Building HER with Katja Lillian

I disappeared from social media for two months. I didn't plan too but I had nothing left to pour into my business while I was in California with my mom through her last two chemo treatments. She's cancer free now! I cried, she cried & she got to ring the bell.

This episode is about what I noticed watching the industry from the outside looking in instead of being in it. 

In today's episode, I discuss the following:

- Why I disappeared for 2 months

- What I think has become the new rat race

- What gives me the ick!

- Why I think people still only show the highlight reel

- Why opinions matter more and how like, know, trust is dead

- What happened in my business to prove success isn't linear and 

If any of this resonates, DM me and tell me. I take every feedback into consideration to form my next episode! 

This episode is a real, honest life update.

I’m sharing what’s been happening behind the scenes - from my mom’s recent cancer diagnosis and what our family has been navigating, to how it’s shifted my perspective on time, priorities, and what actually matters.

We also get into:

• Why I’ve been quieter on Instagram 
• How I've been spending the summer in California
• The rebrand and business shifts I’m moving through

If you’re in a season where life, business, and identity are all evolving at once - this one will feel like a deep exhale.

Welcome back to my series "0 to 100: BTS Secrets of Building a 6 Figure Business in 1 Year"! 

Continuing this series with the fourth episode sharing how I made $10,000 from a 45 min speaking engagement. 

If anything resonates with you or if you have questions, feel free to DM me on IG!

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In case you missed it:

[SERIES: 0 to 100] Secret #3 - The Power of Investing (4 Science-Backed Reasons)

From Corporate to Coach: 5 Fears That Keep You Stuck (and How I Built A 6 Figure Business Anyway)

Welcome back to my series "0 to 100: BTS Secrets of Building a 6 Figure Business in 1 Year"! 

Continuing this series with the third episode sharing why the power of investing is so life-changing. I will always share from my experiences but I also felt the need to prove my experience with science.

If anything resonates with you or if you have questions, feel free to DM me on IG!

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In case you missed it:

[SERIES: 0 to 100] Secret #2 - The 3C Formula That Made Me $100K & Still Use Today

The Experience That Changed My Life

Welcome to my series "0 to 100: BTS Secrets of Building a 6 Figure Business in 1 Year"! 

Continuing this series with the second episode revealing the EXACT formula I used to make my first $100,000 and that I still use today.

If anything resonates with you or if you have questions, feel free to DM me on IG!

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Articles referenced:

1. Instagrammer with 2M followers couldn't sell 36 T-Shirts

2. You Only need 1,000 Fans to be successful

In case you missed it:

[SERIES: 0 to 100] Secret #1 - How I Made $100,000 In 1 Year

Welcome to my brand new series "0 to 100: BTS Secrets of Building a 6 Figure Business in 1 Year"! 🎉

Kicking off this series with the first episode uncovering EXACTLY how I made $100,000 in 1 Year In My Coaching Business. 

If anything resonates with you or if you have questions, feel free to DM me on IG!

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Other episodes referenced:

1. Zero sign-ups, $10K Anyway & Why I'm Not Spiraling

2. Things Are Changing...The Decision I've Made & How I Will Embrace A New Identity

This episode is raw, real and vulnerable as I bring you behind the scenes of what I'm experiencing in real time. 

On the tailend of my SheEO launch, I discovered Jessi Jean's Yap Challenge and I'm so excited for what's to come in terms of content creation. 

I'm making a switch from a title and I feel like it's going to be a big change with big rewards. 

Tune in and DM me on Instagram what resonates the most with you.

Zero people signed up for my most recent SheEO launch. Not one. And I'm a business coach. I'm talking about all of it here, the gut-wrenching moment when reality set in, the clarity that came after, and the unexpected $10K that showed up the very next day from a completely different direction.

This episode is also a bit of a homecoming. I've been too polished, too strategic, too far from the raw, honest version of this podcast that I started it as. So this one's off the cuff, unscripted, recorded from my parents' guest bedroom in California with zero agenda. Just me, the truth, and a whole lot of excitement about what's coming next.

If you've ever had a launch flop, felt like you had to perform perfection online, or wondered if being honest about the messy parts would cost you, this one's for you.

SheEO is officially open - click the link to learn more and claim your spot. 

See you on the inside!

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If you’ve ever wondered how successful coaches seem to start, build and maintain their business, let me spill the tea. In this episode, you’ll uncover the 10 lies and mindset shifts that can help you get unstuck, unlock abundance & build the freedom-based business, no matter where you’re starting from. 

SheEO is officially open and early bird pricing is here! Use code "EARLYBIRD" at checkout.

Claim your spot this week and save $1,000. 

This deal expires Wednesday, 5/27/26. See you on the inside!

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This week I've leaked one of my business trainings from inside SheEO, all about how to be an exceptional coach so that your clients want to stay with you for years.

The most common thing I see in bad coaches isn't cruelty. It's self-focus.

They're thinking about how they sound. Whether they look like an expert. What to say next. And because of all that noise in their own head, they miss what's right in front of them — a human being who is telling them exactly what they need help with, if someone would just listen.

Good coaching starts with shutting up. Your job isn't to talk. It's to ask the right questions and then actually listen to the answers. Not wait for your turn. Not prep your next point. Listen.

I learned this in sales, actually. The second you start rattling off everything you know, you've already lost the room. People don't want to know what you know. They want to feel like you heard their actual problem.