Whether you’re a 20 something year old or in your 50’s, this episode is for you and your family. Even in a pandemic, we would rather wear PPE for 24 hours straight, than discuss our feelings on taboo topics in a south Asian household. Join Dr Mistry as she discusses the differences of the British Asian diaspora living at home in comparison to the white British population, and the additional stressors we may face.
0:55 – Living with Family
2:33 – Interdependence
3:40 – White families living together
5:10 – Cultural conflict for British Asian’s living at home
7:30 – Lockdown’s impact on the British Asian Diaspora
9:52 – Impact on British Asian women
11:07 – Food scarcity, stress, uncertainty
13:15 – A year ‘wasted’
16:04 – Lack of freedom
17:00 – Being queer in a South Asian household
18:43 – The added stress of hiding our double lives in lockdown
21:40 – Resources & Support
22:07 – Opening up taboo conversations in the family
https://www.theguardian.com/society/2020/oct/18/boomerang-trend-of-young-adults-living-with-parents-is-rising-study
https://www.psychologytoday.com/gb/blog/living-single/201605/why-are-so-many-young-adults-living-their-parents
https://files.eric.ed.gov/fulltext/EJ832723.pdf
https://www.mhanational.org/blog/what-do-when-your-south-asian-parents-dont-understand-your-mental-health
https://files.eric.ed.gov/fulltext/EJ832723.pdf
https://www.burntroti.com/blog/is-enmeshment-trauma-a-cultural-norm-in-south-asian-families
https://gal-dem.com/single-south-asian-women-like-me-are-feeling-the-pressure-of-ageing-in-lockdown/
https://link.springer.com/article/10.1007/s12119-021-09817-w
https://onlinelibrary.wiley.com/doi/10.1111/gwao.12572
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