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- How vulnerability brings cash with special guest Chiara Mason
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"If you present as high functioning people assume you have everything together"
Something i want to share is that being vulnerable is hard for most of us. But it is also a super power. Allow it to be yours because the more honest in your vulnerability you can be. Gives space to others to feel seen.
In this episode we talk about how authenticity continues to push you in the direction you want to go in. What the blocks are to your upper limit. How mental health is affected by your journey. What kind of free resources there are for mental health. Two different perspective's on how your childhood impacts your relationship with your purpose and your vision.
In this episode we touch on:
- How to stay in your own lane
- How to support your mental health
- What happens when you go against your own nature
- Reminding yourself of your own value
- What happens when you have support in your life cheering you on
- The pressure that you had to do something a certain way
- Reinforcing that I need to keep going
- How to process feelings
Takeaway + Action: Allow yourself to reach for your dream and listen to the voice in your head that is screaming for more. If you are meant for more, allow yourself to reach for it. Be willing to be seen. Your action step is to ask yourself what is one step that will allow me to be seen more today and get comfortable with the uncomfortable.
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With Love, Elyse
39 min - How childhood trauma causes issues in making your own money
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"i've been taught being helpful is how I was worthy or important to someone."
Something i want to share is that this is something that I still struggle with. This is why it is on the podcast. Because it's something I have to be aware of and pay attention to.
In this episode I talk about the signs that your living your life for someone else. How that doesn't support your overall vision. I talk about how to fix it and how your worth is sometimes determine by how "helpful" you are as a person. Then how to change how you see yourself as worthy.
In this episode we touch on:
Are you living your life for someone else?
SIGNS
-look at someone else’s calendar before your own
-do things for others before you
-when you wake up your first thought is someone else
-looking forward to the end of the day more because someone is coming home
-focused on giving and getting things for others first
-you dont have goals or dreams that are your own
- NOTE FROM RECOVERING PEOPLE PLEASER
- I HAVE DONE THIS WITH EACH PARENT BECAUSE ITS WHAT I WAS TAUGHT TO DO
- THEN I DID IT WITH BOYFRIENDS
- I HAVE BEEN TAUGHT THAT MY WORTH COMES FROM HELPING SOMEONE OR BEING VALUABLE TO SOMEONE ELSE
HOW TO STOP
- DO SOMETHING FOR YOURSELF BEFORE YOU LEAVE YOUR ROOM
- REPROGRAM YOURSELF TO THINK ABOUT YOURSELF FIRST WHEN BEFORE YOU GET OUT OF BED.
- PLAN OUT YOUR GOALS OF WHERE YOU WANT TO BE BEFORE YOU TALK TO A SIGNIFICANT OTHER OR FAMILY MEMBER
- HAVE A REMINDER
- WHEN WAS THE LAST TIME YOU MEASURED HOW FAR YOU’VE COME
- BASING YOUR DECISIONS ON WHAT YOU WANT
Takeaway + Action: When your living your life for someone else you become resentful and angry that you spend so much time putting them first. But it doesn't make you a bad person for wanting to put yourself first. An action step is to put a sticky note on your night stand that says do something for yourself before you leave the room.
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If you like me are the kind of person who likes to help people, then share this with your friends and fam. If you resonated and found it valuable, then yes they will too. Please leave a good review on Apple Podcasts so we can reach more of the globe. To change the world together!
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My IG
https://www.instagram.com/burningpure/
My Website
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My FB
https://www.facebook.com/elyse.alexander.5
My Youtube
https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCrZsOOHBrQFwmCJKlaNLlkA
Thank you for taking your time to listen!
With Love, Elyse
26 min - When you treat it like a business it will be a business with special guest Lia Bliss
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"It's not about the how, it's about the very next step."
Something i want to share is that you must be willing to believe in your dream because most of the time it will not happen on the first try. So you must keep going until. Find ways to connect with like minded people and forget about the how. Keep putting yourself out there over and over.
