Can I Bother You?

By AJ Reyes

Hey, y’all! I’m AJ Reyes, an actor/singer/alleged human, and I have no idea what I’m doing. If you feel similarly, yay and I’m sorry. Each week we’ll hang out with different artists and entrepreneurs ... more

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Can I Bother You? episodes:

June 24, 2021 48. Can I LGBTQ U? - Coming out and being gay
Happy Pride! We’re coming out of the closets and on to the airwaves as we bring you our thoughts and stories about gender, sexuality, and identity. Hear Timothy flip-flop about terminology. Hear AJ put chismosas in their places. Hear both of us being ourselves, living our truths, and generally queerin’ up the joint.
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AJ’s survey
An introduction to gender and sexuality terms
What is a “furry”?
“I am not a crook”
Victory sign/peace sign
Cynthia Nixon
Sign of peace
“We’re All in This Together”
Queer (as a label)
Disney’s Robin Hood
“Laughter is the best medicine”
Dying of laughter
Realizing you’re French
Chismosas
Outing
The Proposal
Latchkey kids
“It’s Raining Men"
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June 17, 2021 47. Can I Hire You? - Part 3
Print out your résumé, review your talking points, and join us in the conference room for the final installment of our series-within-a-series all about our lives in the American workforce. In this episode, AJ recalls his colorful costuming days, Timothy relives some ancient phone calls, and we all learn all about the power of Googling. Nothing compares to the satisfaction of an honest day’s work. Just kidding. Come play audio hooky with the (not-so-)bad boys of podcasting!

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AJ’s survey
Zach Theatre
Lucy in Disguise
Zachary Scott
Worcester
Worcestershire sauce
“Spill the beans”
‘80s sex romps
“Friday”
Rebecca Black
Bing
When is a fever dangerous?
Poverty in the US
AJ’s dramatic entrance

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June 10, 2021 46. Can I Steal Your Limited Edition Mickey Mouse Watch? - Friendship, former friends, and frenemies
Can we be BFFs? There’s a friendship bracelet here with your name on it! (Your name is Ethelfritha, right?) Join AJ and Timothy as they discuss the meaning of friendship, tell stories about just a tiny sampling of their vast roster of friends, and pity the people who didn’t make the cut.

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AJ’s survey
Jean-Paul Sartre
"Livin' On A Prayer"
Where Timothy got the new masks he wouldn’t shut up about
MySpace top 8s, etc.
Mickey watches
Rotary phones
Janessa
Ethelfritha
The Walking Dead
Enid (TWD)
Enid, OK
D2: The Mighty Ducks
Dwayne Robertson of “Austin, TX”
Girl Meets World
Lucas Friar of “Austin, TX”
“Tearin' Up My Heart”
Sweeney Todd: The Demon Barber of Fleet Street

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June 03, 2021 45. Can I Marry You? - Weddings, proposals, and prenups
Do you, listener, take Can I Bother You to be your electronically wedded podcast? This week, we’re bringing you stories of other people’s matrimonial bliss (or lack thereof). Big ‘80s hair, big superfluous cummerbunds, big unnecessary drama, and big laughs await you! Laughs not guaranteed. Just as in marriage, terms and restrictions may apply, but don’t think about that. Just think about love! Listen now, or forever hold your peace!

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Art Garfunkel
Wagner’s "Wedding March"
Elgar’s "Pomp & Circumstance"
Prenuptial agreements
“Gold Digger”
Cummerbunds
Ring bearers
Flower girls
Wedding Crashers
Pre-Cana
The wedding at Cana
Lady Gaga
Objecting at weddings

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May 27, 2021 44. Can I Date You? - Part 4
CW: This episode is very NSFW and includes frank discussion of sex and related topics. Listener discretion is advised.
From our hearts to yours, we bring you the not-very-long awaited return of Can I Date You, our running miniseries on love, limerence, and lust. Mostly just lust and bad luck in this one. But we promise it’s entertaining. Right? Maybe? Oh, no. What if we’re afraid of commitment? What if that’s why we’re destined to end up alone forever and ever? What if you shower us with affection and praise and a five-star review so we know you really care? We’d do the same for you if you were a podcast.

