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One of the biggest reasons people cancel memberships is overwhelm.
Members feel like they’re not using everything available to them, which leads to the feeling that the membership isn’t worth it. But the truth is that being a “good member” doesn’t mean consuming every resource inside the community.
In this episode, I share a conversation I recently had with Jay Clouse on the Creator Science podcast about how membership leaders can reduce overwhelm by clearly defining what good engagement actually looks like. We talk about why onboarding plays such a critical role in retention, how to show real examples of how top members use a community, and why collecting behavioral stories from members can dramatically improve your onboarding and product design.
Listen to my interview on Creator Science – #295: Community Building Trends For 2026
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I recently went on my friend Joe Casabona’s show Streamlined Solopreneur and he shared a story about teaching a university class where the students were supposed to have certain prerequisites… except they didn’t. He had built the entire curriculum based on assumptions that simply weren’t true.
It’s such a perfect example of what I see happening inside memberships and online programs all the time.
We pre-build the curriculum, map out the syllabus, and record all the videos. And then we never stop to ask: Are people actually getting it?
In this episode, I’m sharing why feedback loops are the most overlooked growth lever inside your community, how I learned to build real-time iteration into my teaching at General Assembly, and why treating your community like a product is the key to better engagement, stronger retention, and faster member results.
I also share why I believe this is the core issue with most on-demand courses and why so many creators are shifting from course models to membership models in 2026.
If you’re teaching live, running a membership, or designing a program right now, this one will help you rethink how you measure what’s actually working.
Listen to my interview on Streamlined Solopreneur: Your Members Don't Want More Content
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What most founders don’t realize is that onboarding is directly tied to retention. If your members do not see value quickly and understand exactly how to engage, they are far more likely to disengage and cancel.
In this episode, I walk through the five elements I believe every strong onboarding experience needs:
Throughout the entire experience, personalization matters. The more tailored the path feels to the member’s goals, the stickier your community becomes.
If you want stronger engagement and longer retention, your onboarding flow is one of the highest leverage places to start.
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If you’re thinking about migrating your community, I want you to think about it as a strategic redesign, not a tech project. A migration should significantly improve the member experience. If it doesn’t, it’s not worth the risk. But if it does, it can unlock better onboarding, clearer upsells, stronger engagement, and a much stickier subscription product.
At Affinity, we handle a lot of community migrations, most often to Circle. But we don’t recommend migration for everyone. In this episode, I walk through how I evaluate whether a migration is necessary, what makes one successful, and why this is actually one of the biggest opportunities you’ll ever have to improve your member experience.
I share case studies from moving course creators off Teachable and Facebook into one streamlined ecosystem, migrating actor communities out of Slack and ThriveCart, and redesigning a contractor membership that previously lived on Hivebrite.
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Your rigid community calendar is quietly killing your engagement.
In this episode, I break down why over-prescriptive programming actually hurts engagement and how to design experiences that balance ritual and variation. I share lessons from my time at bossbabe, explain why generic Q&As and coaching calls quietly fail, and walk through programming formats that are easier to run and more valuable for members.
We talk about topic-specific coaching calls, responsive Q&As, socials, co-working sessions, challenges, roundtables, and welcome calls and how each one serves a different member need. I also explain why lower attendance doesn’t always mean lower value and how measuring the right feedback helps you iterate your programming without rebuilding everything from scratch.
If you want stronger engagement, better retention, and programming that actually reflects what your members need right now, this episode will help you rethink how you design your calendar.
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Education has never been easier to access. Answers are instant and content is everywhere... but people feel more isolated than ever.
In this episode, I unpack why that tension is exactly why 2026 is one of the best years to be building community. As AI and technology continue to flatten access to information, the real differentiator for businesses is no longer content or education. It’s connection, belonging, and shared experience.
I talk about why content subscriptions and standalone courses are getting harder to sustain, what we can learn from companies like Kit that invest deeply in community beyond their software, and why people are choosing where to spend their money based on values, relationships, and trust. I also share why I believe community is the antidote to isolation and why businesses built on community are the ones that will last.
This is a bit of a soapbox episode, but if you’re building a business right now and wondering what actually creates longevity, this conversation will help you zoom out and see the bigger shift that’s already underway.
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This week I’m sharing the 3 problems that show up right before you scale
If growth has plateaued and selling feels harder than it should, engagement is inconsistent, or you’re feeling burned out because everything depends on you, these are not marketing or motivation problems. They’re design problems. I walk through how stalled growth is usually tied to member progress, why engagement drops when there’s no clear path forward, and how burnout shows up when the system relies too heavily on the founder.
Whether you’re just getting started or running a large, established membership, these patterns surface at every level. The good news is they’re fixable when you focus on structure, member momentum, and designing journeys that work without you carrying all the weight.
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In this episode, I’m breaking down the three core components every sticky membership needs in 2026. By sticky, I mean the kind of membership people naturally return to again and again because it feels like part of their routine.
I’m sharing what I’m seeing across dozens of membership strategy sessions at Affinity, and why personalization, quick time to value, and human connection are the real drivers of engagement and retention right now. We talk about why onboarding matters more than ever, how to design for fast wins without overwhelming your members, and what it looks like to intentionally build belonging and connection instead of leaving it up to chance.
If you’re building or updating a membership and want people to stay, participate, and actually get results, this episode will help you rethink what “value” really means in 2026.
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Podcasting is one of the most powerful relationship-building tools we have. Listeners feel deeply connected to hosts, but the relationship is still mostly one-to-many. In this episode, I talk about the opportunity podcasters are missing when they stop at downloads and ads, and why community and membership models can turn listeners into connected, supported groups working toward shared goals.
I also share why so many podcast memberships fall flat, what makes a transformational membership different from bonus content or a Patreon-style model, and how podcasters can create recurring revenue and deeper impact without burning themselves out or becoming the bottleneck for everything.
If you’re a podcaster thinking about community, membership, or how to make a bigger impact with the audience you’ve already built, this episode will spark some ideas.
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Every year, my predictions issue is one of the most shared pieces I publish, and this year I wanted to bring it to the podcast with more context, examples, and real-world nuance. In this episode, I break down my five predictions for how memberships, programs, and community-driven businesses need to evolve in 2026.
I talk about why shorter, more personalized programs are replacing long courses, why unique frameworks matter more than ever in an AI-heavy world, why innovation is no longer optional, and why retention and trust are the real growth levers moving forward. I also dig into flexible programming, async engagement, and what platforms like Circle are seeing in terms of emerging community trends. This episode is about building better products, not just more content, and designing experiences that actually respect your members’ time.
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