You've seen the reels. The before-and-afters. The influencer who says DM me to find out more, and then sends you a link to buy a peptide stack.

This episode is about Retatrutide, known as Reta, and what's actually going on behind the content you're seeing. I'm not here to lecture you or tell you what to do with your body. But I do want to make sure you have the full picture before you make any decisions. Because there are some things those reels are not telling you.

I'm a registered counsellor and recovered binge eater, and I've watched this trend hit my community hard. I've had Australian women I work with bringing it up constantly. And here in New Zealand, while access is tight right now, the content is already everywhere. This episode is for anyone who's curious, considering it, or just trying to understand what all the noise is about.

In this episode:

• What Retatrutide actually is and where the science is at right now

• Why anything sold online as Reta is unregulated and what that means practically

• The difference between doctor-supervised GLP-1s and buying off a bio link

• What you're not seeing in those influencer reels

• Why I think this conversation goes deeper than just the peptide itself

• What lasting food freedom actually looks like and why it doesn't require risking your health

For my NZ and Australian listeners: I looked into this specifically for us. The content is already in our feeds. This is your heads up before the wave hits harder.

Referenced in this episode:

• Episodes 61 and 14 on GLP-1s and doing the mindset and behavioural work alongside them

• The Break Up programme: comment BREAKUP on Instagram for details

Resources and Goodies:

Everything lives here: ⁠https://linktr.ee/bingefreebestie⁠

The Food Freedom Vault: A taste of my Food Freedom Method at an accessible price point. 100+ recipes with no calorie counts, no guilt, and no foods off limits. Plus a real introduction to the five Food Freedom Groups, the framework behind everything I teach.

The Break Up: My signature 8-module programme that has helped 400+ women stop binge and emotional eating and find real food freedom. If you're ready to go all in on the healing, this is where we do the work together.

The Break Up: Inner Circle: Everything in The Break Up, plus direct access to me through private coaching sessions, a kickstart call, and priority support. For women who want the highest level of personalised support on their recovery.

Embrace Your Body Workbook: My workbook going deeper on the four biggest behavioural drivers of body dissatisfaction, with evidence-based tools for each, plus a look at the cultural forces behind body shame. The companion to the body image work we talk about in this episode.

If this episode resonated:

Come find me on Instagram ⁠⁠@bingefreebestie ⁠⁠and let me know.

If you loved this episode, please leave a review and hit subscribe. It genuinely helps more women find this podcast, and that's the whole point. 💜

The Binge Free Bestie Podcast is hosted by Nic, registered counsellor and recovered binge eater. Content shared in this podcast is educational in nature and is not a substitute for individualised therapeutic support.

Chapters:

00:00 Introduction

04:07 Why Peptide Weight Loss Trends Are Getting Dangerous

04:46 The “Reta” Peptide Wave Coming For Your Feed

06:44 What Is Retatrutide

07:13 What The Research Actually Says

08:32 I Tested The Peptide Sales Funnel So You Don’t Have To

10:59 GLP-1s, Body Autonomy & Doing The Mindset Work

12:47 The Real Danger Of Buying Peptides From Influencers

13:20 The Body Image Trap

16:48 Retatrutide Side Effects

19:06 What’s Really Driving The Desire To Risk Your Health

21:38 Talk To A Real Doctor, Not A Wellness Influencer

23:12 The Breakup: Food Freedom Without The Next Quick Fix

24:06 Final Thoughts

Hilary Duff. Times Square. "Stronger, not smaller." I saw it and felt genuinely warm. Then I sat with it longer.

This episode is about why that campaign is a better message, and why it's still not the whole picture. We talk about the 2000s body image era millennials grew up in, thin privilege and who gets to front campaigns about body change, and why swapping "I want to be smaller" for "I want to be stronger" can quietly become the same wound with better branding.

I also get into what joyful movement actually looks like, how to want strength without it becoming another way to beat yourself up, and the client story that completely reframes why she was going to the gym.

You're allowed to want to feel strong. You're also allowed to want none of it. This episode is about making sure whatever you choose comes from care, not punishment.

