Brandon The Dom

By Brandon The Dom

Hey, I’m Brandon the Dom. I am a sex and relationship coach - and I want to guide you towards deeper connection, kinky and wild sex, and fulfilling emotional intimacy. Together, we will explore your b... more

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May 01, 2025Attending Your First BDSM Munch? Here’s What to Expect
Want to start getting into the kink scene and community? Try a munch, a social gathering for kinky people. In this video, learn what happens at munches, what to talk about, how to act, and where to find them.
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👉 Dom Course: https://www.brandonthedom.com/developing-dominance
👉 D/s Dating: https://www.brandonthedom.com/dom-sub-dating
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TIMESTAMP CHAPTERS:
(00:00) - - Intro
(00:19) - - What is a munch?
(02:16) - - What do you do at a munch?
(04:36) - - What do you talk about at a munch?
(06:03) - - Why attend a munch?
(09:42) - - How am I supposed to act at a munch?
(14:17) - - Getting into the kink community

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FREE RESOURCES MENTIONED:
🔥 Munch Article: https://www.brandonthedom.com/advice/bdsm-munch
▶️ Sex Menu Video: https://youtu.be/3T92NUWDyDU
📖 Free Sex Menu with 350+ Acts: https://www.brandonthedom.com/advice/sex-menu
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16min
May 01, 2025Improve Your BDSM Spanking Skills With These Essential Tips
Learn the best techniques and positions for delivering an unforgettable spanking experience for your submissive.
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👉 Get Coaching: https://www.brandonthedom.com/coaching
👉 Dom Course: https://www.brandonthedom.com/developing-dominance
👉 D/s Dating: https://www.brandonthedom.com/dom-sub-dating
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TIMESTAMP CHAPTERS:
(00:00) - - Intro
(00:45) - - Why do people enjoy spanking?
(03:33) - - Where to spank
(06:31) - - Best spanking positions
(10:27) - - Best spanking techniques
(15:20) - - Remember your goal
(15:51) - - Warm up
(17:28) - - Start at the appropriate intensity level
(19:31) - - Find a Rhythm
(20:18) - - Communication during spanking
(22:22) - - Using sensual & erotic touch in between
(23:51) - - Tips for the submissive being spanked

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FREE RESOURCES MENTIONED:
🔥 Spanking Article: https://www.brandonthedom.com/advice/spanking
▶️ Subspace: What Every Submissive Needs to Know About This Drug Like State: https://youtu.be/rt1-B_m-6yE
▶️ Three Tools to Discover Your Turn-Ons: https://youtu.be/Hl4J7hWqk7M
📖 Free Sex Menu with 350+ Acts: https://www.brandonthedom.com/advice/sex-menu
...more
28min
May 01, 20259 Tools for Dominants to Pleasure Their Submissive
If you think being a Pleasure Dom is just about giving orgasms, you're mistaken. In this video, I will reveal to you what a Pleasure Dom is, their psychology, nine sexy tools to use as a Pleasure Dom, how to be submissive for one, and an example scene for you to try.
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👉 Get Coaching: https://www.brandonthedom.com/coaching
👉 Dom Course: https://www.brandonthedom.com/developing-dominance
👉 D/s Dating: https://www.brandonthedom.com/dom-sub-dating
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TIMESTAMP CHAPTERS:
(00:00) - - Intro
(00:20) - - What is a Pleasure Dom?
(06:55) - - Why Be a Pleasure Dom?
(08:34) - - Tool 1: Indulging Your Sub’s Kinks & Fantasies
(09:22) - - Tool 2: Orgasm Control
(11:22) - - Tool 3: Edging
(12:16) - - Tool 4: Teasing
(13:19) - - Tool 5: Sensation Play
(14:15) - - Tool 6: Spanking
(15:54) - - Tool 7: Toys
(16:51) - - Tool 8: Tantric Sex
(19:23) - - Tool 9: Overstimulation
(21:12) - - When to use the tools
(24:08) - - How to be a Submissive
(28:28) - - Example Scene

