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  • 38. Two Daughters, One Encounter: Healing Body and Identity

    Have you ever been desperate for healing—but nothing seemed to change?

    Or found yourself in a moment where you needed God to move right now?

    What if the healing you’ve been searching for isn’t out of reach…

    and it’s not too late for Jesus to step in?

    In this episode, we step into one powerful moment in Scripture where two very different stories collide—one marked by years of suffering, the other by an urgent, life-altering crisis. Though their journeys look nothing alike, both are brought face-to-face with the same truth: one encounter with Jesus can change everything.

    This conversation is for the woman who feels like she’s been waiting forever…

    and for the one who feels like time is running out.

    Together, we explore what it means to pursue healing with faith, to be seen in the middle of your struggle, and to experience restoration that goes deeper than the surface.

    Because healing isn’t just about what’s happening in your body—

    it’s about who you are becoming in the process.

     

    💛 In This Episode, You’ll Discover:

    • What it looks like to seek Jesus in both long-term struggles and urgent moments
    • How faith can rise even when healing feels out of reach
    • The difference between being healed physically and being restored fully
    • Why your story—no matter how different—still matters to God
    •  

      📖 Scripture Reference:

      Mark 5:21–34 (NIV)


       

      ✍🏽 Journal Prompt

      What area of your life needs healing right now—and what would it look like to trust Jesus with it, knowing He sees you and cares deeply about your restoration?

      🙏🏽 Faith-Rooted Step

      Bring that area to Jesus today with honesty and faith.

      Pray over it, release it into His hands, and take one small step forward—trusting that healing is already in motion. 💛

      💌 Let’s Stay Connected!

      Hey lovies, I’d love to keep walking this healing journey with you beyond the podcast. Come hang out with me here:

      👉 Facebook   to be a part of my book-writing journey and for updates & motivation

      👉 Instagram   to be a part of my book-writing journey and for updates & motivation
      👉 Email Me    A prayer request, ask questions or be part of our newsletter

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      If this message spoke to your heart today, don’t keep it to yourself—share it with someone who may need this reminder too.

      And if you’re walking through a season of healing, I invite you to stay connected. You can find me on Instagram and Facebook, and I’d love to walk this journey with you.

      25 min
    • 37. Feeling Off? This Might Be Why

      Have you ever felt off… but couldn’t explain why?

      Like everything looks fine on the outside—but something inside just isn’t right?

      What if the issue isn’t just physical… but that something within you is out of alignment?

      In today’s episode, we’re breaking down something many of us were never taught—

      how to understand and care for the three parts of who you are: your body, your soul, and your spirit.

      Because the truth is…

      you can be doing all the “right” things and still feel completely off.

      If you’ve ever wondered:

      “Why do I feel this way?”
      “Why can’t I shake this?”

      This conversation will help you make sense of it—and show you how to begin restoring balance from the inside out.

       

      📖 Scriptures in This Episode:

      1 Thessalonians 5:23

      “Now, may the God of peace and harmony set you apart, making you completely holy. May your entire being (self), spirit, soul, and body, be kept completely flawless at the appearing of our Lord Jesus, the Anointed one.”

      1 Corinthians 6:19-20

      “Do you not know that your bodies are temples of the Holy Spirit? Therefore, honor God with your bodies.”

      2 Timothy 1:7

      “For God has not given us a spirit of fear, but of power and of love and of a sound mind.”

      John 15:5

      “I am the vine; you are the branches. If you remain in me and I in you, you will bear much fruit; apart from me you can do nothing.”

       

      ✍🏽 Journal Prompt:

      Which part of me have I been neglecting—my body, my soul, or my spirit?

      What is that part trying to tell me right now?

       

      🙏 Faith-Rooted Step:

      Choose one area—body, soul, or spirit—that needs attention today.

      Do one intentional act to nurture it, and invite God into that moment.

       

      💌 Let’s Stay Connected!

