What happens when you're crushing it on paper but feel completely disconnected from your work?
Kelly Ramirez, Founder of Elemental Leadership, knows exactly what that feels like. In this transformative conversation, she shares her journey from Google executive to seven-figure agency owner to executive coach—and the pivotal moment that changed everything.
Kelly's story begins in the early days of digital marketing at Google, where she worked with massive travel clients like Expedia, managing hundreds of millions in ad spend. After nearly a decade riding the Google rocket ship, she took the leap to start her own growth agency and scaled it to seven figures.
But success on paper doesn't always equal fulfillment. Kelly describes the defining moment when she was pitching a $70 million company and suddenly felt like she was watching herself from outside her body. That's when she looked up and said the words that would change her life: "I don't want to do this anymore."
In this episode, Kelly gives listeners the tools to:
Question your currency - Success isn't just about salary, equity, or status. Ask yourself what you're actually trading in and whether it aligns with your values.
Create space to listen - High achievers often measure themselves against external benchmarks for decades. You need intentional space away from execution mode to hear your inner voice.
Stop blindly charging ahead - The biggest thing holding leaders back is the inability to slow down and gain perspective on how they're showing up.
Identify hidden fears and limiting beliefs - Kelly discovered her hidden fear was being "a spineless mediocre failure," which drove her to take over situations instead of truly leading.
Leadership is about nervous system regulation - People don't remember what you said, they remember how you made them feel. Creating psychological safety enables creativity and better problem-solving.
True transformation comes from within - Tactical solutions don't fix deeper issues. Real change happens when you generate your own answers through powerful questions.
The power of purposeful stillness - Kelly and Alex discuss his artist father who would sit in his rocking chair to study his work, taking creative pauses is essential for breakthrough insights.
Embrace the uncomfortable conversations - Sometimes the most productive thing you can do is create pause and ask "What's going on with me?" before reacting.
Kelly is an executive coach who works with founders and business leaders in six-month intensives, helping them identify what's truly holding them back from having the impact they want to have. After 15+ years building and scaling businesses, she now focuses on unlocking human potential and supporting transformational change.
This episode is perfect for anyone feeling successful on paper but unfulfilled in reality, leaders who want to understand what's really driving their behavior, or anyone considering a major career transition.
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