It is time to stop playing the games in our head. We are always playing ourselves. It is important to find that we can be successful by silencing our mind. We can be our own worst critics and this is never effective in the long run. We must decide to win and change our overall perspective. 

Life can be challenging. Often times we look for the path of least resistance. We see examples of getting rich quick and reality tv in which people find quick success. Most of the time they do not show the hard work that it takes to attain the success. Hard work and dedication is what leads to success. Take time to get what you want. 

Sometimes in life, we get our butts kicked. We expect things to go a certain way and it doesn't go as planned. Many times we look to retreat and give up on what we want. We have to know that we will rise above the challenges and find the success. 

Standards are something we often overlook. Many times we believe that we have to set our standards low to gain things in life. What we don't understand is that we are capable of setting high standards and getting what we want. Our lives are better, the people we surround ourselves with are better when we have higher standards. 

Join us today with our guest Dr. Baker. She is a psychologist with an awesome podcast called Go Friend Your Self. I enjoy her podcast each week and I know you will love it too. I am honored to have her on and I look forward to you learning some great things from her. 

 Check out the Go Friend Your Self Podcast

https://itunes.apple.com/us/podcast/go-friend-your-self-with-dr-baker/id1266870594?mt=2

 Check out her website

http://www.gofriendyourselfdoc.com

Your thoughts are what your life is. The way you set out to live is determined by you and the life you want to live. Many times we are taught to live the life that was presented by our examples such as parents and teachers. These people have influenced our decisions and have potentially shown us where we are today. Yo have the power to shift your focus to something different and become who you have always wanted. 

Your thoughts are what your life is. The way you set out to live is determined by you and the life you want to live. Many times we are taught to live the life that was presented by our examples such as parents and teachers. These people have influenced our decisions and have potentially shown us where we are today. Yo have the power to shift your focus to something different and become who you have always wanted. 

Selfish is a word that has taken on a negative feeling. There are many people who give that word a rightful meaning by being self-absorbed and out for themselves. There are many reasons why we need to take some time to look out for ourselves. Many people struggle with giving all of themselves to help others and often forgetting they exist as people too. Evaluate where you are and know that it is ok to take care of yourself. 

Perspective plays a large role in our lives. Many people have different sets of ideas and feel very strongly about them. What you can learn is that many of those same ideas are the same as yours but is said in a different way. Take time to really hear what people are saying and you will be surprised how much other people may be saying the same thing but have different ways to communicate it. 

When it comes to accomplishing your goals you have to do it for you. Many times we are looking for outside influences to really push us towards the goal but we have to do it ourselves. It is time that we decide we are doing something because that is what we want. We are full of opportunities and we will grow once we accept that we will achieve our goals because we want to.