Building Healthy Relationships - The 4 Habits Podcast

Divorce doesn’t end parenting—it transforms it. Are you doing it right?

In this powerful episode of The 4 Habits Podcast, Dr. Andrea and Jon are joined by co-parenting and blended family expert Dr. Jann Blackstone. With decades of experience in family mediation and as founder of Bonus Families, Jann has helped thousands of parents navigate the emotional minefield of post divorce parenting—and raise thriving children in the process.

Jann unpacks the biggest mistakes parents make after separation, introduces her practical CARE framework, and offers a complete reframe on “stepfamilies” through the lens of bonus families—a mindset that focuses on gain, not loss.

If you’ve ever felt stuck in conflict with an ex, unsure how to blend families, or worried about the impact on your kids, this conversation is your roadmap to a more peaceful, child-focused path forward.

📌 EPISODE HIGHLIGHTS (Timestamps):

00:00 – Is your co-parenting hurting your kids?

01:00 – Meet Dr. Jann Blackstone: Mediator. Mom. Bonus family pioneer.

03:00 – The CARE framework: 4 habits for healthy co-parenting

05:45 – The #1 mindset shift divorced parents need

08:00 – Badmouthing explained—and why it’s more damaging than you think

11:10 – Why being “right” isn’t worth your child’s peace

14:25 – From reaction to intention: parenting as your best self

17:55 – “You’re not my ex. You’re my co-parent now.”

21:00 – Scripts to reduce conflict and foster empathy

24:10 – Why the word “step” was never enough—and how “bonus” changed everything

28:30 – Blending families starts with acceptance, not control

34:15 – The legacy moment: How do you want your kids to remember this?

🔗 NEXT STEPS

A) Take Action – Connect with Dr. Jann Blackstone:

– Website: www.bonusfamilies.com

– LinkedIn: Dr. Jann Blackstone

– Facebook: Bonus Families

– Book: The Bonus Family Handbook – On Amazon: https://a.co/d/cjqKnbJ

B) StayConnected for More Episodes:

– Watch on YouTube: @The4Habits

– Listen on Spotify: The 4 Habits Podcast

C) Learn and Share:

– Take the FREE Relationship Skills Quiz: http://the4habitsquiz.scoreapp.com

– Join the Unlocking Performance & Profitability Masterclass: https://the4habits.com/topteams

– GET OUR BOOK: https://the4habits.com/book/

#BonusFamily #CoParenting #DivorceDoneRight #HealthyRelationships #BlendedFamilies #The4Habits #The4HabitsPod

Can caregiving be joyful—even funny?

In this episode of The 4 Habits Podcast, Dr. Andrea & Jon sit down with Mark Steven Porro, award-winning author of A Cup of Tea on the Commode, to explore the emotional, humorous, and deeply human journey of parenting your parent.

When Mark became the full-time caregiver for his 90-year-old mother, he had no roadmap—just love, instinct, and a healthy dose of humor. His story is one of resilience, role reversal, and redefining dignity—and it will leave you laughing, reflecting, and maybe even calling your own parents.

This episode is a must-listen for anyone in the “squeezed generation”, juggling careers, kids, and aging parents, and searching for a more compassionate path.

Episode Highlights (Timestamps):

00:00 – Parenting your parents: Humour & dignity in caregiving

02:00 – From son to caregiver: Mark’s unexpected journey

05:40 – Hospice, love, and the comeback moment: Pumpkin pie saves the day

10:15 – The mindset shift that changed everything

14:30 – Finding beauty, joy, and laughter in the daily grind

19:00 – Day of Beauty: Treating his mom like a queen

23:00 – The toll—and gifts—of caregiving as a man

28:00 – Why “Find the Joy” became Mark’s personal motto

33:15 – Does wiping butts cause amnesia? (Yes, it’s a chapter!)

