emotional Healing Coaching Call

🤎 Join the Emotional Healing Facebook Group for prayer + support

🩷 Grab the free 30-Day Healing Strategy Quiz + Trigger Tracker

Loving the show? Don't Forget To Leave 5 Stars And A Written Review!  ⭐️⭐️⭐️⭐️⭐️

Learn More: micaiahgray.com 

Episode 45: Breaking Free From Resentment In A Marriage Before It Destroys You

Episode 50: Three Signs It's Time To Get Marriage Coaching Before It's "Too Late"

Episode 48: Want your husband to lead the family spiritually? 3 things that can bring him closer to God!

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