In this episode I connect with Lia about what normally is the thing they don't tell you to make it really work. The secrets that people leave out when they tell you how to make your own big money. But normally you work from where you are instead of working from who you want to be. We have a fun conversation about the fine print of being an entrepreneur. What we have each learned from our journey to the mountain top and how it is ever evolving. We talk about the actionable next steps of how to go from i don't know what a business is to creating your dream life and business.
In this episode we touch on:
- Embodiment
- jobby or business
- passive income
- how to have a life too
- Implementation
- Bliss magic
- Master your bliss life podcast by Lia Bliss
https://blisspointconsult.com/podcasts/
- Everything is your fault book by Lia Bliss
https://www.amazon.com/Everything-Your-Fault-Understanding-Unlocking/dp/B0B3HVBJGM
- Body keeps the score book by Bessel van der kolk
https://www.amazon.com/Body-Keeps-Score-Healing-Trauma/dp/0143127748/ref=sr_1_1?crid=2RW2UAP30XXUN&keywords=body+keeps+the+score&qid=1708050671&s=books&sprefix=body+keeps+%2Cstripbooks%2C134&sr=1-1
- Feel important because your busy
- Who doesn't love paint by numberers
- Do you struggle with structure if you don't have a job
Takeaway + Action: When you treat your business with low priority or like a hobby then that is what it will become. When you treat your business as a priority and a monetization effect then that is what it will become. Your action step is to figure out what your immediate next step is and to break down the steps into bite size pieces and do the immediate next step.
Please Follow + Subscribe to my podcast anywhere you listen to podcasts.
DID YOU LIKE THIS EPISODE?
If you like me are the kind of person who likes to help people, then share this with your friends and fam. If you resonated and found it valuable, then yes they will too. Please leave a good review on Apple Podcasts so we can reach more of the globe. To change the world together!
OTHER RESOURCES YOU MAY LOVE:
My IG
https://www.instagram.com/burningpure/
My Website
https://burningpure.my.canva.site/
My FB
https://www.facebook.com/elyse.alexander.5
My Youtube
https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCrZsOOHBrQFwmCJKlaNLlkA
Thank you for taking your time to listen!
With Love, Elyse
56 min - The Blocks you would never guess stop you from the true Path to Success with Guest Sam Laliberte
"I did't know other people weren't as introspected as I was..."
Something i want to share is that there is enough room for all of us to eat. This is why I have guests on my podcast who are amazing even if we do similar things. Because I have no lack mindset, I live in abundance mindset. That I want to help the world grow and change, so that means whoever can resinate with someone else I want everyone to feel the shift. Because not everyone will like me, and thats ok. Im not here for them.
In this episode we talk about what success means to us. We also discuss the blocks that stop you to success. We also go into what keeps us focused and aligned with our dream.
In this episode we touch on:
- What keeps us aligned to our dream
- How you shift in the times that your dream grows and changes
- How to stay consistent and on track
- Your big why
- the step by step of what we were willing to do to make "it" happen
- the dedication that it takes to stay
Takeaway + Action: There is more than enough time and money for all of us to get to the mountain top together. Find your "why" of why this is so important to you, then don't give yourself a way out. Make it the only option. Because you will always pick the easiest way to do something.
Please Follow + Subscribe to my podcast anywhere you listen to podcasts.
DID YOU LIKE THIS EPISODE?
If you like me are the kind of person who likes to help people, then share this with your friends and fam. If you resonated and found it valuable, then yes they will too. Please leave a good review on Apple Podcasts so we can reach more of the globe. To change the world together!
OTHER RESOURCES YOU MAY LOVE:
My IG
https://www.instagram.com/burningpure/
My Website
https://burningpure.my.canva.site/
My FB
https://www.facebook.com/elyse.alexander.5
My Youtube
https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCrZsOOHBrQFwmCJKlaNLlkA
Thank you for taking your time to listen!