36:30 – What this journey taught him about unconditional love

40:00 – Reflections, resilience, and parenting with purpose

45:00 – Why Mark believes it was his mom who saved him

Next Steps:

A) Take Action – Connect with Mark Steven Porro:

– Website: https://acupofteaonthecommode.org

– Book: A Cup of Tea on the Commode – Available on Amazon

– YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@acupofteaonthecommode

B) Stay Connected for more episodes:

– Watch on YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@The4Habits

– Listen on Spotify:https://open.spotify.com/show/0fWvVbnNNhh9jodRYGG1O1

C) Learn and Share:

– Take the FREE Relationship Skills Quiz: http://the4habitsquiz.scoreapp.com

– Join the High-Performing Teams Masterclass:https://the4habits.com/topteams

– GET OUR BOOK: https://the4habits.com/book/

Let’s ignite change and make a difference!

#Caregiving #ParentingYourParents #ElderCare#HumorAndHealing #UnconditionalLove #RelationshipsMatter #The4HabitsPod

💡 Can you really have success, wealth, and balance—all at once?

In this episode of The 4 Habits Podcast, Dr. Andrea & Jon sit down with Sean McMann, an ex-corporate leader turned “corporate hacker” who walked away from a high-flying career at the peak of his success. Sean reveals the hidden lies we’ve been told about work, success, and balance—and how to break free.

👉 Why the 40-hour workweek is outdated

👉 The secret to working less and earning more

👉 How to redefine success without sacrificing relationships

If you’ve ever felt trapped in the grind, this episode is for you! Tune in for practical strategies on escaping the corporate jungle and building a life you love.

Episode Highlights (Timestamps)

00:00 – Welcome Sean McMann: Escaping the corporate jungle

02:30 – Why the 40-hour workweek is outdated

06:15 – The biggest lies about success we’ve been told

10:40 – How Sean worked fewer hours but earned more

14:55 – Why most of us are consumers, not producers

20:30 – The 30-Minute Mastery Rule for working smarter

24:15 – AI & automation: How the future of work is changing

29:00 – Breaking free from the work = self-worth trap

34:45 – Sean’s top strategies for hacking your work-life balance

40:10 – Final insights: Success isn’t about time—it’s about impact

Next Steps

A) Take Action – Connect with Sean McMann:

🌐 Website: https://www.seanmcmann.com

🔗 LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/seanmcmann

📖 Get Sean’s book: Hacking the Corporate Jungle: How to Work Less, Make More, and Actually Like Your Life

B) Stay Connected for more episodes:

🎥 Watch on YouTube: @The4Habits

🎧 Listen on Spotify: The 4 Habits Podcast

C) Learn and Share:

📊 Take our FREE Relationship Skills Quiz: http://the4habitsquiz.scoreapp.com

📚 Join the High-Performing Teams Masterclass: https://the4habits.com/topteams

📩 Request a topic or guest: [email protected]

📤 Share this episode with someone feeling stuck in their career!

Let’s ignite change and make a difference!

#SeanMcMann #TheBalanceHack #WorkSmarterNotHarder #HackingTheCorporateJungle #RedefineSuccess #WorkLifeBalance #CareerTransformation #ProductivityHacks #HealthyRelationships #WorkLifeBalance #RelationshipAdvice #PersonalGrowth #The4HabitsPod

In this episode, we dive deep into The TRUST Shortcut with TEDx speaker, author, and coach Patrick Galvin, the Chief Galvanizer of The Galvanizing Group. Patrick is known for helping high-performing teams and organizations strengthen connections and drive growth, and today, he’s here to share the key habits for building authentic trust in relationships—whether in business or personal life.

We explore:

✅ Why trust is often broken before it’s built—and how to reverse that

✅ The biggest mistakes people make when trying to build trust

✅ How to transform transactional relationships into transformational ones

✅ The Four-Way Test—a simple yet powerful framework for trust-building

If you’re ready to unlock deeper connections and stronger relationships, this conversation is for you!

🎧 Tune in now!

