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  • EP 28 - Your habits are just your nervous system on autopilot

    This episode is a pattern break.


    If you’ve been trying to change your habits with motivation, discipline, or 'starting again on Monday' this one’s going to flip everything you thought you knew.


    Your habits aren’t personality flaws, they’re automatic responses your nervous system learned to keep you safe.


    In this episode, we dive into

    ✨Why habits have nothing to do with willpower

    ✨How your brain chooses familiar over better

    ✨Why change feels uncomfortable (and why that doesn’t mean you’re failing)

    ✨The science behind making habits stick without overwhelm

    ✨How small, intentional shifts create real identity change


    Healing Girl Homework:

    Choose ONE habit you want to build this month and ask:

    What does this habit replace?

    When will it happen?

    How small can I make it so my nervous system doesn’t panic?


    This episode is the reminder that you don’t need fixing,you need systems that support the woman you’re becoming🖤

    34 min
  • EP 27 - Stop negotiating with the version of you, you've outgrown

    If you’ve been feeling stuck, drained, or quietly resentful… it’s not because you don’t know what to do.

    It’s because you keep negotiating with a version of yourself you’ve already outgrown.


    In this episode, we talk about;

    ✨Why 'confusion' is usually just avoided decision making

    ✨How negotiating with your past keeps you misaligned

    ✨The hidden self betrayal behind people pleasing and politeness

    ✨Why clarity comes after you decide, not before

    ✨How decision is the activation point for your next level


    Healing Girl Homework

    Finish this sentence honestly:

    'I am done negotiating with the version of me who…'


    If you’re ready to stop explaining your growth and start living it, this episode is for you.

    This is your season of decision sis.


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    31 min
  • EP 26 - This is the year you choose yourself...

    This New Year’s Day episode isn’t about pressure, resolutions or becoming someone new.

    It’s about coming home to yourself and choosing you on purpose this year.


    In this short reset episode, we talk about;

    ✨Letting go of the 'new year, new me' mindset

    ✨Why you’re not starting from scratch you’re starting from experience

    ✨How to set intentions instead of expectations

    ✨Choosing peace, alignment, and self-trust over hustle

    ✨Using how you want to feel as your compass for the year ahead


    Healing Girl Homework

    Take a moment today and finish this sentence 'This year, I’m choosing myself by…' This is the year you stop abandoning yourself.

    No rush, no proving, just intention🖤

    34 min
  • EP 25 - You don’t have to go back to old versions of you this Christmas

    Christmas has a way of pulling us back into old roles, old patterns, and old versions of ourselves, even when we’ve grown so much this year.


    This episode is a gentle reminder that you don’t owe anyone the person you used to be.

    You’re allowed to take your healing, your boundaries, and your self respect with you into the festive season.


    We cover

    ✨Why Christmas can trigger old dynamics

    ✨How to stay grounded around family without guilt

    ✨Permission to say no, leave early, and protect your peace

    ✨Why growth doesn’t disappear, it just gets tested


    Healing Girl Homework;

    Ask yourself before Christmas

    'Who am I now, and what do I need to stay connected to her?'


    You didn’t do all this healing just to abandon yourself for a season.

    This Christmas, you get to choose peace🖤

    31 min
  • EP 24 -  You cannot be seen if you're still playing it safe

    This episode is for the woman who knows she’s meant for more… but keeps shrinking herself to stay 'safe, not because she lacks confidence but because her body still remembers a time when visibility felt dangerous.


    We dive into:

    ✨Why hiding isn’t a mindset issue it’s a nervous system response

    ✨The subtle ways you make yourself small without realising it

    ✨How your healing + boundaries are creating safety for your real self to finally emerge

    ✨What changes when your voice, truth, and identity stop feeling like a threat


    Healing Girl Homework:

    Ask yourself;

    'Where am I shrinking myself to stay safe and what would the real me do if she felt completely safe in this moment?'


    This episode is your reminder that you’re not scared of being seen…

    you’re just healing the parts of you that were once unprotected and she’s ready now🖤

    33 min
  • EP 23 - You can't pour from empty & you don't have to anymore

    This episode is your permission slip to stop giving, fixing, saving, and carrying everyone else while leaving nothing for yourself.

    You are DONE pouring from empty and today, we talk about what actually changes when you finally choose YOU first.