      Hey lovies, I’d love to keep walking this healing journey with you beyond the podcast. Come hang out with me here:

      👉 Facebook   to be a part of my book-writing journey and for updates & motivation

      👉 Instagram   to be a part of my book-writing journey and for updates & motivation
      👉 Email Me    A prayer request, ask questions or be part of our newsletter

      If this episode encouraged you, share it with a friend who needs it. 💛

      And don’t forget to follow the podcast so you never miss an episode.

       

      📖 Book Update: Whispers From Heaven

      The author photo you helped me choose is now posted on Facebook!

      I’m currently wrapping up the final details behind the scenes and preparing for a September launch.

      And it blesses me so much that many of you are already planning to order a copy—I’ll be sharing exactly where to find it very soon!

      22 min
    • 36. The Armor of God Part 2: Standing & Fighting Back

      Did you know you can be fully dressed for battle… and still be unprotected?

       

      🎙 Episode Overview

      What if you’ve been going into battle covered… but not fully using what God gave you?

      In Part 2 of the Armor of God, we move from protection to activation.

      This episode breaks down how to actually use the armor in real life—when fear shows up, when anxiety rises, and when the enemy tries to speak lies over your identity.

      We’re diving into:

      • The Shield of Faith, The Helmet of Salvation, The Sword of the Spirit, and Prayer.
      • Because you’re not just called to be protected…you’re called to stand strong and fight back.

         

        💛 Personal Story Highlight

        In this episode, I share a powerful moment from my childhood—when I encountered something I couldn’t explain… but never forgot.

        Years later, during one of the lowest points in my life, that moment became the very thing that anchored my faith when the enemy tried to make me question everything. Sometimes, the faith you need today…was planted in you years ago.

         

        ✍🏽 Journal Prompt

        What thought do I need to fight back against?

         

        🙏 Faith-Rooted Step

        Choose one Bible verse this week and use it when you feel triggered, anxious, or overwhelmed.

         

        📖 Free Resource

        Want help applying this daily?

        Request a copy of the Daily Armor Prayer Guide—a simple, powerful way to put on the armor every morning and walk in confidence.

         

        💌 Let’s Stay Connected!

        Hey lovies, I’d love to keep walking this healing journey with you beyond the podcast. Come hang out with me here:

        👉 Facebook   to be a part of my book-writing journey and for updates & motivation

        👉 Instagram   to be a part of my book-writing journey and for updates & motivation
        👉 Email Me    A prayer request, ask questions or be part of our newsletter

         

        💌 Book Update

        The cover for Whispers from Heaven has officially been revealed… and I’m so grateful you’ve been part of this journey with me.

        If you haven’t seen it yet, make sure to follow me on social media—the links are in the show notes.

         

        📢 Call to Action

        If this episode spoke to you, share it with someone who needs this reminder.

        Make sure to follow the podcast so you never miss an episode.

        And if you’d like the Daily Armor Prayer Guide, you can find my email in the show notes.

         

        Suit up, stand firm…and try not to poke anyone with your Sword of the Spirit until you’ve had your coffee ☕😉

        Until next week…

        Norma

         

        26 min
      • 35. The Armor of God Part 1: Protecting Your Mind and Identity

        ❓Have you ever felt like you're fighting battles you don’t even understand?

        ❓What if you’re already equipped… but just don’t know how to use what God gave you?

         

        ✨ Episode Overview

        In today’s episode, we begin a powerful series on the Armor of God—not just what it is, but how to actually use it in your everyday life.

        We’re talking about:

        • The two things you must understand before putting on the armor
        • Why wearing the whole armor matters
        • How to apply it spiritually, emotionally, and practically
        • And how to use it to protect your mind and stand firm in your identity
        • Because this isn’t just about surviving life…

          👉 It’s about learning how to stand strong in it

           

          💛 A Personal Note from Norma

          This episode is rooted in a deeply personal journey of learning to trust God.

