Life is like a chess game, a military incursion, or an architectural blueprint. There are a lot of moving parts and every one has to be accounted for or you lose the game, the war, or the purpose of the structure you are building. You have to be resilient, drawing on the lessons and skills you acquired in preparation for the task at hand. You don't have to be perfect but being pliable, ready to change directions when the path you’ve taken isn’t your best choice; accepting your very best performance, because perfection is the enemy of procrastination. Be cautious but open minded. It’s okay to change your mind; to start all over, ask for help. Work can be hard, but a joyful life doing what you love can be an easy challenge. This is a short list of how to make your life what you want.