Boldly Becoming You Podcast

I've had my share of setbacks, as have you. And when you are a perfectionist, even in recovery, it feels especially challenging to navigate unexpected delays and obstacles when there was a well-thought out plan or strategy.

In this episode, we talk about how to deal with setbacks and what you can do to move through them with less loss time and more grace.

The Vision Board Workshop is April 10&11 and registration is now open. Snag your seat at www.rulesandrebellion.com/visionboard

Make sure you download the free resource, 11 Pre-Vision Board Clarity Questions, to dig into what you may want/need that is underneath all the rules, obligations and expectations you unknowingly adopted through the years.

Where does abundance come from? What does alignment really mean? In this episode, we dig into answering both of those questions and clarify the importance of including all areas of your life in your future vision.

When you open your definition of abundance beyond cash and include the many ways your truest self can manifest, you end up looking around saying "OMG, this is really happening!"

Snag your 11 Pre-Vision Board Clarity Questions to get started manifesting the life you want and were born to have.

If this episode lights you up in some way or inspires you to question something, I'd LOVE to hear about it! Take a screenshot of your listening on your device, post in to your stories on FB or IG and tag Rules & Rebellion @rulesandrebellion or @TashaSkillin.

Vision boards can be fun and pretty and inspirational but they are ultimately TOOLS to manifest the life you are meant to live.

Vision Boards are visuals that you create that include images and text that conveys the life you want or crave to live. It is the visual representation of the dreams and goals achieved when you are aligned spiritually, mentally, physically and emotionally.

In this episode, I talk about 2 different ways to use your Vision Board to manifest the life you dream of and have the meaningful impact you are meant to have.

Make sure to get on The Vision Board Workshop waitlist to be notified when the April Vision Board workshop registration opens up!

Download the free Boldly Becoming You Jumpstart Checklist to fast track your journey to your truest self.

If this episode lights you up in some way or inspires you to question something, I'd LOVE to hear about it! Take a screenshot of your listening on your device, post in to your stories on FB or IG and tag Rules & Rebellion @rulesandrebellion or @TashaSkillin.

In this episode, I share what you may be doing that is creating a direct, fast track path to burnout AND what the two basic stages of burnout are. You may want to grab paper and pen for this one - it's interactive.

Thank you for sharing this episode and others that resonate, with those you love. Let's keep collaborating on supporting one another OUT of these perfectionism patterns that are stealing years, even decades, of this one precious life.

Are you part of our community yet? Come check out the conversations about purpose, impact and self discovery in the Boldly Becoming You village online.

Download the free Boldly Becoming You Jumpstart Checklist to fast track your journey to your truest self.

If this episode lights you up in some way or inspires you to question something, I'd LOVE to hear about it! Take a screenshot of your listening on your device, post in to your stories on FB or IG and tag Boldly Becoming You @boldlybecomingyou or @TashaSkillin.

Perfectionism leads to limited connection and vulnerability in friendships, often an imbalance of pouring into others and then feeling underappreciated or drained.

And the people pleaser in the perfectionist patterns avoids conflict and has many ambiguous friendships which keep you stuck trying to make sure you are likeable rather than being the truest you.

What would happen if you got clear on what you want a friendship to provide you?

What kind of connections could you develop if you just had the conversation about intentions?

Download the free Boldly Becoming You Jumpstart Checklist to fast track your journey to your truest self.

Are you part of our community yet? Come check out the conversations about purpose, impact and self discovery in the Boldly Becoming You village online.

If this episode lights you up in some way or inspires you to question something, I'd LOVE to hear about it! Take a screenshot of your listening on your device, post in to your stories on FB or IG and tag Boldly Becoming You @boldlybecomingyou or @TashaSkillin.

You've tried all the hacks, all the strategies and the systems and still you feel defeated, constantly behind, exhausted and unsatisfied with what you've gotten done at the end of the day. I get it - I lived that life for almost 20 years.