          From unlearning old patterns…

          To confronting fear…
          To rebuilding truth from the ground up…

          Norma shares how God met her in her weakest place—and how that became the starting point of spiritual strength.

          “I didn’t have much to bring to the table… but I had enough wisdom to ask God for help—and that’s all God needed.”

           

          📖 Scripture of the Episode

          Ephesians 6:10–16

          “Be strong in the Lord and in his mighty power. Put on all of God’s armor so that you will be able to stand firm against all strategies of the devil…”

          (Full passage shared in episode—don’t skip this moment 💛)

           

          🧠 1. The Belt of Truth — What Holds Everything Together

           

          ❤️ 2. The Breastplate of Righteousness — Protecting Your Heart

          👣 3. The Shoes of Peace — Staying Steady in Life

           

          ✍️ Journal Prompt

          • Which area feels most unguarded right now—my mind, my heart, or my peace?
          • What thoughts or emotions have I been carrying?
          • What would it look like to intentionally apply God’s armor in this area this week?
          •  

            🙏 Faith-Rooted Step

            This week, focus on one piece of armor each day:

            • 🧠 Truth → Replace one lie
            • ❤️ Righteousness → Reject one condemning thought
            • 👣 Peace → Pause before reacting
            • Start small. Stay consistent.

              You’re not trying to be perfect—you’re learning how to stand.

               

               

              💌 Let’s Stay Connected!

              Hey lovies, I’d love to keep walking this healing journey with you beyond the podcast. Come hang out with me here:

              👉 Facebook   to be a part of my book-writing journey and for updates & motivation

              👉 Instagram   to be a part of my book-writing journey and for updates & motivation
              👉 Email Me    A prayer request, ask questions or be part of our newsletter

              Norma’s book 📖 Whispers from Heaven is a journey of healing, identity, and faith.

               

              🤍 Loved This Episode?

              • Share it with a friend who needs encouragement
              • Follow the podcast so you don’t miss Part 2
              • And remember…

                😄 If you're running late this week, just tell them:

                “The Armor of God took a little longer to put on.”

                 

                💛 Until next week, my friend…

                This is Breaking the Trauma Cycle

                Where God turns pain into purpose… and your story into hope.

                22 min
              • 34. Jesus in Your Storm: Trusting God When Life Feels out of Control

                🤔 Some storms come to shake you… and some come to reveal you.

                But if you don’t understand the difference, you might respond in fear instead of faith.

                In today’s episode, we’re taking a deeper look at the storms in your life—and how to trust God even when everything feels out of control.

                 

                📝 Journal Prompt

                Which type of storm am I in right now?

                • The one where Jesus is with me
                • The one where He feels distant
                • Or the one preparing me for what’s next?
                •  

                  ✝️ Faith Rooted Step

                  Instead of asking:

                  “God, why this storm?”

                  Ask:

                  “God, what are You teaching me in this storm… and what is on the other side of it?”

                   

                  💌 Let’s Stay Connected!

                  Hey lovies, I’d love to keep walking this healing journey with you beyond the podcast. Come hang out with me here:

                  👉 Facebook   to be a part of my book-writing journey and for updates & motivation

                  👉 Instagram   to be a part of my book-writing journey and for updates & motivation
                  👉 Email Me    A prayer request, ask questions or be part of our newsletter

                   

                  If this episode spoke to you, share it with a friend who might be in a storm right now. 💛

                  And don’t forget to follow the podcast so you never miss what’s next.

                  Until next week, my friend.


                  Breaking the Trauma Cycle—where God turns pain into purpose, and your story into hope. ✨

                  25 min
                • 33. When Trauma Tells You It's the End

                  Have you ever had a moment where you thought… "I don’t think I can do this anymore?”

                  Not the kind of tired a nap fixes... but the kind of exhaustion that settles deep in your soul.

                  What if what feels like the end…

                  is actually where God begins again?

