"If the idea of giving it up for a month makes you feel a little tense, a little sweaty, anything, you absolutely need to do it."
Have you ever thought about committing to Dry January, or Sober October? Spent a hungover Sunday morning regretting that third glass of wine? Wondered if your harmless indulgence was maybe not so harmless after all? This episode, Taryn and Michelle are joined by friend of the show Erin Mitchell to discuss sober curiosity and sobriety.
Erin shares the ups and downs of her current 19 month sobriety streak, and what she’s learned from reading every book she could find on the topic. We explore the physical risks of alcohol, the concept of sober curiosity versus sobriety, and the effects of alcohol on brain functioning. We’ll also touch on other dependencies like social media, shopping, caffeine, and cannabis, sharing our personal experiences with alcohol and our vices of choice.
This episode is about empowerment rather than deprivation, challenging stereotypical notions of alcoholism and the complex interplay between alcohol, self-care, and capitalism. If you’re ready to rethink everything you’ve been taught about the substances that supposedly serve you.
Recommended Resources:
Books:
Sober Curious, Ruby Warrington
This Naked Mind, Annie Grace
The Unexpected Joy of Being Sober, Catherine Gray
Alcohol Explained, William Porter
Timestamps:
[00:01:21] Sober Curiosity and Sobriety
[00:03:45] Physical Risks of Alcohol
[00:08:09] Alcohol's Effects on Brain Functioning
[00:12:28] Alcohol and its consequences
[00:13:29] Erin's journey to sobriety
[00:20:35] Self-examination and monitoring moods
[00:25:10] Tools for managing emotions
[00:29:21] Challenges of mommy wine culture
[00:38:15] Taryn’s moment of awakening
[00:44:47] The struggle with moderation
[00:49:59] Exploring other dependencies
[00:54:55] Buddhist non-attachment
[01:09:29] Addictive tendencies and nature vs nurture
[01:11:56] Self-control, self-discipline, and self-trust
[01:23:56] The journey to self-love
[01:35:47] Should you consider a month of sobriety?