In this episode, William Lam, Michael Mahoney and Brady Edward discuss the importance of tewaking bad habits, why they're difficult to change, and some tips and strategies for breaking them.
As human beings, we're creatures of habit. We develop routines and patterns of behavior that become ingrained in our daily lives. However, not all habits are good for us. Some habits can hold us back, hinder our personal growth, and even cause harm to ourselves and others. That's why it's important to recognize and tweak bad habits.
Tweaking bad habits isn't easy. Our brains are wired to seek out patterns and routines, and breaking away from them can feel uncomfortable and even scary. But the benefits of tweaking bad habits far outweigh the discomfort of change. By tweaking bad habits, we can improve our health, relationships, and overall well-being.
01:07 - Introduction
01:15 - Reflecting on last week’s episode with Dr. Sen
02:00 - How to uninstall bad habits
02:30 - Let’s define the bad habits we are going to remove
04:45 - Will’s story of not being consciously aware of being stronger and bigger in grade school
06:45 - Taking that story into consideration, there are probably so many out there that do not realize their bad habits
08:30 - Take ownership of the bad habit, and then work on improving that bad habit
10:30 - Our parents, not to jab at them, had fed us “lies” that have crated our beliefs and to a degree have created bad habits
12:20 - Focus not just on the macro solutions and problems, but the micro as well
15:30 - The story of human nature
17:45 - Why should we change our bad habits?
20:00 - We need to stop pointing the finger if you’re not being fair to yourself
21:30 - How to uninstall the bad habits
22:00 - All programs are there to serve us, regardless of good or bad.
23:00 - What is the best way to modify the program?
25:20 - A bad habit can easily turn into a good habit by changing the context of the bad habit
26:00 - Addictive personalities
26:45 - Identity if the one thing that governs our values
28:00 - Be careful with the words you say as those words will define you
29:45 - Command with better habits
30:45 - Motivating through negativity will lead to more pain in the world
33:30 - Humanity continues to give negative suggestions, in hopes humanity will change
36:30 - How many of us have formed bad habits because authoritative figures have told us it’s not easy?
38:00 - The Hero’s Journey is a bad habit
39:00 -Bad habits are part of a sequential program
42:45 - The pattern of humanity comes from a program