Resources and Goodies:

Everything lives here: ⁠https://linktr.ee/bingefreebestie⁠

The Food Freedom Vault: A taste of my Food Freedom Method at an accessible price point. 100+ recipes with no calorie counts, no guilt, and no foods off limits. Plus a real introduction to the five Food Freedom Groups, the framework behind everything I teach.

The Break Up: My signature 8-module programme that has helped 400+ women stop binge and emotional eating and find real food freedom. If you're ready to go all in on the healing, this is where we do the work together.

The Break Up: Inner Circle: Everything in The Break Up, plus direct access to me through private coaching sessions, a kickstart call, and priority support. For women who want the highest level of personalised support on their recovery.

Embrace Your Body Workbook: My workbook going deeper on the four biggest behavioural drivers of body dissatisfaction, with evidence-based tools for each, plus a look at the cultural forces behind body shame. The companion to the body image work we talk about in this episode.

If this episode resonated:

Come find me on Instagram ⁠⁠@bingefreebestie ⁠⁠and let me know.

If you loved this episode, please leave a review and hit subscribe. It genuinely helps more women find this podcast, and that's the whole point. 💜

The Binge Free Bestie Podcast is hosted by Nic, registered counsellor and recovered binge eater. Content shared in this podcast is educational in nature and is not a substitute for individualised therapeutic support.

The women in your life weren't trying to mess you up. They genuinely thought they were helping. But some of what they said, about food, about bodies, about their own thighs , stuck. And now you're carrying it.

This episode is about breaking that chain.

I've got Dr Chelsea Arnold back on the pod. She's a clinical psych who specialises in eating and body image, and she's also a mum doing the exact work we're talking about in real time. We get into four things she'd stop doing tomorrow if she could, and how to course-correct when you slip up. Because you will. We both will.

By the end you'll know why "good food, bad food" language causes more damage than you'd think, what to say instead when your kid comments on someone else's body, and why criticising your own body out loud in front of a young person is one of the most powerful things you can change.

Resources and Goodies:

Connect With Dr Chelsea:

@drchelseaarnold

The Berite App, free on App Store and Google Play: https://www.bertieapp.io/download

Chelsea's article on modelling healthy eating and body image habits: https://theconversation.com/how-to-model-good-eating-and-body-image-habits-for-your-kids-279443

Previous episode with Chelsea on tracking and monitoring: Episode 23- Why Tracking Calories Might Be Fueling Your Binge Eating (And What to Do Instead). https://open.spotify.com/episode/5o9555d2xpHj6iRyEZOyoZ?si=7hfC9Zc2REq4zR8BnL1iGg

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Everything Binge Free Bestie lives here: ⁠https://linktr.ee/bingefreebestie⁠

The Food Freedom Vault: A taste of my Food Freedom Method at an accessible price point. 100+ recipes with no calorie counts, no guilt, and no foods off limits. Plus a real introduction to the five Food Freedom Groups, the framework behind everything I teach.

The Break Up: My signature 8-module programme that has helped 400+ women stop binge and emotional eating and find real food freedom. If you're ready to go all in on the healing, this is where we do the work together.

The Break Up: Inner Circle: Everything in The Break Up, plus direct access to me through private coaching sessions, a kickstart call, and priority support. For women who want the highest level of personalised support on their recovery.

Embrace Your Body Workbook: My workbook going deeper on the four biggest behavioural drivers of body dissatisfaction, with evidence-based tools for each, plus a look at the cultural forces behind body shame. The companion to the body image work we talk about in this episode.

If this episode resonated:

Come find me on Instagram ⁠⁠@bingefreebestie ⁠⁠and let me know.

If you loved this episode, please leave a review and hit subscribe. It genuinely helps more women find this podcast, and that's the whole point. 💜

The Binge Free Bestie Podcast is hosted by Nic, registered counsellor and recovered binge eater. Content shared in this podcast is educational in nature and is not a substitute for individualised therapeutic support.

Dopamine Did It. Not You.

Short episode. Big shift.

If you've spent years thinking you have no willpower around food, this episode is going to reframe everything. I break down what dopamine actually does in the brain, why certain foods and situations create automatic urges you didn't choose, and why every diet you've tried has been working against your neurology, not with it.

You'll walk away with one strategy. The pattern interrupt. It's simple, it's backed by science, and it works with how your brain is actually wired.

