Danny Lavery welcomes Seth Dirlam, a law school career counselor.

Lavery and Dirlam offer advice to someone who is wondering how to stop resenting her best friends after a vacation gone awry. Another letter writer wants to support their friends who are figuring out their gender identities, without overstepping. 

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