Today on Unlicensed Therapy, I am joined by comedian Blair Socci. Blair is the host of the live show Dear Owen Wilson, where comedians read letters to celebrities they love—inspired by Blair’s very own letter written to Owen Wilson after a suicide attempt in 2007.

In this episode, Blair and I get into dating in your 30s and dating with intention. She reveals her motive behind this being the result of ongoing commitment issues with men. We also find out about Blair’s short but paramount pro volleyball career while at UCLA. Though it reached its end after an injury, this made room for the many projects and ideas Blair wanted to pursue.