                  In today’s episode, Norma shares a deeply personal story about a moment when she thought her life was ending—and how God stepped in and changed the ending.

                  Through the story of the widow of Zarephath in Scripture, we learn how God meets us in our lowest moments, interrupts despair, and provides exactly what we need… one day at a time.

                  Friend, if your heart feels heavy today, this episode will remind you:

                  ✨ Your story is not over.

                   

                  📖 Biblical Foundation

                  1 Kings 17 – The Widow of Zarephath

                  A woman preparing her final meal…

                  A jar that never runs dry…
                  A God who provides in the middle of lack.

                   

                  ✍🏽 Journal Prompt

                  Where in your life do you feel like your “jar is empty” right now?

                  Be honest with God about:

                  • What feels heavy
                  • What feels uncertain
                  • What feels like it’s running out
                  • 🙏 Faith Rooted Step

                    Instead of trying to figure out the whole future…

                    Ask God for today’s strength.

                    You can pray:

                    “Lord, I may not know how everything will work out tomorrow,

                    but today I choose to trust that You will provide what I need.”

                     

                    If this episode spoke to your heart, I’d love to invite you to join our newsletter community 💛

                    Each week, I share encouragement, reflection prompts, and tools to help you break the trauma cycle and pursue God-led dreams.

                     

                    💌 Let’s Stay Connected!

                    Hey lovies, I’d love to keep walking this healing journey with you beyond the podcast. Come hang out with me here:

                    👉 Facebook   Come be part of my book journey on FB or on IG

                    👉 Instagram
                    👉 Email Me     Your prayer request, to get the newsletter, or if you have any questions.

                     

                    ⭐ Loved This Episode?

                    • Leave a review
                    • Share with a friend who needs encouragement
                    • Tag me on social so I can cheer you on!
                    •  

                      💬 Closing Encouragement

                      Remember, my friend…With God, what seems like the end

                      might actually be a brand new beginning… 😉

                       

                      Until next week…✨ This is Breaking the Trauma Cycle—

                      where God turns pain into purpose,
                      and your story into hope. ✨

                      17 min
                    • 32. Every Tear has a Name: What God Does with Your Pain

                      Have you ever felt emotions so strong… but couldn’t explain where they were coming from?


                      Have you ever cried and wondered… “God, do You even see this?”

                       

                      What if your tears aren’t random…

                      What if they’re part of both your healing—and God’s process?

                      In today’s episode, we step into one of the most vulnerable moments in David’s life—before he became king—when he felt afraid, overwhelmed, and unable to think clearly.

                      And through his story, we uncover a powerful truth:

                      God doesn’t just see your tears… He understands them, remembers them, and uses them.

                      So grab a tissue box and your favorite drink, my friend…

                      because what you’re feeling might not be confusion—
                      it might be healing in progress.

                       

                      💛 In This Episode, We Talk About:

                      ✨ Why your emotions can feel overwhelming—and what that actually means

                      ✨ The truth about Psalm 56:8 and what it reveals about God’s heart
                      ✨ How fear and faith can co-exist without fear taking control
                      ✨ The mental health side of tears and how your brain processes pain
                      ✨ What God is really doing with your tears behind the scenes

                       

                      📖 Key Scripture:

                      Psalm 56:8 (NLT)

                      “You keep track of all my sorrows. You have collected all my tears in your bottle. You have recorded each one in your book.”

                       

                       

                      ✨ Encouragement:

                      If you’ve been crying in silence…

                      If you’ve felt misunderstood…
                      If you’ve wondered whether your pain even matters—

                      God saw every single tear.

                      Not just saw them…

                      He remembered them.

                      And He is already working healing through what you’ve been carrying.

                       

                      📝 Journal Prompt:

                      What emotions have been coming up lately that I don’t fully understand?

                      What might my heart be trying to process?

                       

                      🙏 Faith Rooted Step:

                      This week, instead of pushing your emotions away…

                      bring them to God.