Episode Highlights (Timestamps) 

00:00 – Welcome & intro to Patrick Galvin

01:06 – Three time zones, one conversation: The power of technology

02:16 – Patrick’s journey: From The Connector’s Way to The Trusted Way

05:58 – The biggest mistakes people make when trying to build trust

08:12 – Transactional vs. Transformational relationships—what’s the difference?

10:44 – The Four-Way Test—how a 24-word principle canchange everything

15:30 – Trust in leadership: How businesses succeed (or fail) based on trust

22:40 – The role of authenticity in business and networking

27:15 – Practical habits to build trust daily

34:00 – Final thoughts: The most impactful trust-building habit to start today

Next Steps

A) Take Action – Connect with Patrick Galvin:

– Website: https://www.thegalvanizinggroup.com

– LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/patrickgalvin

– Books: https://www.thegalvanizinggroup.com/books

B) Stay Connected for more episodes:

– Watch on YouTube: @The4Habits

– Listen on Spotify: The 4 Habits Podcast

C) Learn and Share:

– Take the FREE Relationship Skills Quiz: http://the4habitsquiz.scoreapp.com

– Join the High-Performing Teams Masterclass: https://the4habits.com/topteams

– GET OUR BOOK: https://the4habits.com/book/

Let’s ignite change and make a difference!

#PatrickGalvin #TrustShortcut #AuthenticConnections #RelationshipBuilding #TheConnectorWay #BusinessSuccess #Leadership #TrustMatters #NetworkingDoneRight #The4Habits #The4HabitsPod

Welcome back to The 4 Habits Podcast! In this eye-opening episode, Dr. Andrea & Jon sit down with Riana Milne, a globally recognized expert in Life, Love, and Relationship Trauma Recovery.

Many high-achievers unknowingly carry the effects of childhood trauma into their adult lives—impacting relationships, careers, and overall success. Riana shares how unresolved trauma creates emotional triggers, sabotages love and leadership, and keeps us stuck in unhealthy cycles.

Tune in to discover:

– How childhood trauma affects confidence, relationships, and career growth.

– The Top 10 Adverse Childhood Experiences that shape adult behaviours.

– Steps to recognize, heal, and break free from limiting patterns.

If you’ve ever felt held back without knowing why, this episode will give you the tools to create the success and relationships you deserve!

Episode Highlights (Timestamps): 

00:00 Welcome & introduction to Riana Milne

02:15 How childhood trauma impacts adult success

05:30 The 10 most common childhood traumas

10:45 Signs of emotional triggers affecting love & leadership

15:00 Why some people attract toxic relationships

20:35 Strategies to break free from negative patterns

28:50 How to build an emotionally healthy relationship

35:00 Riana’s best relationship advice for professionals

40:10 Final thoughts & where to connect with Riana

Next Steps: 

A) Take Action – Connect with Riana Milne:

– Website: https://RianaMilne.com

– FREE Two eBooks on What is Emotionally Healthy Love & Toxic Relationship Warning Signs: https://dating.rianamilne.com/free-life-love-reports
– Podcast: Lessons in Life & Love (Available on iTunes)

– Books: Love Beyond Your Dreams & Live Beyond Your Dreams available on Amazon & Barnes & Noble

B) Stay Connected for more episodes:

– Watch on YouTube: @The4Habits

– Listen on Spotify: The 4 Habits Podcast

C) Learn and Share:

– Take the FREE Relationship Skills Quiz: http://the4habitsquiz.scoreapp.com

– Join the High-Performing Teams Masterclass: https://the4habits.com/topteams

– GET OUR BOOK: https://the4habits.com/book/

Let’s ignite change and make a difference!

#ChildhoodTrauma #RianaMilne #HealingRelationships #ToxicRelationships #PersonalGrowth #EmotionalWellness #SelfAwareness #RelationshipRecovery #The4Habits #The4HabitsPod

Welcome back to The 4 Habits Podcast! In this episode, Dr. Andrea & Jon sit down with Kathy Rushing, a seasoned Marriage & Family Counsellor and relationship coach who specializes in helping entrepreneurial couples navigate the challenges of love and business.