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The fall of Yahoo! Messenger
An essay on Craigslist personals
Country clubs
McKenzie Scott’s philanthropy
“I feel comfortable using legal jargon in everyday life.”
“Netflix and chill”
Town Lake
“Yadda, yadda, yadda, I never heard from him again.”
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May 20, 2021 43. Can I Please Hear Rihanna’s Hit 2007 Single “Don’t Stop The Music”? - Prom and graduation
This week, we’ve got senioritis! Join AJ and Timothy as they reminisce about some of the final events of their childhoods: prom and high school graduation. This episode contains mentions of flagrant misdemeanors, Hummer limos, those weird hats with the stringy bits, and enough teen angst to fill the ballroom of a mid-priced hotel just off the interstate. Listener discretion advised.

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“As we go on…”
What is prom anyway?
“I’d rather you do it in the house.”
Why every American graduation plays the same song
Doug’s Pomp and Circumstance Remix
Hummer Limos
IHOP
The Great Recession
The US Presidential Election of 2008
“Don’t Stop the Music”
Promposals
Jo’s
“I love you so much”
Live mascots
Veronica Mars, S1 E16
Heteronormativity

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May 13, 2021 42. Can I Yell At The TV With You? - Sports, jocks, and getting picked last
We like to think of our podcast as the seventh inning stretch of podcasts. Or maybe the halftime show. The break you take to hit up the concession stand? But enough about what we mean to you, dear listener. This week, we’re talking about what sports have (and haven’t) meant to us over the years. So break out the peanuts and cracker jacks for a chill hang in the bleachers with AJ and Timothy.
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“Masc 4 masc”
Kickball
Bend It Like Beckham
Soccer positions
Longhorns
Cowboys
Austin FC
Oilers
Texans
Skateboard gif
Olympics opening ceremonies
Kentucky Derby
Williams sisters
Dodgeball
Out athletes
Michael Jordan
Roller derby
“Man, I Feel Like a Woman”
Badminton
Twins
Cubs
Cowboys @ St. Ed’s
Formula 1
Super Bowl halftime shows
Janet Jackson, etc.
TX St. Bobcats
St. Edward’s Football (RIP)

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May 06, 2021 41. Can I Speak With You After Class? - Mentors, educators, and teacher appreciation
Teachers. They work tirelessly and get paid terribly, all to change young lives (for better or worse). This week, AJ and Timothy relive their school days through stories of mentors past. Sycophancy! Truancy! Pencil theft! Light arson! This episode has something for everyone.
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“I believe the children are our future…”
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Ms. Trunchbull and Ms. Honey
Matilda
Portables
“Last hired, first fired”
“That escalated quickly”
Teacher gender disparity
Adam Scott
Edgy backward sitting
Cecily Parks
“My teacher hates me”
“Netflix and chill”
Silent movies

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April 29, 2021 40. Can I Hire You? - Part 2
🎶 Workin’ 9 to 5, what a way to make a podcast! 🎶 This week, we’re back in the salt mines for another installment of our miniseries-within-a-series about our past jobs. Let AJ tell you a funny and frustrating tale from his Barnes & Noble. Go back to school with Timothy for a lesson in letting people walk all over you. Workers of the world, unite… virtually. Because pandemic. And also podcast. Okay. I’m clocking out. Bye.
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B&N
“Resting bitch face”
Substitute teaching
Professional development
“Cell phone jail”
On not understanding privilege
Sub pay rates in Austin
Irish accents
Please let students pee
Lesson plans
Nina Simone
Dangers of comfort

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April 22, 2021 39. Verb Pronoun Verb Pronoun? - Language, writers, and writing words
Writing can be hard. Like the writing I’m doing right now. You’ve got to think of the message you want to convey, and then you have to, you know, convey it. It’s kind of wild if you think about it, and thinking about it is pretty much all we’re doing this week. Hope you’re into it!
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Six Flags
LGBT+ YA fiction
Sondheim on moments, etc.
Pablo Neruda
Mary Oliver
Emily Dickinson
Writing letters to elected officials
“You Might Stab Someone”
“When A Foodie Answers the Phone”

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FAQs about Can I Bother You?:

How many episodes does Can I Bother You? have?

The podcast currently has 79 episodes available.