    We dive into;

    ✨Why over giving is rooted in worthiness wounds

    ✨How you learned to feel 'useful' instead of feeling supported

    ✨The emotional cost of being everyone’s go to

    ✨What it looks like to shift into overflow instead of depletion

    ✨And how choosing yourself isn’t selfish it’s necessary


    Healing Girl Homework;

    'Write down the top 5 places your energy went last week and ask yourself:

    Did ANY of this actually fill me?'


    It’s time to stop bleeding yourself dry to be loved, you deserve to receive just as deeply as you give🖤

    32 min
  • EP 22 - I thought it was trauma, it was intuition all along

    This episode is honestly… a rebirth for me.


    After a really powerful Reiki session, everything finally clicked my intuition, my sensitivity, my exhaustion, my guilt around resting, my need to save everyone… all of it suddenly made sense.

    For years, I thought I was 'switched on' because of trauma butthe truth is… I was intuitive long before the trauma, I just never felt safe enough to trust it.


    I’ve been giving from empty my entire life because deep down, I didn’t believe I was worthy of receiving. I thought being useful and saving everyone else would finally make me feel enough… when actually, I needed to start giving myself the same love I pour into everyone around me.

    In this episode, I’m sharing;

    ✨The moment Reiki reconnected me with my inner child and future self

    ✨How I spent my whole life confusing intuition with fear

    ✨Why my sensitivity always felt overwhelming

    ✨The worthiness wound behind over giving and rest guilt

    ✨How boundaries turn sensitivity into a superpower

    ✨And why this season of my life feels like a complete identity shift


    This is the episode where my whole life and probably yours starts to make sense.

    You’re not becoming someone new… you’re remembering who you were before the world dimmed your light🖤


    Special thanks to Claudia for helping me on this journey, her insta is @reikifolkestone_withclaudia if you're local pay her a visit! Or connect with her online as she will be able to hold space virtually!

    31 min
  • EP 21 - Stop romanticising the hustle, start building the life

    Somewhere along the way, we started glorifying burnout.

    We made 'busy' the goal, and peace became the thing we promised ourselves 'later'.


    But one night, sitting at dinner with my husband and kids, my son asking me all these big, beautiful questions about life, I realised… I already had everything I used to pray for and I’d been too busy chasing 'more' to notice.


    We cover;

    ✨Why hustle culture is stealing your presence

    ✨How to redefine what success actually means

    ✨Why slowing down doesn’t mean falling behind

    ✨A gratitude practice to help you start living again


    One day, all of this will just be memories, make sure they’re the kind you actually want to remember🖤

    31 min
  • EP 20 - You're not behind, you're being built

    If you’ve been looking around thinking 'I should be further ahead by now' this one’s for you🖤

    You’re not stuck, failing, or falling behind.


    You’re just in your building season the one that’s quietly shaping you into the woman who can handle everything she’s been asking for.


    We cover;

    ✨Why comparison keeps you blind to your own growth

    ✨How to find peace in your 'pause' season

    ✨What’s really happening when it feels like nothing’s moving

    ✨A powerful mindset shift to help you see your waiting season as preparation, not punishment


    You’re not behind, you’re being built for something bigger, keep the faith, keep the focus that your moment’s still aligning✨



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    31 min
  • EP 19 - Imposter syndrome, she's just an old version of you

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    That voice that whispers;

    'You’re not good enough'

    She’s not the truth, she’s just the old you trying to keep you safe🖤


    In this episode, we’re talking all things imposter syndrome, how it shows up, why it never truly goes away, and how to stop letting it run the show.


    I share the story of my first ever awards night, where I almost didn’t go because that voice in my head told me I didn’t belong… and the powerful lesson I learned from it that changed everything.


    We cover;

    ✨Why imposter syndrome isn’t proof you’re unqualified, it’s proof you’re growing

    ✨How to separate your identity from that inner critic

    ✨Powerful mindset tools to quiet the imposter voice

    ✨A mini exercise to help you step back into self belief


    You’re not an imposter, you’re evolving.

    The woman you are now is living the life your younger self used to dream about💫

    29 min

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For the woman who’s done surviving and is finally ready to lead. B*tch, You Can is the raw, unfiltered podcast for women who are healing, building, and becoming, all at the same time.

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