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FREE RESOURCES MENTIONED:
🔥 Pleasure Dom Article: https://www.brandonthedom.com/advice/pleasure-dom
▶️ Subspace: What Every Submissive Needs to Know About This Drug Like State: https://youtu.be/rt1-B_m-6yE
▶️ Overcoming Sexual Shame With Seven Powerful Tactics: https://youtu.be/OXaSErYnl50
▶️ Three Tools to Discover Your Turn-Ons: https://youtu.be/Hl4J7hWqk7M
▶️ Five Tools to Communicate Your Turn-Ons: https://youtu.be/uQdZ_dmdHxo
📖 Free Sex Menu with 350+ Acts: https://www.brandonthedom.com/advice/sex-menu
📖 Tantric Touch: More Than Just a Pleasurable Massage: https://www.brandonthedom.com/advice/tantric-touch
📖 Tantric Yoni Massage Guide: Pleasure Her Body Like She’s Never Felt Before: https://www.brandonthedom.com/advice/yoni-massage
📖 BDSM Spanking Guide: Tips, Techniques, and Positions for Erotic Spanking : https://www.brandonthedom.com/advice/spanking
📖 A Complete Guide to Dirty Talk for Subs: https://www.brandonthedom.com/advice/submissive-dirty-talk
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30min
April 03, 2025Overcoming Sexual Shame With Seven Powerful Tactics
In this episode, Brandon the Dom will explain seven powerful tactics to help you overcome sexual shame and embrace your sexuality. If you struggle with feelings of shame around sex, this video is for you.
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👉 Get Coaching: https://www.brandonthedom.com/coaching
👉 Dom Course: https://www.brandonthedom.com/developing-dominance
👉 D/s Dating: https://www.brandonthedom.com/dom-sub-dating
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🔥 TIMESTAMP CHAPTERS:
(00:00) - - Intro
(00:13) - - What is Shame?
(02:05) - - Why do you feel shame for your sexual desires?
(04:17) - - Are your sexual desires wrong?
(08:16) - - My Experience with Sexual Shame
(10:36) - - Tactic 1: Leave groups where sexual acts are shameful
(13:04) - - Tactic 2: Join groups where sexual acts are accepted
(15:52) - - Tactic 3: Journaling
(16:34) - - Tactic 4: Digest your emotions
(20:31) - - Tactic 5: Exposure
(22:14) - - Tactic 6: Sexual Disclosure
(24:47) - - Tactic 7: Stop praising and punishing yourself

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💯 FREE RESOURCES MENTIONED:
- Three Tools to Discover Your Turn-Ons: https://www.brandonthedom.com/advice/turn-ons
- Five Tools to Communicate Your Turn-Ons: https://www.brandonthedom.com/advice/turn-on-communication
- Get Free Advice: https://www.brandonthedom.com/advice
...more
31min
April 03, 20255 Steps to Make Your Man More Dominant in the Bedroom
Are you craving more dominance from your man in the bedroom? In this episode, Brandon the Dom reveals 5 psychology-based steps to naturally encourage and draw out his dominant masculine energy. Perfect for women who love their partner's caring nature but want him to take more control intimately. Learn how to create the right environment for his dominance to flourish without nagging or criticism.
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👉 Get Coaching: https://www.brandonthedom.com/coaching
👉 Dom Course: https://www.brandonthedom.com/developing-dominance
👉 D/s Dating: https://www.brandonthedom.com/dom-sub-dating
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🔥 TIMESTAMP CHAPTERS:
(00:00) - - Intro
(02:04) - - Why He's Afraid to Be Dominant
(06:56) - - Step 1: Express Your Desire for Dominance
(09:08) - - Step 2: Give Him Opportunities to Lead
(10:59) - - Step 3: Act Submissive to Polarize the Dynamic
(12:58) - - Step 4: Be More Sexually Forward
(14:21) - - Step 5: Encourage and Praise His Dominant Acts
(17:00) - - Conclusion: Your Power as a Submissive