This isn't about eating less. It's about understanding why you eat the way you do, and what you can actually do about it.

Resources and Goodies:

Everything lives here: https://linktr.ee/bingefreebestie

The Food Freedom Vault: A taste of my Food Freedom Method at an accessible price point. 100+ recipes with no calorie counts, no guilt, and no foods off limits. Plus a real introduction to the five Food Freedom Groups, the framework behind everything I teach.

The Break Up: My signature 8-module programme that has helped 400+ women stop binge and emotional eating and find real food freedom. If you're ready to go all in on the healing, this is where we do the work together.

The Break Up: Inner Circle: Everything in The Break Up, plus direct access to me through private coaching sessions, a kickstart call, and priority support. For women who want the highest level of personalised support on their recovery.

Embrace Your Body Workbook: My workbook going deeper on the four biggest behavioural drivers of body dissatisfaction, with evidence-based tools for each, plus a look at the cultural forces behind body shame. The companion to the body image work we talk about in this episode.

If this episode resonated:

Come find me on Instagram ⁠@bingefreebestie ⁠and let me know.

If you loved this episode, please leave a review and hit subscribe. It genuinely helps more women find this podcast, and that's the whole point. 💜

The Binge Free Bestie Podcast is hosted by Nic, registered counsellor and recovered binge eater. Content shared in this podcast is educational in nature and is not a substitute for individualised therapeutic support.

Nobody told me that healing would feel like loss.

That one day you'd be doing all the right things, no bingeing, eating well, feeling calmer around food than you ever had, and still feeling this quiet grief about the body you've been chasing for years.

That's what this episode is about.

Body grief is real. It's the part of recovery that nobody puts on the sales page because it's not pretty or inspiring. But if you're in it right now, it has a name. And it makes complete sense.

In this episode I'm covering:

• Why wanting to lose weight and wanting food freedom aren't mutually exclusive, and what I actually ask you to do instead
• The link between body dissatisfaction and the binge-restrict cycle, and why you can't fully heal one without addressing the other
• What Health at Every Size actually says (and what it doesn't)
• The honest truth about weight loss after binge eating recovery
• Grace's story: four months in The Break Up, no binges, and naturally losing weight without a single diet

I also answer the question I get asked more than almost any other: "Can I still lose weight doing this work?" No fluff. No wellness-speak. Just the honest answer.

Resources mentioned in this episode:

The Food Freedom VaultA taste of my Food Freedom Method at an accessible price point. 100+ recipes with no calorie counts, no guilt, and no foods off limits. Plus a real introduction to the five Food Freedom Groups, the framework behind everything I teach.👉 Get the Food Freedom Vault

The Break UpMy signature 8-module programme that has helped 400+ women stop binge and emotional eating and find real food freedom. If you're ready to go all in on the healing, this is where we do the work together.👉 Learn more about The Break Up

The Break Up: Inner CircleEverything in The Break Up, plus direct access to me through private coaching sessions, a kickstart call, and priority support. For women who want the highest level of personalised support on their recovery.👉 Learn more about the Inner Circle

Embrace Your Body WorkbookMy workbook going deeper on the four biggest behavioural drivers of body dissatisfaction, with evidence-based tools for each, plus a look at the cultural forces behind body shame. The companion to the body image work we talk about in this episode.👉 Get the Embrace Your Body Workbook

If this episode resonated:

Come find me on Instagram @bingefreebestie and let me know.

If you loved this episode, please leave a review and hit subscribe. It genuinely helps more women find this podcast, and that's the whole point. 💜

The Binge Free Bestie Podcast is hosted by Nic, registered counsellor and recovered binge eater. Content shared in this podcast is educational in nature and is not a substitute for individualised therapeutic support.

You're not "bad at stopping", you're just following a rule you learned as a kid that's keeping you stuck in the binge cycle. Ever finish your plate even when you're full?

That's the Clean Plate Club at work. And it's one of the sneakiest drivers of binge eating and overeating.

In this episode:

- Why you keep eating past fullness (hint: it's not about willpower)

- Where the Clean Plate Club belief comes from and how it fuels the binge-restrict cycle

- How to start leaving food on your plate without guilt

-Why "avoiding waste" by overeating is still wasteful, just to your body instead of the bin

- The one permission statement that changes everything

This is the kind of deep rewiring work we do in The Break Up. If you're ready to dismantle the food rules keeping you stuck, check the links below.