                      Talk to Him honestly. Sit with Him. Let the tears come if they need to.

                      And remind yourself:

                      God sees me. God hears me. God is with me.

                       

                      💌 Let’s Stay Connected!

                      Hey lovies, I’d love to keep walking this healing journey with you beyond the podcast. Come hang out with me here:

                      👉 Facebook   for updates, reminders, and to follow my book writing journey

                      👉 Instagram  for updates, reminders, and to follow my book writing journey
                      👉 Email Me    prayer request, questions, or to get added to the newsletter community

                      And if you know someone who needs this reminder today, share this episode with them. Because my friend—You are seen, heard, and deeply loved.

                       

                      21 min
                    • 31. The Crown of Thorns and Mental Health

                      ❓Have you ever wondered why Jesus wore a crown of thorns?

                      ❓Could it mean more than just suffering… could it be connected to your healing?

                      What if the very place Jesus was wounded… speaks directly to the battles you fight in your mind?

                      In today’s episode, we uncover a hidden mystery behind the crown of thorns and the powerful exchange Jesus made for you. This episode will help you see the cross in a way that meets you right where you are.

                      ✨ In This Episode, We Talk About:

                      • The deeper meaning behind the crown of thorns
                      • How Jesus’ suffering connects to your mental and emotional healing
                      • The Great Exchange and what it means for your daily life
                      • How to recognize and replace harmful thought patterns
                      • Practical, faith-based tools you can use in real time
                      • 🧠 Faith in Action

                        Journal Prompt:

                        Which thought or feeling am I still carrying that Jesus already took on through the crown of thorns?

                        Faith Step:

                        Identify one thought you’ve been carrying, and when it shows up, pause and remember the great exchange—then replace it with truth using your anchor line.

                        👉 Example:

                        When anxiety rises, say: “Anxiety for peace.”
                        You feel it… you catch it… and you replace it.

                        💌 Let’s Stay Connected!

                        Hey lovies, I’d love to keep walking this healing journey with you beyond the podcast. Come hang out with me here:

                        👉 Facebook   To be part of my book writing journey and other spiritual inspiration

                        👉 Instagram   To be part of my book writing journey and other spiritual inspiration
                        👉 Email Me   Prayer request, questions, or to join our newsletter community

                         

                        If this episode spoke to your heart…

                        • Follow the podcast so you never miss an episode
                        • Leave a review to help other women find hope and healing
                        • Share this episode with a friend who needs this reminder
                        • And if you want to go deeper, join our email family—

                          all the details are in the show notes.

                          💛 Final Reminder

                          You are seen, heard, and loved.

                          And you don’t have to carry what Jesus already wore.

                          25 min
                        • 30. Healed but Still Bound? Living in Christ's Freedom

                          Have you ever healed from something… but still felt like the old version of you was lingering in the background?

                          Have you ever noticed the wounds may be closing, but the labels from your past still fit a little too comfortably?

                          In this episode of Breaking the Trauma Cycle, Norma shares a deeply personal story from her healing journey and reveals an important truth many people overlook: healing and freedom are not always the same thing.

                          Sometimes our emotions begin to heal, but our minds are still operating from survival mode. Trauma may calm in the body, yet the mind still expects danger.

                          True freedom begins when our mind, mindset, and identity align with God’s truth.

                          Together, we explore how renewing your mind, replacing lies with Scripture, and accepting the identity God speaks over you can lead to the freedom Christ already purchased for you.

                          So grab your Starbucks drink and come as you are — messy bun and all — because today we’re trying on a new outfit.

                           

                          🌿 In This Episode

                          Norma shares:

                          • A personal story about believing she was healed but realizing she was still thinking like a victim
                          • • How trauma can calm in the nervous system while survival thinking remains in the mind
                            • Why renewing the mind is essential to walking in freedom
                            • How replacing lies with Scripture rewires our thinking
                            • How God restores the identity trauma tried to break

                             

                            When our mind, mindset, and identity align with God’s truth, freedom becomes something we can truly walk in.

