Six years ago, we felt God's call to help blended families discover their true kingdom identity and live abundantly in Christ. We believed that when families are rooted in the truth of God's word, they don't just survive, they thrive. We wanted to create a space where blended families could find practical tools, biblical truth, and a community that understood the unique journey of blending. What we didn't expect was how much you would give us in return.

After much prayer and seeking the Lord's heart, we feel His gentle, clear release from actively carrying Blended Kingdom Families forward. God's assignments have seasons, and our season of leading this ministry has reached its completion. This is about walking forward in obedience to where He's leading us next.

Blended Kingdom Families has never truly been ours, it's always been His. From the very beginning, this has been God's ministry, and we have simply had the profound honor of stewarding it. Every breakthrough, every transformation, every marriage that chose to stay and fight, that's been the Lord's work. We were just privileged to witness it.

You have been one of the greatest blessings of our lives. Every vulnerable conversation, every time you trusted us with your story, those moments have been sacred to us. You have shaped who we are as people, as a couple, and as a family.

The mission of Blended Kingdom Families doesn't end here. The true fruit of this ministry is lived out in your homes, in your marriages, in how you parent and stepparent. Every time you choose your marriage when it's difficult, every time you extend grace to a bonus child, that's the legacy of BKF continuing.

While we're no longer actively operating the ministry, our books remain on Amazon, podcast episodes are still accessible on all platforms, and resources are there for anyone who needs them. The need for blended family support hasn't gone away, and we trust God will continue to raise up new voices and communities.

Our prayer is that you keep going. That when it gets hard, you remember you're not alone. That you keep choosing your marriage, keep showing up for your kids and bonus kids, keep believing God can redeem and restore what's been broken.

Thank you for walking this journey with us. We're cheering for you. We're praying for you. And we believe the best is still ahead for your families.

 Be blessed in all that you do.

 Scott & Vanessa

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Happy New Years from Blended Kingdom Families! 

In this New Year reflection episode of the Blended Kingdom Families Podcast, Scott and Vanessa Martindale invite listeners to pause, reflect, and trust God’s timing after a year that may not have gone as planned.

They talk openly about unmet expectations, waiting seasons, disappointment, and the human tendency to control outcomes instead of surrendering them to God. Through Scripture, personal testimony, and encouragement, Scott and Vanessa remind families that delays are not denials and that God is always working, even when we cannot see it.

The conversation encourages listeners to release regret, relinquish control, and enter the new year with faith, peace, and expectancy. They also discuss the value of choosing a word for the year as a spiritual anchor and how reflection and gratitude help realign hearts with God’s purpose.

This episode offers hope and clarity for anyone stepping into a new season and longing to trust God more deeply.

We pray this episode blesses you today! 

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In this special Christmas episode of the Blended Kingdom Families Podcast, Scott and Vanessa Martindale reflect on the true meaning of Christmas and how families can experience joy and hope even during stressful seasons of life.

They discuss how blended family dynamics, busy schedules, grief, and unresolved relationships can make the holidays challenging, yet remind listeners that the birth of Jesus brings good news of great joy for all people. Using scripture from Luke 2 and Romans 15, Scott and Vanessa encourage families to pause, reflect, forgive, and choose gratitude as they close out the year.

This episode offers practical ways to keep Christ at the center of Christmas through prayer, reflection, family traditions, and meaningful conversations. Listeners are invited to end the year well and enter the next season with renewed faith, hope, and joy.

We pray this episode blesses you today! 

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In this episode of the Blended Kingdom Families Podcast, Scott and Vanessa dive into one of the most requested and challenging topics in blended families: setting boundaries with extended family, adult children, and in laws, especially during the holiday season.

Using real life coaching examples and personal stories, they explain why boundaries are essential for healthy family dynamics, how boundaries without consequences lose their power, and why couples must first get on the same page before addressing outside relationships.

Scott and Vanessa discuss common holiday stressors, blended family tension, adult children navigating independence, and how to protect the peace of your home without guilt or fear. They also share practical steps for communicating boundaries respectfully, following through consistently, and maintaining compassion while standing firm. Biblical wisdom from Matthew 18 guides the conversation, reminding listeners that healthy conflict resolution and mutual respect are key to thriving families.

This episode is essential listening for any couple feeling overwhelmed, disrespected, or uncertain how to address ongoing family tension.

We pray this episode blesses you today! 

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In this episode of the Blended Kingdom Families Podcast, Scott and Vanessa Martindale talk honestly about the gift of parenthood, the challenges and joys of raising children, and the powerful ways parenting reflects the heart of God and how He loves and leads us.