Links and Resources:

🔗 The Break Up: https://thebreakup.bingefreebestie.com/home-882186

📸 Instagram: @bingefreebestie

💜 Other freebies, masterclasses and helpful resources: https://linktr.ee/bingefreebestie

Did you know that subscribing to our channel is free? It's the simplest way to support the show and help us grow. Hit subscribe below, thank you! 💜

Chapters:

00:00 Introduction

01:39 What Is the Clean Plate Club?

03:12 The Food Rule You Learned as a Kid

06:09 Childhood Guilt Around Wasting Food

07:17 How You Learned to Ignore Fullness Cues

08:08 Dieting, Restriction & Food Scarcity

09:33 Why It’s Not a Willpower Problem

12:18 How Clean Plate Club Fuels Binge Eating

14:40 Losing Trust in Your Body

16:22 Overeating, Shame & the Binge Cycle

17:17 All-or-Nothing Food Thinking

19:08 How to Break the Clean Plate Pattern

20:16 Practice Leaving Food on Your Plate

22:18 Why Your Nervous System Matters

26:21 Work With Me

Raise your hand if you've ever ordered the salad when you actually wanted the burger. In this episode, we're diving into something nobody talks about: the double life so many of us live with food.

We perform "good eating" in front of others: ordering salads, making comments about being "healthy," projecting an image of control. Then we binge in private, when no one's watching.

✨ Performative eating is exhausting, and it's keeping you stuck in the binge-restrict cycle

✨ People in bigger bodies face amplified pressure to virtue signal with food choices

✨ The split between your public and private eating isn't sustainable

✨ Shame is the fuel that keeps the cycle running, and secrecy feeds shame

✨ Food freedom means eating the same way whether people are watching or not

Here's something you can try this week. I'm calling it The Performance Audit.

Think about the last few times you ate around other people. Ask yourself:

• Did I eat what I actually wanted, or did I perform 'good eating'?
• Did I make comments about 'being good' or 'being bad' with my food choices?
• Did I restrict in public and then binge later in private?
• Did I post about a workout I didn't actually do, or talk about healthy habits I'm not actually practicing?

This isn't about judgment. It's about awareness. Because once you see the pattern, you can start to shift it.

Resources and Links:

🎯 The Break Up Program: My signature 8-module roadmap to binge-free life. 12 months access to the Binge Free Besties community, monthly live calls with me, nervous system tools, and the full library including a body acceptance module.👉 www.bingefreebestie.com/thebreakup

💜 Join the Bestie Squad: My FREE Close Friends group on Instagram. Behind-the-scenes of my life in food freedom, weekly Ask Me Anything (every Wednesday), first dibs on Inner Circle spots and events.👉 DM me SQUAD on Instagram @bingefreebestie

📸 Follow me on Instagram: Daily content, real talk, and community👉 @bingefreebestie

All Other Resources ( freebies, masterclasses, podcast) : https://linktr.ee/bingefreebestie

If this episode resonated with you, I'd love to hear from you!

Send me a DM on Instagram @bingefreebestie and tell me: Which moment from this episode hit you hardest?

And if you found this helpful, please leave a review on Apple Podcasts or Spotify, it helps more people find the show and break free from binge eating.

What to Do the Morning After a Binge (The Anti-Diet Recovery Protocol)

You wake up and it hits you before you're even fully conscious, the dread, the memories, the wrappers, the promises to "start fresh Monday." If you've ever lived through a binge hangover, this episode is for you.

In this deeply honest conversation, Nic walks you through exactly what to do the morning after a binge, not how to detox, restrict, or punish your way back to "good." This is the gentle, science-backed recovery protocol that actually breaks the binge-restrict cycle for good.

In this episode:

• Why your instinct to "fix it" is the exact thing keeping you stuck
• What's really happening in your nervous system the morning after
• The 3-layer recovery framework: Body, Mind, and Day
• Why eating breakfast is the single most important thing you can do (yes, really)
• How to interrupt the shame spiral before it triggers the next binge
• The 5 things to do today, and the one thing you must NOT do
• Why a single binge is not the problem (and what actually is)

Nic shares from her own recovery, binge-free since 2019, and offers the unsexy, revolutionary truth: healing is built in moments of gentleness, not punishment.