With over 30 years of experience and more than 40 years of marriage to a serial entrepreneur, Kathy knows firsthand what it takes to balance ambition with connection. Through her Lodestar Relationship Coaching and Committed: The Entrepreneur Marriage podcast, she guides couples to stay aligned while chasing big dreams.

💡 Can you work AND live together without driving each other crazy? In this episode, we uncover:

✔️ The real challenges of being married to an entrepreneur

✔️ How to avoid resentment when one partner is “all-in” on a business

✔️ Kathy’s must-have relationship rhythms to keep love strong

✔️ How to set boundaries between work and personal life

If you and/or your partner are entrepreneurs, this episode is packed with practical strategies to help you succeed in both business and love!

🎧 Listen now and learn how to build a thriving marriage while growing a business.

Episode Highlights (Timestamps): 

00:00 - Welcome & Introduction to Kathy Rushing

02:05 - The Entrepreneur’s Marriage: Is it Possible to Have Both?

05:45 - The #1 Challenge for Entrepreneur Couples & How to Solve It

09:30 - “The Business is a Mistress” – How to Avoid This Common Pitfall

12:50 - The 30-Minute Power Connect: A Simple Tool for Staying Aligned

18:15 - The Importance of Setting Boundaries Between Work& Love

23:40 - Keeping the Fun & Friendship Alive in Your Relationship

29:55 - The 6 Types of Intimacy & Why They Matter for Entrepreneurs

35:10 - Kathy’s Best Advice for Couples Who Work & Live Together

Next Steps: 

A) Take Action – Connect with Kathy Rushing:

– Website: https://www.kathyrushing.com

– LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/kathy-rushing/

– Podcast: Committed: The Entrepreneur Marriagehttps://www.kathyrushing.com/podcast

B) Stay Connected for more episodes:

– Watch on YouTube: @The4Habits

– Listen on Spotify: The 4 HabitsPodcast  

C) Learn and Share:

– Take the FREE Relationship Skills Quiz: http://the4habitsquiz.scoreapp.com

– Join the High-Performing Teams Masterclass: https://the4habits.com/topteams

– GET OUR BOOK: https://the4habits.com/book/

💬 Let’s ignite change and make a difference!

#EntrepreneurMarriage #KathyRushing #WorkLifeBalance #LoveAndBusiness #HealthyRelationships #The4Habits #MarriageSuccess #EntrepreneursInLove #Boundaries #RelationshipGoals

Ever had someone say they’ll do something… and then they don’t? Maybe it’s a boss who promises to have your back but never follows through, or a partner who commits to being more present but nothing changes. That sinking doubt is the first sign of trust breaking down—and if left unchecked, it spirals fast.

In this episode, Dr. Andrea & Jon unpack the #1 silent trust killer: Inconsistency—which often stems from assumptions instead of asking. When expectations go unspoken and unchecked, trust erodes one small fiber at a time—at work, at home, and in life.

🔹 Why assumptions create trust gaps

🔹 4 early warning signs of trust breakdown

🔹 How to rebuild trust before it’s lost completely

Tune in to discover how to catch assumptions before they turn into inconsistency and keep your Emotional Bank Accounts in the green.

Because trust isn’t just about big betrayals—it’s built (or broken) in the small moments.

💡 Want to transform your relationships?Take our FREE Relationship Skills Quiz and discover practica ways to build trust and connection: http://the4habitsquiz.scoreapp.com.