With Love, Elyse
30 min - 2 Steps you need to believe in order to make a dream come true
"You just need one person to believe it you."
Something I want to share is that belief is hard to create and maintain especially if you have no for sure evidence of being able to have a strong belief that would last. If you have no evidence what so ever if anything in that arena going right for you, then it might feel impossible to grow belief. But here is what I know about belief, you can borrow it from someone else.
In this episode I talk about how it is not just about belief its about self belief and self worth. About trusting in the knowingness that something is so. So absolute that there is no question.
In this episode we touch on:
- If it wasn’t in you, you wouldn’t have it
- You have to believe its possible
- Possible for you
Takeaway + Action: Continual belief is needed to build. If you weren't meant to have or do the dream you wouldn't have it inside of you.
Please Follow + Subscribe to my podcast anywhere you listen to podcasts.
DID YOU LIKE THIS EPISODE?
If you like me are the kind of person who likes to help people, then share this with your friends and fam. If you resonated and found it valuable, then yes they will too. Please leave a good review on Apple Podcasts so we can reach more of the globe. To change the world together!
OTHER RESOURCES YOU MAY LOVE:
My IG
https://www.instagram.com/burningpure/
My Website
https://burningpure.my.canva.site/
My FB
https://www.facebook.com/elyse.alexander.5
My Youtube
https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCrZsOOHBrQFwmCJKlaNLlkA
Thank you for taking your time to listen!
With Love, Elyse
19 min - How pivoting is Power in business with special guest expert Nelly Black
"Pivoting is scary, but failure means that you can fail forward."
Something i want to share is that working with people you like is apart of the freedom piece I talk so much about. It is so important to me to have people in my life that I work with that I like.
In this episode we talk about how pivoting is such a powerful thing. It is a necessity to have less internal friction of what your meant to be doing in this world. How that voice never ceases inside of you. We talk about why people are afraid to pivot and how to pivot successfully.
In this episode we touch on:
- You can show up everyday as an employee and still get paid the same
- If your meant to pivot you will still feel that way no matter how long down the line you go
- How pivoting gives you the freedom your looking for
- How people are afraid of pivoting so they create a lot of unrest inside of them
- No one wants to start over
- Have a belief you must drop one thing to focus all your attention on one thing
Takeaway + Action: You could be a good employee your whole life and still have an internal calling for being meant for more. Your action step is to take this advice and let go of what is not serving you.
Please Follow + Subscribe to my podcast anywhere you listen to podcasts.
DID YOU LIKE THIS EPISODE?
If you like me are the kind of person who likes to help people, then share this with your friends and fam. If you resonated and found it valuable, then yes they will too. Please leave a good review on Apple Podcasts so we can reach more of the globe. To change the world together!
OTHER RESOURCES YOU MAY LOVE:
My IG
https://www.instagram.com/burningpure/
My Website
https://burningpure.my.canva.site/
My FB
https://www.facebook.com/elyse.alexander.5
My Youtube
https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCrZsOOHBrQFwmCJKlaNLlkA
Thank you for taking your time to listen!
With Love, Elyse
34 min - Is feedback triggering you and not allowing you to start the business of your dreams doing what you love?
"I did not like it when he said you should do this instead of this."
Something i want to share is that there is a lot of un-trust that came up for me when people gave feedback because I didn't trust them or their opinion. This un-trust comes from my neglect childhood and my instability with relationships.
In this episode I talk about what comes up for me when I hear feedback. How I never really could handle feedback and thought it meant there was something wrong with me instead of listening to it and taking action from it.
In this episode we touch on:
- When you hear feedback and immediately get activated
- Taking it personal
- Thinking there is something wrong with you
- WHAT BELIEF IS IT ACTIVATING IN YOU?
- ARE YOU USING YOUR TOOLS TO SUPPORT YOU?
Takeaway + Action: When you are triggered allow yourself reminders to take breathe and take a moment to use your skills. Ask yourself what is activating you when you get triggered.