They discuss how every stage of parenting brings lessons, growth, and opportunities to surrender control to the Lord. From toddlerhood to the teenage years to adult children, Scott and Vanessa unpack the beauty, struggle, refinement, and reward of raising kids well.

Listeners will hear encouragement on how to let go of guilt, embrace God’s grace, resist comparison, and focus on presence over perfection. The episode also highlights the role of co-parents and step-parents, reminding them that they have a vital and God-given place in their children’s lives.

This conversation provides hope, perspective, and truth for all parent and especially those who feels overwhelmed, discouraged, or unsure if they are doing enough. 

We pray this episode blesses you today! 

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In this episode of the Blended Kingdom Families Podcast, Vanessa Martindale and Dr. Dan Ennaco explain the clear differences between coaching and therapy and why blended families often need both at different stages of their journey.

They discuss what coaching can accomplish, what therapy is required for, and why understanding the distinction is essential for couples, step-parents, and co-parents. Vanessa and Dan share real experiences from working with families who face step-parenting tension, high conflict co-parenting, trauma, anxiety, depression, and communication breakdowns.

Listeners will learn how coaching helps families create goals, build structure, strengthen communication, and form healthy boundaries, while therapy is needed for deeper emotional work such as trauma, severe anxiety, depression, past wounds and exploring mental health challenges impacting the present.

This episode clarifies how each method equips families to grow, heal, and build stronger, healthier homes with God at the center.

We pray this episode blesses you today! 

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To support this ministry and help ensure that blended families around the world continue to receive biblical equipping click here: https://blendedkingdomfamilies.com/donate/
For more resources visit: Blended Kingdom Families Website

In this Thanksgiving week episode of the Blended Kingdom Families Podcast, Vanessa Martindale shares an encouraging message on the power of gratitude during the holiday season, especially important for blended families navigating holiday transitions, co-parenting challenges, grief, or unmet expectations.

Through Scripture, practical examples, and personal reflection, Vanessa explains how gratitude shifts our perspective, softens our hearts, strengthens relationships, and invites the peace of God into every circumstance. She offers simple practices to cultivate gratitude, along with reflection questions to help families reconnect with God and one another during the holiday season.

We pray this episode blesses you today! 

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To support this ministry and help ensure that blended families around the world continue to receive biblical equipping click here: https://blendedkingdomfamilies.com/donate/
For more resources visit: Blended Kingdom Families Website

In this episode of the Blended Kingdom Families Podcast, Vanessa Martindale and Dr. Dan Ennaco discuss one of the most convicting topics for Christian parents, what happens when we unintentionally place our children above God.

Through honest conversation and biblical truth, they explore how parents can idolize their kids through sports, academics, or even family schedules, and how this shift can slowly pull families away from faith and obedience to God.

You will hear practical advice on how to realign your heart, model obedience for your children, and keep Christ at the center of your home.

We pray this episode blesses you today! 

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To support this ministry and help ensure that blended families around the world continue to receive biblical equipping click here: https://blendedkingdomfamilies.com/donate/
For more resources visit: Blended Kingdom Families Website

In this episode of the Blended Kingdom Families Podcast, Scott and Vanessa Martingale explore what true leadership looks like, inside and outside your home. 

They discuss how godly leadership begins with integrity, humility, and consistency, and how being a servant leader means prioritizing the growth and well-being of others. From managing your home with grace to leading your family through example, this episode will inspire you to lead like Christ, with love, strength, and purpose.

We pray this episode blesses you today! 

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To support this ministry and help ensure that blended families around the world continue to receive biblical equipping click here: https://blendedkingdomfamilies.com/donate/
For more resources visit: Blended Kingdom Families Website

In this episode of the Blended Kingdom Families Podcast, Scott and Vanessa tackle one of the most common struggles couples face: parenting differences.

They discuss how to parent as a united team even when you disagree on discipline, routines, or expectations. With wisdom from counseling and coaching blended families, they share practical ways to find alignment, communicate effectively, and build a marriage rooted in God’s truth and grace.

Learn how to effectively handle disagreements about discipline, create a parenting plan, and stay connected as a couple through every parenting season.

We pray this episode blesses you today!

Want to join the Blended Kingdom Families Community?
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To support this ministry and help ensure that blended families around the world continue to receive biblical equipping click here: https://blendedkingdomfamilies.com/donate/
For more resources visit: Blended Kingdom Families Website