⏳ Episode Highlights (Timestamps):

00:00 – Intro: The trust breakdown scenario we all recognize

05:00 – The #1 Trust-Killer: Assumptions & Inconsistency

12:30 – Real-life examples of trust gaps at work & home

15:00 – 4 Early Warning Signs of Trust Breakdown (Doubt, Distance, Defensiveness, Disengagement)

25:30 – How to stop assumptions & build trust instead

35:00 – Final thoughts: The key to rebuilding trust & taking action today

🚀 Next Steps: 

A) Take Action:

– Discover The 4 Habits book: https://the4habits.com/book/

– Take our FREE Relationship Skills Quiz: http://the4habitsquiz.scoreapp.com

– Join the High-Performing Teams Masterclass: https://the4habits.com/topteams

B) Stay Connected:

– Watch on YouTube: @The4Habits

– Listen on Spotify: https://open.spotify.com/show/0fWvVbnNNhh9jodRYGG1O1?si=620bf735328f48a1&nd=1&dlsi=e4d7e3fd728e4c30

C) Learn and Share:

– Request a topic or guest: [email protected]

– Share this episode with someone navigating trust challenges!

Let’s ignite change and make a difference!

#Trust #RelationshipsMatter #Communication #TrustBuilding#Leadership #HealthyRelationships #Podcast #The4Habits #The4HabitsPod

Welcome back to The 4 Habits Podcast! Today, Dr. Andrea & Jon Taylor-Cummings sit down with Matthew Newnham, business coach and co-founder of Five Institute, for an eye opening conversation on how to uncover and leverage your unique superpowers for greater success.

Matthew brings a fresh perspective on leadership, team dynamics, and personal fulfilment—rooted in the Five Energies framework from Chinese philosophy. Whether you’re an entrepreneur, a leader, or part of a high-performing team, understanding your natural strengths can reduce friction, boost collaboration, and unlock your full potential.

🎧 Tune in to learn:

🚀 Why most people struggle to articulate their true strengths

🧠 How to avoid “corporate autopilot” and find work that energizes you

🔥 The Five Energies framework—what it reveals about your leadership style

💡 Why alignment matters more than effort when it comes to success

🎯 How to position yourself in business without hype or exaggeration

💬 Practical tips to find your flow and thrive at work

This is a must-listen for anyone looking to make work feel more natural, more rewarding, and more impactful.

Episode Highlights (Timestamps):

00:00 Welcome & introduction to Matthew Newnham.

01:06 Why so many people struggle to define their strengths.

03:34 The power of authentic positioning in business and leadership.

07:07 Unpacking the Five Energies framework and what it reveals.

11:22 Why traditional personality tests often fail to capture true talent.

16:09 The hidden cost of misalignment in teams and careers.

22:42 How to create a high-performing team using natural strengths.

26:30 The role of energy in workplace engagement (and why it matters).

30:25 Why leadership success is about trusting your own strengths.

36:40 Closing thoughts: How to apply these insights starting today.

Next Steps: 

A) Take Action – Connect with Matthew Newnham:

– FREE Business Superpower Call: https://repositionme.com

– LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/matthewnewnham/

B) Stay Connected for More Episodes:

– Watch on YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@The4Habits

– Listen on Spotify: https://open.spotify.com/show/0fWvVbnNNhh9jodRYGG1O1

C) Learn and Share:

– Take the FREE Relationship Skills Quiz: http://the4habitsquiz.scoreapp.com

– Join the High-Performing Teams Masterclass: https://the4habits.com/topteams

– GET OUR BOOK: https://the4habits.com/book/

Let’s ignite change and make a difference!

#MatthewNewnham #BusinessSuperpowers #Leadership

Welcome back to The 4 Habits Podcast! Today, Dr. Andrea & Jon Taylor-Cummings sit down with Kevin White, co-founder of Believe Crew, to explore the journey of personal growth, overcoming limiting beliefs, and stepping into authentic leadership.

Kevin shares his powerful story of shifting from anxiety and self-doubt to embracing his role as a coach and healer. After a fast rise in the tech industry, he felt a divine calling to lead differently—one that required dismantling internal barriers, healing from past trauma, and learning to love himself first.

In this deep and inspiring conversation, Kevin unpacks the importance of tuning into intuition, facing hard truths, and building trust in relationships—both personal and professional. If you’ve ever felt held back by fear or self-doubt, this episode is packed with wisdom on breaking free and leading with confidence.