If you've been waking up trapped in the guilt-restrict-binge loop, this is your permission slip and your roadmap out.

Links and Resources:

https://linktr.ee/bingefreebestie

Can I be really honest with you today?

This episode is personal. Like, properly personal. I'm taking you through the actual chapters of my life — the eleven-year-old me at the kitchen table, the bullied teenager with the (truly catastrophic) bowl cut, the uni student eating chips alone in her room, and the woman who had bariatric surgery and was still binge eating within months.

But here's why I'm sharing it: because I know this isn't just my story. If you grew up in the nineties and early two thousands watching Princess Diaries glow-ups, Fat Monica punchlines, and Kate Moss staring back at you from every magazine cover — you were being taught something about what your body was worth. And most of us absorbed that lesson without even realising it.

In this episode I'm sharing the five things I wish someone had told me before the damage was done:

• Why your relationship with food probably didn't start with food at all
• The movies and magazines that quietly built your beliefs about bodies and worth
• What trauma actually does to your eating — and why it makes complete sense
• The truth about weight loss surgery that nobody told me beforehand
• Why you are not broken — and what healing actually looks like

Whether you're deep in the cycle right now or you've been in recovery for years and still carry some of this — I think this one's going to land for you.

Resources and Links:

https://linktr.ee/bingefreebestie

Chapters:

00:00 Introduction

00:52 The 11-Year-Old Girl Who Learned Thin = Worthy

03:55 Lesson 1: Thinness Was Taught As Worth

08:53 Lesson 2: Bullying Didn’t Mean You Needed to Change

13:59 Lesson 3: Trauma Changed My Relationship With Food

19:30 Lesson 4: Weight Loss Didn’t Stop The Binges

23:24 Lesson 5: You Are Not Broken

25:29 How I Actually Became Binge-Free

26:40 The Truth I Want You To Hear

27:55 What You Can Do Next

Is your mum's diet culture still living in your head? Here's how to make sure it doesn't reach your kids.

Most of us grew up in homes where dieting was just... normal. Mum was always on something. The body comments were constant.

Food was either good or bad, clean or naughty, and we absorbed every single bit of it.

Now we're beginning to raise kids of our own or have young people in our lives. And we want to do it differently. But how?

In this episode of the Binge Free Bestie Podcast, I'm getting personal, sharing the comments my own family made about my body when I was at my heaviest, and why, despite their good intentions, it made everything so much worse. And I'm breaking down exactly what to do if you're navigating this with your own children right now.

Whether you've got little ones, a teenager who's gone full gym bro, a child being bullied about their weight, or you're just terrified of saying the wrong thing while you're still figuring out your own relationship with food, this one is for you.

What we cover:

— How diet culture gets inherited and why it's not your mum's fault (but it is yours to stop)

— The almond mum era and what growing up in an 80s/90s diet household actually did to us

— Real word-for-word scripts for the conversations most parents dread

— What to do when your teenager's "healthy eating" starts to look like something more worrying

— How to raise an intuitive eater who trusts their body, even if you're still learning to trust yours

— Why you don't have to be healed to be a brilliant parent around food

The cycle stops with you 💜

Resources / Freebies / Work With Me:

https://linktr.ee/bingefreebestie

00:00 Intro

02:00 How family comments shaped my relationship with food

05:30 The generational cycle of diet culture

07:30 Real struggles parents are facing right now

11:30 The #1 mindset shift

13:00 Principle 1: Stop labeling food “good” or “bad”

14:00 Principle 2: Kids copy what you do (not what you say)

15:30 Scenario 1: “Am I fat?” 

16:30 Scenario 2: Teen obsessed with dieting/macros

18:30 Scenario 3: Restrictive eating or underweight child

19:40 Scenario 4: Child being bullied for their body

21:40 Scenario 5: You say something negative about yourself

23:30 You don’t have to be healed to help

24:30 Where to start (even if you’re struggling)

binge eating recovery, emotional eating, food freedom, intuitive eating, diet culture, raising intuitive eaters, generational trauma, food trauma, body image, disordered eating recovery