In episode 2 of Season 7 of The GenSend Podcast, Shane Pruitt, Paul Worcester, and Lacey Villasenor discuss how complicated dating can be to single leaders called to ministry, especially when it feels like their life, leadership, and future are already under a microscope. Listen in as the hosts offer practical biblical wisdom to help you navigate dating with clarity, integrity, and mission-first conviction. You’ll learn how calling, chemistry, and commitment work together, and what happens when one is out of alignment. From avoiding casual dating to setting wise boundaries, this conversation equips you to pursue relationships that strengthen your walk with Christ rather than distract from it. Whether you’re single, dating, or discerning next steps, this episode will help you honor Jesus, the church, and your future. 

Also in This Episode, Learn:

• Why commitment to Christ and the mission must come before chemistry
• How to discern calling without becoming overly rigid or overly casual
• Why casual dating is especially dangerous for ministry leaders
• Red flags to watch for when dating with a call to ministry
• How to pace relationships wisely while trusting God’s timing

Helpful Resources:

You Can’t Talk About That

Youth Leader Coaching Network

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Shareable Quotes:

“A healthy Christian relationship is two complete people in Christ already that Christ brings together and He's the center of.” —Shane Pruitt 

“Singleness is not an obstacle to overcome—it’s an opportunity to embrace.” —Paul Worcester 

“Who you marry will either be your greatest help or your greatest hindrance in ministry.” —Lacey Villasenor

“What example would you want set before your kids one day? That’s what you are right now for someone else’s kids.” —Shane Pruitt 

“If you idolize a dating relationship, you’ll make the same mistake in marriage.” —Paul Worcester 

“Specific boundaries help everyone know what questions to ask.” —Lacey Villasenor

 

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