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 Join us as we chat with Charley Cox, a referee with an astounding 45 years of experience, who has dedicated his life to the beautiful game. From his humble beginnings refereeing in the military to becoming a pivotal mentor for young referees in the Florida Futures Program, Charlie shares his incredible journey and the wisdom he's gained along the way. Discover the the importance of creating a positive environment for youth players, and how the role of a referee has transformed over the decades from strict rule enforcer to a facilitator of enjoyable game experiences.

Our conversation takes a closer look at the Florida Futures Referee Program, a groundbreaking initiative for budding referees aged 11 to 14. With an affordable entry fee and a comprehensive training regimen that includes online modules, field events, and essential gear, this program is a game-changer. Charlie explains how it not only addresses the critical shortage of referees but also instills valuable life skills such as responsibility, professionalism, and teamwork in its young participants. Hear inspiring stories of how these young referees earn their first paychecks while contributing to the smooth running of local soccer clubs, ensuring games are scheduled and played without a hitch.

Mentorship stands out as a cornerstone of the program’s success. Charlie delves into the support structures provided by the Florida State Referee Association, including monthly webinars with FIFA professional referees and hands-on guidance during tournaments. Learn about the common challenges that new referees face, such as handling dissent from coaches, and how accruing game repetitions can bolster their confidence and resilience. This episode is a heartfelt tribute to the mentors who shape the future of refereeing, the joy of making soccer fun for young players, and the profound impact that a well-supported referee can have on the game. Don’t miss this inspiring discussion on the art and heart of refereeing.

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