Cant Catch a Break

Cant Catch a Break

By Dr. Char & Dee JayReligion & Spirituality
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Cant Catch a Break episodes

  • Are you Stuck ?

    No matter how difficult it may seem, remember that you are capable of overcoming any obstacle that stands in your way. You just have to take the first step.
    It’s important to recognize that feeling stuck is normal and happens to everyone at some point in their lives. The best thing you can do is to remain open to the possibilities and opportunities available to you. Having a plan will help you to stay focused and keep motivated when the going gets tough.
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    5 min
  • why do some people Don't want to pray ?

    This world is not going to be around and it looks like very soon with the Mean and Evil things that are taken place with some people who Thinks that they Handle life issues on there own and this is why they don't believe in prayer and even now some churches have put prayer only on certain terms.

    nicer car or some new clothes.
    obligations, commitments, schedule, sports and my own selfish agenda.
    I can handle it on my own, with my own strength and my own resources." where we think we don’t need God. Sometimes.
    Satan doesn’t want us to pray. Every time we pray, we take a step against Satan. I don’t know exactly how spiritual warfare works, but I do believe.

    We listen to others pray, we compare ourselves to them and we become insecure.
    it is the Heart God looks at because he wants your heart because he can change you if wants to be change it is your choice because he gives everyone a choice ..not the Devil

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    38 min
  • A Generation that has been left Behind?

    the conflict was of the former type. By the mid-1990s, public speculation had clearly shifted toward a potential conflict of the latter type. The media, and political leaders of the mid-1990s, made routine reference to elder-imposed resource constraints on the young, including declines in living standards among young families, low rates of national savings, chronic federal deficits, mounting environmental liabilities, and public entitlement programs that directed most of their benefits to the old and were projected to impose stiff tax burdens on workers early in the twenty-first century. There was a rapidly growing academic literature on public policies that treat the young unfairly—examined under such rubrics as "generational equity" and "generational accounting." Whether this blunt economic language fore-tells a permanent trend toward self-preservation through material acquisition, as some have argued, is a question to be answered by the ascendant generations of the twenty-first century.

    23 min
  • Building a family up after the Matriarch" is Gone

    Don't wait until the person is gone and try to them there flowers it is to late don't put off what you can do Today because Tomorrow is not promised to Anyone God Bless

    Practice small steps of open communication.
    Pick up the phone and make a quick call.  Suggest a time when most of the family can get together during the next six months.  A graduation, wedding, birth of a baby or holidays are all natural reasons to reunite for a shared cause.
    Forgive and move on from the past.
    Some family members harbor resentment over things from years ago.  Own up to your own faults and ask for forgiveness if necessary.  Seek counseling to resolve destructive feelings and find balance in your own life.  Otherwise, live in the present and give discontented family members space.  Refuse to let another person’s unhealthy behavior ruin enjoyment for the rest of you.
     Maybe your family traditions are as simple as baking holiday cookies, grilling in the backyard or attending a sporting event for the kids.  Together with your siblings and broader family circle, make a list of the traditions you still want to celebrate and pass on to future generations.
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    28 min
  • Being Angry does not Solve Anything

    1. Passive anger: Characterized by bottling feelings of resentment or frustration as opposed to directly expressing them. These people may appear calm on the outside, but they typically harbor negative feelings inside.
    2. Aggressive anger: Characterized by physical or verbal expressions of anger. These people typically partake in destructive behavior or lash out at others.
    3. Assertive anger: Characterized by honest, direct, or sincere expressions of anger. These people can express their angry feelings in ways that are not harmful to themselves or others.
      • Ignoring people, becoming withdrawn or quiet
      • Snapping, shouting, yelling, name-calling
      • Swearing, making threats
      • Lashing out physically, such as throwing objects or hitting others
      • Inflicting self-harm, such as cutting oneself or banging one’s head

        • Controlling anger, whether the reasons are obvious or not, can be challenging at times. Dealing with an anger problem early is crucial, as it can help you to avoid it escalating to the point where you end up hurting yourself or others.

        You should seek help if your anger affects your relationships, causes you to constantly feel negative or hostile, you are unable to control your anger, or you become physically violent.

        There is a lot of people wants to be free form Anger

        23 min
      • What is a True Friend and real friend

        Fake Friends are the one that will be with you for a short period of time hiding there true identity and when they see other friends they will choose over you and that is the meaning

        real friends are the people who make your journey more enjoyable and seen.
        When you know someone is a real friend that connection just feels so natural and I know that having them in my life is only going to benefit me (and them)

        what makes this deep connection possible is a mutual foundation of respect and acceptance

        A true friend is someone you can trust, who stays by your side during the good times and the bad. Someone who isn’t afraid to tell you the truth and

        A real friend is someone you can rely on, someone who’s there for the good times and the bad.
        I can share every part of my life with them, and they want to do the same with me. When we disagree, we can always come back together. And above all, it feels easy. It doesn’t feel like work to stay in touch, I love hearing what they’re thinking about and how they’re feeling, and I always want to be there for them.