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💯 FREE RESOURCES MENTIONED:
- Three Tools to Discover Your Turn-Ons: https://www.brandonthedom.com/advice/turn-ons
- Five Tools to Communicate Your Turn-Ons: https://www.brandonthedom.com/advice/turn-on-communication
- Sex Menu Template: https://www.brandonthedom.com/advice/sex-menu
- Essential Behaviors for a Good Submissive: https://www.brandonthedom.com/advice/what-is-a-good-submissive
- Quick Guide to Becoming a Sexually Dominant Man: https://www.brandonthedom.com/advice/dominant-sex
- Get Free Advice: https://www.brandonthedom.com/advice
...more
19min
April 03, 2025Subspace: What Every Submissive Needs to Know About This Drug Like State
In this video, Brandon the Dom explains the concept of subspace in the BDSM scene, detailing its euphoric and trance-like nature. He discusses why subspace occurs, the risks involved, and how to achieve and safely transition out of it to avoid subdrop. Brandon also shares his personal updates and provides insights into related research studies, the complementary state of 'Domspace', and aftercare practices.
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👉 Get Coaching: https://www.brandonthedom.com/coaching
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(00:00) - Introduction to Subspace
(01:48) - What is Subspace?
(02:26) - What does Subspace feel like?
(04:26) - The Science Behind Subspace
(09:10) - Can Doms Experience Subspace?
(11:16) - How to Achieve Subspace
(14:57) - Is Subspace Safe?
(17:24) - Subdrop
(18:50) - Aftercare

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Referenced Content:
📖 What is a Good Dom? : https://www.brandonthedom.com/advice/what-is-a-good-dominant
📖 Subspace article: https://www.brandonthedom.com/advice/subspace
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More Help:
👉 Get Free Advice: https://www.brandonthedom.com/advice
👉 Get Coaching: https://www.brandonthedom.com/coaching
...more
23min
April 03, 2025Sex Menu: Best Communication Tool for Turn Ons for Kink, BDSM, and Intimacy
In this episode, Brandon the Dom introduces the concept of a 'sex menu' as a powerful communication tool for couples to express their desires effectively. This framework involves creating a comprehensive list of sexual acts and using a rating system to indicate preference levels, alongside detailed notes to enhance clarity. It aims to foster open communication, consent, and exploration of new experiences in intimate relationships. Whether in monogamous or non-monogamous settings, the sex menu helps couples share and update their evolving desires and boundaries, while respecting each other's needs and fostering a non-judgmental environment. Viewers are encouraged to download a free template provided by Brandon, which includes 350 sexual acts, to begin crafting their personalized sex menu.
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👉 Free Sex Menu with 350+ Acts: https://www.brandonthedom.com/advice/sex-menu
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(00:00) - Intro
(00:24) - What is a Sex Menu?
(01:18) - Benefits of a Sex Menu
(02:54) - Exploring the Sex Menu Template
(07:59) - Creating and Using Your Own Sex Menu
(11:08) - Tips for Filling Out the Sex Menu
(15:08) - Final Thoughts and Resources

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Referenced Content:
📖 5 Tools to Communicate Your Fantasies and Turn Ons with Your Partner: https://www.brandonthedom.com/advice/turn-on-communication
📖 Read the full article: https://www.brandonthedom.com/advice/sex-menu
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More Help:
👉 Get Free Advice: https://www.brandonthedom.com/advice
👉 Get Coaching: https://www.brandonthedom.com/coaching
...more
16min
April 03, 2025Have Mismatched Libidos? Here's How to Fix a Sexually Incompatible Relationship
In this episode, Brandon the Dom shares what to do if you're struggling in a sexually incompatible relationship. He explains why this occurring based on libidos being mismatched or having different sex drives, desires, or relationship structures you wish to pursue. He also shares questions to ask yourself and signs to look out for. Finally, he gives you three options so you can fix your sexual incompatibility and return to a thriving sex life.
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👉 Get Coaching: https://www.brandonthedom.com/coaching
👉 Dom Course: https://www.brandonthedom.com/developing-dominance
👉 D/s Dating: https://www.brandonthedom.com/dom-sub-dating
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(00:00) - Introduction
(00:22) - What is Sexual Incompatibility
(01:09) - Mismatched Libidos
(02:01) - Different Desires
(02:45) - Different Lifestyles
(03:13) - Signs of Incompatibility
(06:51) - Option 1: Stay in the relationship and work it out
(14:10) - Option 2: Fulfill your needs outside of the relationship
(17:34) - Option 3: You end the relationship