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DID YOU LIKE THIS EPISODE?
If you like me are the kind of person who likes to help people, then share this with your friends and fam. If you resonated and found it valuable, then yes they will too. Please leave a good review on Apple Podcasts so we can reach more of the globe. To change the world together!
OTHER RESOURCES YOU MAY LOVE:
My IG
https://www.instagram.com/burningpure/
My Website
https://burningpure.my.canva.site/
My FB
https://www.facebook.com/elyse.alexander.5
My Youtube
https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCrZsOOHBrQFwmCJKlaNLlkA
Thank you for taking your time to listen!
With Love, Elyse
21 min - Whats the real shortcut to success in business as a recovering people pleaser
"The shortcut is you" What I mean by that is you are the only one who can make your business or your brand a success.
Something i want to share is that I am definitely getting sick in this episode. So my voice sounds a little different. But I am showing up for myself and showing up for you. So please enjoy!
In this episode I talk about how there is no such thing as lasting quick success. If you cut corners on your health it will always come back to bite you in the ass. An overnight success is 10 years in the making.
In this episode we touch on:
- SLOW STEADY ALWAYS WINS
- THERE IS NO REAL SHORTCUT
- ARE YOU ON A HIGH? OR CHASING THE HIGH
- THE BURNOUT OF GOING TO FAST
- NO ONE SEE’S THE BACK END
- HIGH OF THE FAST AND FURIOUS BUT NOT SUSTAINABLE
- YOU DON'T THINK ABOUT SUSTAINABILITY UNTIL THERE ARE HEALTH ISSUES OR LIFE HAPPENS
- (My dad almost dying)
- (Me working a part time and wanting to do a hustle)
- (Want a jobby or a business)
- (Consistency)
- (Working as a business and carrying the heavy lifting
Takeaway + Action: Where are you trying to shortcut your way to success instead of just going slow and steady and picking one thing. Look at your life and pick one category that you notice your trying to shortcut and journal about why.
Please Follow + Subscribe to my podcast anywhere you listen to podcasts.
DID YOU LIKE THIS EPISODE?
If you like me are the kind of person who likes to help people, then share this with your friends and fam. If you resonated and found it valuable, then yes they will too. Please leave a good review on Apple Podcasts so we can reach more of the globe. To change the world together!
OTHER RESOURCES YOU MAY LOVE:
My IG
https://www.instagram.com/burningpure/
My FB
https://www.facebook.com/elyse.alexander.5
My Youtube
https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCrZsOOHBrQFwmCJKlaNLlkA
Thank you for taking your time to listen!
With Love, Elyse
16 min - How seeking validation from your parents can manifest as never starting your business or remaining stuck
" I got quiet and he said elyse why are you still seeking validation from your father? My heart sank..."
Something i want to share is that everyone family is different but It is the fact that we care about what they think and that Im someone who has always wanted to make my parents proud. So I deal with recovering people pleasing. If this is something that is hard for you, I hope this episode makes you feel less crazy.
In this episode I talk about my own experience with dealing with validation. Some pure no bull shit honesty about how when you are taught to seek validation outside of who you are, its something that comes up again. I talk about how the awareness of the signs and how it is happening and what it looks like when its happening can cause massive analysis paralysis. It took me years to start my brand after the first time I thought about it. I came up with every reason that my parents wouldn't like what I was doing, that I would never make it to be a billion dollar brand so why start. I was so focused on how everyone else would feel about it, I almost didn't do it at all. Or I would get one step ahead and 2 steps back.
In this episode we touch on:
- Awareness
- Learned behavior
- You don't see if because your used to it
- Needing someone to show you what you can not see
- I didn’t even think that’s what I was doing
- Still putting him first
- Thinking hell listen to the same conversation and hear it in a different way
- THEY ARENT GOING TO CHANGE WHICH MEANS YOU HAVE TO
- SAYING NO
Takeaway + Action: when we look outside of ourselves for validation then it only creates a loop for ourselves to never be happy. Take action and find small habits to validate yourself.