                             

                            ✍️ Journal Prompt

                            What mindset from your past still tries to follow you into your healing?

                            What truth from God replaces it?

                             

                            🌱 Faith-Rooted Step

                            Ask God to reveal one mindset still rooted in your past.

                            Then choose a specific scripture that speaks truth over that area and meditate on it throughout the week.

                             

                            💌 Join the Email Family

                            If today’s episode encouraged you, I would love to stay connected.

                            Our newsletter includes behind-the-scenes reflections, encouragement, and tools to help you continue breaking the trauma cycle and pursuing the God-led dreams on your heart.

                            📬 You can join the email family through the link in the show notes.

                            And if this episode spoke to you, share it with a friend who might need this reminder too.

                             

                            💌 Let’s Stay Connected!

                            Hey lovies, I’d love to keep walking this healing journey with you beyond the podcast. Come hang out with me here:

                            👉 Facebook   to follow my book writing journey and other content

                            👉 Instagram   to follow my book writing journey and other content
                            👉 Email Me  prayers, newsletter, or questions

                             

                            ✨ Until next week, friends.

                            Breaking the Trauma Cycle — where God turns pain into purpose, and your story into hope.

                            20 min
                          • 29. Untangling Overwhelm: What Jesus Says to the Anxious Mind

                            Have you ever felt like you're juggling your entire life—and still failing at everything?

                            Do you ever wonder if the exhaustion you’ve normalized was never what God intended for you?

                             

                            In this episode of Breaking the Trauma Cycle, we explore Jesus’ invitation in Matthew 11:28–30, where He speaks directly to weary hearts and anxious minds.

                            Jesus doesn’t ask us to perform better.

                            He invites us to come, take, and learn.

                            Together we’ll unpack what that means and how it can help you move from overwhelmed to empowered—with less stress and more joy.

                            So grab your notebook, take a deep breath, and let’s begin untangling the weight you’ve been carrying.

                             

                            Scripture for This Episode

                            Matthew 11:28–30 (NLT)

                            “Then Jesus said, ‘Come to me, all of you who are weary and carry heavy burdens, and I will give you rest.

                            Take my yoke upon you. Let me teach you, because I am humble and gentle at heart, and you will find rest for your souls.
                            For my yoke is easy to bear, and the burden I give you is light.’”

                             

                            Simple Practices to Start Untangling Overwhelm

                            Choose one small step this week:

                            • Spend 5–10 minutes reading scripture
                            • • Journal honestly about what is weighing on your heart
                              • Sit quietly in prayer
                              • Reflect and meditate on God’s promises

                              Small strands untangle slowly.

                              And that’s okay.

                               

                              A Reminder for the Weary Heart

                              You don’t need a bigger container to hold your stress.

                              You don’t need to master the juggling act.

                              You simply need to stop carrying it alone.

                              Because rest isn’t about having fewer responsibilities.

                              It’s about who you’re yoked with.

                               

                              💌 Let’s Stay Connected!

                              Hey lovies, I’d love to keep walking this healing journey with you beyond the podcast. Come hang out with me here:

                              👉 Facebook

                              👉 Instagram
                              👉 Email Me

                               

                              Share the Encouragement

                              If this episode resonated with you, share it with a friend who might be carrying more than she should.

                              And don’t forget to follow the podcast so you never miss an episode of Breaking the Trauma Cycle—where God turns pain into purpose and your story into hope.

                              Until next week, my friend. ❤️

                              18 min

                            About Breaking The Trauma Cycle | Anxiety, Mental Health, Forgiveness, Abuse

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                            Welcome, friend.  Breaking the Trauma Cycle is a safe place for Christian moms who are ready to heal, grow, and chase after their God-given dreams—without the weight of the past holding them back.