In this episode, I break down why introverts actually have a huge advantage when it comes to networking. It’s not about being loud or outgoing — it’s about being thoughtful, intentional, and building real connections that last. If you’ve ever felt like networking “just isn’t for you,” this episode will show you how introverts can thrive by playing to their strengths.

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A lot of people have been asking me lately, “Should I give up on my dream of working in the federal government?” The short answer? No. But you do need to be realistic — especially right now. With hiring freezes, shrinking budgets, and uncertainty across agencies, getting in the traditional way just isn’t going to happen for most people. hat doesn’t mean the dream is dead — it just means you need a smarter path. In tonight’s video, I talk about what that looks like: how to get real experience and connections through contracting, how to build relationships that open doors later, and why networking — real networking — matters more than ever right now.

This isn’t about giving up on your goal of impact or service; it’s about understanding the system and positioning yourself the right way so when hiring ramps back up, you’re the easy “yes.”

If you’ve ever felt stuck, discouraged, or unsure how to move forward in public service, you’ll want to watch this one.

Most people think they can’t network because they “don’t know the right people.” The truth is—you already do. The “right people” aren’t just hiring managers or professionals in your field; they’re anyone who genuinely cares about you and is willing to help.

When you approach those people the right way, they can connect you to others, who connect you to others, until you reach the opportunities you want. Real networking starts with trust and relationships you already have—not cold messages or random events.

You don’t need to skip the line or wait until you’re “in” your field. Start with the people who believe in you now, help them help you, and they’ll lead you to the “right” people later.

Key takeaway:

You already know the right people—they just don’t realize how they can help you yet. Your job is to show them how.

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Stop blaming yourself for your career struggles. Rejections, unanswered messages, and failed interviews don’t mean you’re not worthy — they mean you were given bad advice. Most people follow outdated career center tips about résumés, cover letters, and LinkedIn networking that don’t work for mission-driven fields like nonprofits or public service. Those methods only help people in high-demand roles, while the rest of us end up frustrated, underemployed, and doubting ourselves.

It’s not a lack of talent or effort — it’s the wrong strategy. Once you stop blaming yourself and recognize that the system failed you, you can rebuild your confidence and learn what actually works: building real, invested professional relationships through your existing network. You’re already closer to the right people than you think.

Key takeaway:

You’re not broken — your career advice was. Let go of the guilt, learn what really works, and take back control of your career.

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“Laughing Degree Syndrome”

Ever laugh when someone asks what you studied? Tom calls that Laughing Degree Syndrome—the moment you realize your career and your passion don’t line up. In this episode, he dives into why so many smart, driven people settle for work that doesn’t excite them—and how to build the kind of network that finally gets you into the field you actually care about.

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“Networking Events Are Stupid”

Tom finally says what everyone’s thinking: networking events are a waste of time. He breaks down why showing up to a crowded bar with a stack of business cards rarely leads to anything real—and what to do instead. From awkward small talk to “elevator pitch” disasters, Tom exposes why these events don’t work and shares the smarter, calmer way to actually build a network that gets you hired.

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“Why LinkedIn Isn’t the Answer” Tom breaks down why LinkedIn has become one of the most overhyped tools in job searching—and why sending cold messages to strangers rarely leads anywhere. He shares his own awkward experiences, the emotional toll of constant rejection, and what actually works instead: building real connections with people who know you. This episode is a wake-up call for anyone tired of playing the LinkedIn lotte

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Tom shares how a missed phone call—because someone was on their way to Disney World—ended up changing his entire career. What started as an awkward moment turned into a powerful lesson about trust, listening, and how real networking isn’t about pitching yourself—it’s about remembering the small details that make people feel seen. Through this story (and a few others), Tom breaks down the real secret to building relationships that actually open doors.

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Tom uses a common (and painfully relatable) story about asking a friend to help him move to explain what real networking looks like. Instead of waiting until you need something, build genuine relationships early—ask for advice, include people in your process, and let them feel invested in your journey. When you finally need help, they’ll want to show up. Networking, like moving, works best when it’s built on trust, timing, and authentic connection.

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Tom tackles the age-old debate—does success come from hard work or connections? He breaks down why effort alone isn’t enough, how relationships open doors that hard work can’t, and why the real key is combining both: being great at what you do and making sure the right people know it.

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