Please Follow + Subscribe to my podcast anywhere you listen to podcasts.
DID YOU LIKE THIS EPISODE?
If you like me are the kind of person who likes to help people, then share this with your friends and fam. If you resonated and found it valuable, then yes they will too. Please leave a good review on Apple Podcasts so we can reach more of the globe. To change the world together!
OTHER RESOURCES YOU MAY LOVE:
My IG
https://www.instagram.com/burningpure/
My FB
https://www.facebook.com/elyse.alexander.5
My Youtube
https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCrZsOOHBrQFwmCJKlaNLlkA
Thank you for taking your time to listen!
With Love, Elyse
17 min - Why do you do the things you do, but can never get to where you want to be in your business and your life?
" Sitting on the ground crying wondering why again my relationship didn't work once again. What was wrong with me, why didn't someone love me again....."
Something I want to share is that everything that happens in your personal life affects your professional life.
In this episode I talk about why it is that I started to ask myself the question of why I do what I do. Because I was noticing the situations were different but really it was always the same reason or wanting to be loved. Or wanting to have enough bread crumbs so that I wasn't truly alone. Because then that meant that no one loved me.
In this episode we touch on:
- Trying to FIX
- Changing the ending or the beginning
- DO you have the awareness
- Why I started to ask myself that question
- REPEATING PATTERNS
- ATTRACTING TOXIC RELATIONSHIPS
- Where did it start
- When did it start
- Caretaking
- People pleasing
- If they are happy I am happy
- WE ALL HAVE REASONS
- ACKNOWLEDGING THAT WE HAVE LEARNED BEHAVIOR THAT WE MUST MANAGE
Takeaway + Action: There are always reasons of why we do what we do. Whether we have shoved them down or just think they are silly. Allow yourself to become aware with no judgment a starting point you can work from.
Please Follow + Subscribe to my podcast anywhere you listen to podcasts.
DID YOU LIKE THIS EPISODE?
If you like me are the kind of person who likes to help people, then share this with your friends and fam. If you resonated and found it valuable, then yes they will too. Please leave a good review on Apple Podcasts so we can reach more of the globe. To change the world together!
OTHER RESOURCES YOU MAY LOVE:
My IG
https://www.instagram.com/burningpure/
My FB
https://www.facebook.com/elyse.alexander.5
My Youtube
https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCrZsOOHBrQFwmCJKlaNLlkA
Thank you for taking your time to listen!
With Love, Elyse
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About Burning Pure Podcast
From the publisher's feed
Each week, learn how to make baby steps to your wealthy life. Learn how to close the generational wealth gap releasing those limiting beliefs with host Elyse Alexander, Wealth Mindset Business Coach,…
Transformational Speaker, Entrepreneur, and Mentor. Elyse gives value packed vulnerability, both sides of the coin of family life and building an empire. Whether you have problems in the boardroom or the bedroom, it's going to show. The struggles of being a former codependent and how that plays into your mental, emotional, physical wealth, and yes business too. Also special guests to share what they have learned about creating a wealthy life.Each generational has a different wealth definition for themselves, so I skipped the clues and created a map on how to discover your's.Take you on a purpose driven journey to start the big dream and to not give up. Built to scale not just to throw spaghetti at the wall, because you must start before you're ready. Listen to the real talk on building generational wealth, worthiness, emotional and mental health, self sabotage, relationships, alignment, permission, Fear, consistency, and money. Let's learn what your problem with generational wealth? Is to make it, keep it, or grow it? Creating a wealthy life gets to feel good and FUN while you're making it, not just when you have arrived. You have to hold space for the “right vibe”, train that inner critic, and remind yourself EVERY DAY why we are doing this. You want to go far you go together! But you'll know you are not alone. Others are out there who know they are meant for more. Meant to be Billionaires. Follow Elyse @burningpure on Instagram for more empowerment and blooper reels of how to build an empire.