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Referenced Content:
📖 3 Secret Tools to Discover Your Turn Ons: https://www.brandonthedom.com/advice/turn-ons
📖 5 Tools to Communicate Your Fantasies and Turn Ons with Your Partner: https://www.brandonthedom.com/advice/turn-on-communication
📖 A Practical Guide to Tantric Sex for Beginners: https://www.brandonthedom.com/advice/tantric-sex
📖 Free Sex Menu with 350+ Acts: https://www.brandonthedom.com/advice/sex-menu
📖 Read the full article: https://www.brandonthedom.com/advice/sexually-incompatible-relationship
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More Help:
👉 Get Free Advice: https://www.brandonthedom.com/advice
👉 Get Coaching: https://www.brandonthedom.com/coaching
...more
24min
April 03, 2025BDSM Sex Homework to Give Your Submissive with Example Task, Rules, and Rituals
In this episode, Brandon the Dom shares how to assign sex homework or BDSM tasks to your submissive in order to improve your Dom sub dynamic and helping your submissive grow. He explains how to give tasks using systems, set deadlines, and creating the appropriate rewards and punishments for the homework tasks. Then he shares example task, rules, and rituals that can be done for sex homework for vanilla goals, sexual training, her self awareness, her self care, foreplay, getting her into submissive headspace, and making your life easier as a Dom.
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👉 Get Coaching: https://www.brandonthedom.com/coaching
👉 Dom Course: https://www.brandonthedom.com/developing-dominance
👉 D/s Dating: https://www.brandonthedom.com/dom-sub-dating
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(00:00) - Introduction
(00:18) - What is Sex Homework
(02:59) - Step 1: Understand your goals as partners
(03:26) - Step 2: Give a task in the form of a system, not a goal
(04:53) - Step 3: Set a deadline
(05:18) - Step 4: Rewards and punishments
(09:01) - Examples of Sex Homework Tasks

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Referenced Content:
📖 7 Essential Behaviors of a Good Dominant in BDSM: https://www.brandonthedom.com/advice/what-is-a-good-dominant
📖 3 Secret Tools to Discover Your Turn Ons: https://www.brandonthedom.com/advice/turn-ons
📖 Free Sex Menu with 350+ Acts: https://www.brandonthedom.com/advice/sex-menu
📖 Read the full article: https://www.brandonthedom.com/advice/sex-homework
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More Help:
👉 Get Free Advice: https://www.brandonthedom.com/advice
👉 Get Coaching: https://www.brandonthedom.com/coaching
...more
22min
April 03, 2025 Sexual Performance Anxiety Treatment for Men: 6 Strategies for Success
In this episode, Brandon the Dom addresses the common issue of sexual performance anxiety, explaining what it is, why it occurs, and providing effective strategies to overcome it. He discusses the psychological and physiological factors behind erectile dysfunction and premature ejaculation, and emphasizes the importance of reframing beliefs and focusing on pleasure rather than performance. Brandon also shares his personal experiences and offers practical techniques, including mindfulness meditation, communication with partners, and Sensate Focus exercises, to help men get out of their heads and back into their bodies for a more satisfying sex life.
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👉 Get Coaching: https://www.brandonthedom.com/coaching
👉 Dom Course: https://www.brandonthedom.com/developing-dominance
👉 D/s Dating: https://www.brandonthedom.com/dom-sub-dating
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📖 Read the full article: https://www.brandonthedom.com/advice/sexual-performance-anxiety
👉 Get Free Advice: https://www.brandonthedom.com/advice
...more
36min

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