RELATIONSHIPS THAT MATTER 7
AS FOR ME AND MINE II
Joshua 24:15b
But as for me and my family, we will serve the Lord.
THE GOD FOCUSSED FAMILY
We want our family to enjoy peace, happiness, and contentment, but so often we stumble through our most important relationships.
IT NEEDS A PLAN
It takes a plan. Family covenants do not just happen.
Parents, what is your plan to become not just a Christian family but a Christ-centered home?
Long after your kids leave home, your plan to build them into Christ-centered individuals will impact their lives.
One in three children under the age of 18 deal with at least one adverse childhood experience, while 14 percent experienced two or more adverse childhood experiences. About a quarter of all adverse childhood experiences are a result of immediate family breakdown. Family breakdown in turn is caused primarily through spousal or child abuse, but more commonly from overly authoritative, overly permissive, or uninvolved parenting, divorce, or separation.
Based on data from the National Survey of Children’s Health
Your marriage needs a plan
Your discipline needs a plan
Your encouragement needs a plan
Your finances need a plan
Their sex education needs a plan
Their moral compass needs a plan
Their personality and character development needs a plan
Kids, what is your plan to become an obedient, Christ-centered adult to have the emotional and spiritual grounding that will help you craft a Christ-centered family of your own?
What kind of a person you will become needs a plan.
What kind of a parent you will be, needs a plan.
What kind of husband or wife you will become needs a plan.
Your path to marriage needs a plan
Your success in life needs a plan, not en excuse.
There is no entitlement in grace because there is no entitlement in the principle of sowing and reaping.
Many will get somewhere but not everyone gets somewhere on purpose!
THE PLAN
The family-altering qualities of righteousness, purity, peace, and persecution.
1. A FAMILY THAT HUNGERS FOR GOD
Matthew 5:6
Blessed are those who hunger and thirst for righteousness, for they will be filled.
A family that hungers for God is neither legalistic nor lukewarm.
Three ways to create a hunger for God:
Involve God in your daily conversations.Make church a non-negotiable.Show how seeking and serving God is fun.
ASIDE: Journal at every opportunity. Journaling is a sure way of identifying ways of implementing growth.
Watch out for this week’s grow notes – 20 family activities to add to your Family Plan!
FAMILY PATH COMING SPRING 2022
2. HAVING A PURE HEART
We live in a world where innocence and purity are not valued. They have been robbed from us.
ASIDE: Virginity is not purity. Losing your virginity is a covenant-bound event and so very much affects your heart. Give it away too soon and you quickly discover what a broken heart feels like.
Matthew 5:8
Blessed are the pure in heart, for they will see God.
“They will see God.” – GOD FOCUSSED
Becoming a Christ-centered family will ensure our purity of heart because without Christ there is no such thing as a pure heart.
What is a pure heart?
Greek: katharos: To have pure motivations, not having a hidden selfish agenda, an openness to the correction of our faults and failings, teachable, not entitled to our own desires, innocent, true, joined to a common cause and not self-serving, unstained by guilt or shame, genuine and sensitive to others.
The Worlds Plan:
Ephesians 4:18-19
They are darkened in their understanding and separated from the life of God because of the ignorance that is in them due to the hardening of their hearts. Having lost all sensitivity, they have given themselves over to sensuality so as to indulge in every kind of impurity…
A Christ-Centered Plan:
Psalm 119:9-10
How can a young person stay on the path of purity? By living according