Here's the thing, those systems were not designed for people like us. They were created by old white dudes who weren't responsible for the emotional well-being of their family and communities. Those systems weren't created with the flexibility we need for how real life happens - moments, hours and sometimes days or weeks hijacked by taking care of people - which we love but also takes time.

So no more controlling time - Time Integrity is a whole mood and today's episode is just the beginning.

NEW! You've heard us mention the course we are launching in March to pass along the tools and the systems we developed as we moved out of the Burnt Out Perfectionist life into the Confident Connected Rebel lifestyle. Enrollment will be opening soon but snag your spot on the waitlist to be the first notified when we open up the limited number of seats for our Beta run of this course at a ridiculously low investment this one time.

Sign up here!

Download the free Boldly Becoming You Jumpstart Checklist to fast track your journey to your truest self.

If this episode lights you up in some way or inspires you to question something, I'd LOVE to hear about it! Take a screenshot of your listening on your device, post in to your stories on FB or IG and tag Rules & Rebellion @rulesandrebellion or @TashaSkillin.

In this episode we talk about a few of the challenges that you face when first implementing boundaries in your relationships and with yourself.

Sure, boundaries are hard, but why? Is it the fear of hurt feelings, possible rejection, change? Maybe it's that you feel like you don't have a good track record following through with things, so why bother?

Whatever the reason, we're here for ya. Thanks for listening.

Download the free Boldly Becoming You Jumpstart Checklist to fast track your journey to your truest self.

If this episode lights you up in some way or inspires you to question something, I'd LOVE to hear about it! Take a screenshot of your listening on your device, post in to your stories on FB or IG and tag Rules & Rebellion @rulesandrebellion.

We have been taught to look outside of ourselves to determine what we do, how we love, where we give our attention and energy. So after decades of that conditioning, it's time to go back inside yourself.

This short episode is packed with some powerful questions. One specific question that will provide direction and clarity in how to have a joy-filled and meaningful impact.

Download the free Boldly Becoming You Jumpstart Checklist to fast track your journey to your truest self.

If this episode lights you up in some way or inspires you to question something, I'd LOVE to hear about it! Take a screenshot of your listening on your device, post in to your stories on FB or IG and tag Rules & Rebellion @rulesandrebellion or @TashaSkillin.

What is the meaning of life? What makes life worth living? These are questions philosophers, and scientists, have been working on for thousands of years. The answer continues to be having a sense of purpose - delivering a meaningful impact on the world at large. And yet, so many of us hold ourselves back from doing the things we are passionate about. Where do these fears of ridicule, imperfection and inadequacy come from? Why does it feel so hard to figure out what your purpose is?

In this episode, we talk about what's stopping you and what to do to move into a meaningful life filled with purpose and joy.

Download the free Boldly Becoming You Jumpstart Checklist to fast track your journey to your truest self.

Are you part of our community yet? Come check out the conversations about purpose, impact and self discovery in the Boldly Becoming You village online.

If this episode lights you up in some way or inspires you to question something, I'd LOVE to hear about it! Take a screenshot of your listening on your device, post in to your stories on FB or IG and tag Boldly Becoming You @boldlybecomingyou or @TashaSkillin.

People Pleasing: What is it, what does it look like, and how does it affect your life and relationships? Do you even know if you're doing it?

In this episode we share our respective journeys through people pleasing and how identifying it changed our relationship with each other, our parenting and ourselves. People pleasing has multiple layers and offers a chance to be the hero in a lot of stories.

But what if by releasing the identity of "hero", you could find deeper connection in your relationships, encourage resiliency and confidence in the people you love, all while becoming that person you know deep down that you truly are?

Download the free Boldly Becoming You Jumpstart Checklist to fast track your journey to your truest self.

If this episode lights you up in some way or inspires you to question something, we'd LOVE to hear about it! Take a screenshot of your listening on your device, post in to your stories on FB or IG and tag Rules & Rebellion @rulesandrebellion.