        A real friend is someone who I’m always happy to hear from. I never worry about how difficult it is to talk to them, because spending time with them 
        A real friend is someone you can have uncomfortable conversations with when it’s necessary, and know that it doesn’t jeopardize your friendship. A real friend is someone you can depend on, both emotionally and practically — it’s the person you trust to call in the time of crisis.
        A real friend is someone who isn’t afraid to tell you the hard truths, even when you don’t want to hear them.

        show yourself to be friendly towards others by smiling it helps

        21 min
      • why prayer is important in these last Days

        why have the churches put prayer not on top of the list?

        when did the lack of prayer started ?

        why is Miracles not happen in Today Churches

        Prayer is important because it helps us to stay close to God.

        When we pray, we are opening up our hearts to Him and He is able to work in us and through us. Prayer also helps us to grow in our relationship with God.

        The more we talk and spend time with someone the more we get to know them. The same thing happens when we spend time in prayer connecting with God. The more time we spend talking to Him, the closer we will become!

        Prayer is important because it positions us to receive God’s peace that surpasses all understanding. In life’s hardest moments (and even in the good times), prayer helps me stay focused on what’s close to God’s heart!

        who can help you focus, find peace, comfort, healing, strength, purpose and so much more. Prayer is important if we want to grow deeper in our walk with Jesus.

        Just like how talking with a friend or family member helps you connect and grow closer, prayer is communication with God and allows us to grow closer to Him!

        Thank God for prayer!

        Prayer was a lifeline for Jesus and becomes one for us as we press into His presence. We should also mimic the prayer life Jesus exemplified in our fast-paced modern world where we are easily consumed in the busyness of day-to-day tasks, obligations, and commitments. Prayer can be a sanctuary for us like it was for Jesus!

        If anything, Jesus showed us that prayer is not an optional practice for Christians, but is a spiritual discipline needed for spiritual vitality and maturity.

        Prayer isn’t something that Jesus only did once His earthly ministry began. Before His baptism, transfiguration, and crucifixion, Jesus made prayer an essential element of His daily life. His prayers were never self-focused like how much of what we pray is. They were selfless and always seeking the heart of the Father and His will

        when the the church wake up and realize that the closer you move towards God then you will start to Die to this world

        24 min
      • Can you relate to one another


        • we can accomplish more together
        • we can support one another, and
        • we complement each other with our different gifts as the body of Christ

          • God puts us together, as different as we are to stretch us and to teach us what love is really all about. And you can’t learn this unless you are in relationships with others. And I dare say in relationship with people who are different than you are. And like all love, this can be painful.

          The problem is that when we experience relationship difficulties we too often respond in inappropriate ways, which compounds the situation. We do what comes naturally to us – in our human weakness and self-centeredness. Things like gossip, slander, always thinking we are right, always wanting our way, holding on to resentments and negative attitudes, being mean, being cliquish, being impatient,   being hard-hearted. The list could go on and on.

          We have all seen or experienced or even practiced these kinds of things. (It’s amazing what can happen in churches.) And because of this and the pain it brings, many draw back and don’t want to be a part. And thus God’s purpose is defeated.

          Are we living in peace with one another? Do we work through our disagreements and conflicts? Being at peace doesn’t mean pretending that we get along. It means working through things with love and respect for one another, so that our relationships are whole and life-giving.
          we are certainly not to repay evil for evil, or harm for harm to one another. You know, “I’m going to get them back!” Rather we are always to do good to each other.

          We are to care for each other by lifting lift up each other’s concerns before the Lord that he might give grace and help in their time of need.

          Do you pray for others among us during the week?

           Love means acting for the well-being of another. And in this verse Jesus gives us himself as an example. We are to love one another just as Jesus loved us. That is, we are to lay down our lives for one another. We are to sacrifice for the good of one another.

          Let the power of God’s Word work in your heart and mind to show you the way. And ask the Spirit to come in power to change your heart in any way that might be needed, so that our relationships with each other will be strong and pleasing to God in every way. And so that we can work here together in unity to do God’s work.


          17 min
        • Is there a judgment about judging

          We all judge. We are predisposed to this natural tendency; it is part of human nature.
          Judging is simply our attempt to create a hierarchy of better than and less than, superior to and inferior to, and to define worth to everyone and everything that we meet. We have the innate urge to be right, to be better, to be superior—always. Our view of the world around us

          We can only see in others what we have inside ourselves. First, we reject, then we project.
          I know this for a fact if we as Christian choose to take sides when see a Person who we like and think they can not be wrong then it is not of God and will become a sin only what you do for Christ will last

          17 min
        • What does Gossip do to others

          Gossip is basically talking about someone in a negative way that could lead to others doing the same. It is often intentional and meant to damage someone’s credibility or reputation or simply to point out the faults (or sins) of others. While you might think that gossip is restricted to “mean girls” at school or disgruntled workers in an office, gossip is everywhere! Even in Christian circles.
          Whether we are facing gossip among other believers or out among the rest of society, it is important that we avoid being pulled into it. And more importantly, that we attempt to prevent it from spreading.
          Many are simply so bored or not content in their own lives that they need the drama and scandal to live vicariously through another. Regardless of why, gossip destroys people – their esteem, their families, their lives. And gossip is completely against what God calls us to do.
          Satan. He knows our weaknesses – and that of others – and uses gossip as a way to enable us to do his dirty work.
          Confront Gossip and Shut it Down

          Once you’ve realized that a conversation is, in fact, gossip, you have two options:

          • Ignore it and walk away
          • Confront it and shut it down

            • our words are only supposed to be used to help and encourage and not to tear down or gossip about others. And remind them that, whatever the “story” is, it isn’t theirs to share.

            15 min

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