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In this season finale episode, the boys talk about their individual and group goals. Although it has been 4 seasons there is still a lot they want to accomplish. Now that they're approaching their 30's they all feel there is a shift happening and want to make the best of it. Learn from their lessons in their 20's and get inspired from what they're manifesting.

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This week, we dive deep into spirituality. We’re joined by the radiant Justin to unpack what it means to be Black, queer, and what having faith looks like to us. From growing up religious to navigating the adulthood and what it looks like for us now. We open up about staying rooted in faith while living boldly in our truth. We ask the questions we’ve all been too afraid to say out loud at one point or another: Have you ever prayed the gay away? Had a dream that felt divine? Felt rejected by the church for who you love? Tune in!

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How do we keep love and friendship alive when miles come between us? In this vulnerable and deeply reflective episode, we dive into the emotional terrain of long-distance relationships both romantic and platonic. From guilt trips over missed birthdays to redefining what it means to be a “real” friend or partner when you’re not physically present, this episode asks the hard questions and offers real talk, not just reassurance. Are long-distance friendships sustainable? Can absence really make the heart grow fonder or just more distant?

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This week, we’re getting raw, real, and radically joyful. We’re joined by incredible dancer, choreographer, and artist Darius Hickman to explore the complex intersections of mental health and queer Black identity. From navigating therapy and managing finances to finding moments of joy in the chaos — nothing is off-limits. We open up about the power of community, the weight of rejection, and how Black queer folks can prioritize their peace while chasing purpose.

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In this episode, we spill all the tea on our most unforgettable travel moments — the good, the bad, and the downright messy. From missed flights and shady hotels to the most mouthwatering meals we’ve ever had, it’s a whirlwind ride through our best and worst travel experiences. Whether you’re a seasoned traveler or a carry-on-only kind of girl, this episode will have you laughing, gasping, and planning your next adventure with your friends.

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In this episode, we take a joyful (and sometimes shady) stroll down memory lane as we reflect on family game nights growing up. Were you a board game champ, the sore loser, or the one who always quit halfway through? From solo computer missions to chaotic living room showdowns, we talk about how games shaped our childhood and maybe even our friendships. We then play the We're Not Really Strangers: Friend Edition and Amusing Edition card games. Laughs, memories, and a few surprisingly deep moments. This episode is all about connection, nostalgia, and the games that brought us together.

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New York is a city full of ambition, but sometimes that ambition shows up in all the wrong ways. In this episode, with our special guest KhiAri, we’re talking about the fake, the phony, and the social climbers—those people who are always “on” but never real. We dive into what it’s like to deal with rude energy at events, flaky friendships, and the performative behavior that’s way too common in the city.

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This week, we get into a deep dive the rollercoaster that is our twenties. From proud wins to full-on “what the hell is this?” moments, we’re unpacking everything they didn’t tell us about adulting. We’re talking unrealistic childhood expectations, the pressure to have it all figured out, and how some of y’all are raising babies while we’re still raising our credit scores. Tap in—we got real and reflective. 

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In this episode we have a very special guest, Bashel The Zillennial! We break down the evolution of iconography and the stars who define it today. From Beyoncé and RuPaul to Lil Nas X and beyond, we explore how these figures influence LGBTQ+ culture—and how the community, in turn, shapes them. Are the same legends still holding their crowns, or is a new wave of icons taking over? Tune in as we discuss the power, politics, and pop culture of gay icon status in today’s world!

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In this episode, we’re diving deep into the challenges, struggles, and internal conflicts within the Black gay community. From issues of masculinity and femininity to colorism, classism, and the lack of unity, we’re unpacking the tough conversations people like to avoid. Is there a way to heal and build a stronger, more supportive community?