🎧 Tune in to learn:

💡 How personal struggles shape leadership and relationships

🔑 Why self-love is the foundation of true success

🧠 The impact of limiting beliefs—and how to break free

🔥 How fear vs. love dictates your decisions (without you realizing it!)

💬 The power of coaching and mentorship in personal growth

💙 How healing from within transforms your leadership style

This is a must-listen for leaders looking to create lasting impact—starting from the inside out!

Episode Highlights (Timestamps): 

00:00 Welcome & introduction to Kevin White.

01:06 Kevin’s journey: from tech leadership to personal transformation.

02:27 The moment that changed everything—losing both mothers-in-law.

04:57 What success really means and how Kevin redefined it.

06:35 Breaking the cycle: confronting addiction and disconnection.

08:06 Learning to love yourself—why it’s the foundation of change.

09:49 The role of fear vs. love in leadership and life.

12:17 How mentors and coaches helped Kevin step into his

15:00 Recognizing victim mindset patterns and shifting

18:40 How unresolved inner struggles affect leadership and relationships.

22:10 The power of forgiveness and letting go of past pain.

26:55 Kevin’s advice for leaders: trust, intuition, and

30:45 Closing thoughts: how to start your own journey of

Next Steps:

A) Take Action – Connect with Kevin White:

– Website: https://www.believecrew.com

– LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/kevin-g-white/

– Podcast: https://www.linkedin.com/company/business-addicts-podcast/

B) Stay Connected for More Episodes:

– Watch on YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@The4Habits

– Listen on Spotify: https://open.spotify.com/show/0fWvVbnNNhh9jodRYGG1O1

C) Learn and Share:

– Take the FREE Relationship Skills Quiz: http://the4habitsquiz.scoreapp.com

– Join the High-Performing Teams Masterclass: https://the4habits.com/topteams

– GET OUR BOOK: https://the4habits.com/book/

Let’s ignite change and make a difference!

This week on The 4 Habits Podcast, Dr. Andrea & Jon Taylor Cummings welcome Dr. Greg Stewart—counselor, coach, and author of I3 for Couples. In this insightful conversation, they explore how emotional intelligence (EI) is the key to thriving in leadership and personal relationships.

Dr. Stewart shares his journey, from leadership coaching to navigating personal struggles, and how mastering EI helped him transform setbacks into strength. Together, they dive into the practical ways leaders can cultivate self-awareness, navigate emotional challenges, and foster trust in both the workplace and at home.

If you’re juggling leadership responsibilities while striving for harmony in personal relationships, this episode is packed with invaluable strategies!

Episode Highlights (Timestamps): 

00:00 – Welcome & Introduction to Dr. Greg Stewart

03:42 – Dr. Greg’s journey: From leadership to emotional

07:30 – Why emotional intelligence is crucial for leaders

12:05 – Handling emotional struggles in high-pressure

18:20 – The inner strength behind negative emotions

24:45 – Emotional intelligence and conflict resolution in

30:15 – Balancing professional success with personal

37:50 – Actionable tips for strengthening emotional

42:10 – Closing thoughts & key takeaways

Next Steps:

A) Take Action – Connect with Dr. Greg Stewart:

– Website & Resources: https://linktr.ee/drgregstewart

– Get I3 on Amazon: [Paperback & Kindle available

– Pre-order I3 for Couples on Amazon: [Available

B) Stay Connected for more episodes:

– Watch on YouTube: @The4Habits

– Listen on Spotify: The 4 Habits

C) Learn and Share:

– Take the FREE Relationship Skills Quiz: http://the4habitsquiz.scoreapp.com

– Join the High-Performing Teams Masterclass: https://the4habits.com/topteams

– GET OUR BOOK: https://the4habits.com/book/

Let’s ignite change and make a difference!

#EmotionalIntelligence #Leadership #TrustBuilding