Bret Green’s journey is one of fatherhood, growth, and courage. Known to millions as Dad Got Bars, his mix of music, honesty, and humor is reshaping how men talk about parenting and masculinity. Before becoming a viral voice for modern dads, Bret built a Hollywood career with roles in The Inspectors, How to Get Away with Murder, Stalker, and The Goldbergs. But it was fatherhood—not fame—that gave his life deeper meaning.

In this conversation with Teko Bailey, Bret opens up about showing up fully for his kids, the humility of early fatherhood, and learning patience and purpose while home with his newborn daughter. Together, they unpack the real challenges men face—ego, expectations, and healing from absent or distant fathers—while exploring how to break generational cycles with empathy and shared responsibility.

Bret’s reflections on marriage, the song “Child Support,” and supporting his wife through postpartum depression reveal a man intent on building a new model of love. His message is simple but profound: real strength is found in vulnerability, and fatherhood is sacred work.

Chapters

00:00 – A Challenge for Fathers: Presence, Respect, and Connection

02:05 – From Hollywood to Fatherhood: Rediscovering Purpose

03:36 – Breaking Generational Patterns in Parenting

05:44 – The Modern Dad: Empathy, Balance, and Shared Responsibility

07:12 – Losing and Reclaiming Identity in Early Fatherhood

09:00 – Lessons in Worth, Friendship, and Being Present

11:14 – Healing Father Wounds and Modeling Healthy Love

17:34 – Marriage, Commitment, and the Song “Child Support”

27:43 – Honoring Women: Postpartum, Partnership, and Support

33:34 – Reinvention, Legacy, and the Power of Vulnerability

About Brian Doerksen

Bret Green, known as Dad Got Bars, is an actor, recording artist, and content creator redefining modern fatherhood through storytelling and music. His work blends hip-hop with heart, sparking honest conversations about parenting, marriage, and manhood. His acting credits include CBS’s The Inspectors, ABC’s The Goldbergs, How to Get Away with Murder, and Stalker. Through his viral platform, he continues to inspire families worldwide to lead with empathy, love, and intentional presence.

Instagram: @dadgotbars

YouTube: @Dadgotbars

Spotify: Dad Got Bars

IMDB: Brett Green

About Teko Bailey

Teko Bailey is a husband, father, coach, and guide for men walking the path of faith and purpose. Through The Climb, he’s building a brotherhood of men committed to living fully, leading boldly, and climbing with intention.

Instagram: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠@IamTekoBailey⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠

Website: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠tekobailey.com⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠

Production, Distribution, and Marketing:

Massif Studio & Production

The Tallawah Group

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