Caring for Your Aging Parents

Season 02 Episode 13

Embracing the GEMS Model: Transformative Strategies for Compassionate Dementia Care with Teepa Snow

In this insightful conversation, Teepa offers practical strategies for navigating the complexities of dementia care. She highlights the importance of adapting caregiver expectations, fostering compassionate relationships, and addressing challenging behaviors with empathy and understanding.

Teepa has worked with those living with a wide variety of neurodivergent conditions. Her philosophy of care is reflective of her education, work experience, medical research, academic instruction, and first-hand caregiving experiences. 

She has been an advocate in dementia care and has developed the GEMS® State Model for understanding the progression of brain change along with the Positive Approach to Care® training strategies, which are effective techniques for anyone seeking to optimize care and support for those living with neurocognitive degeneration. 

Positive Approach to Care (PAC) improves care for those living with neurodivergent conditions. PAC provides services, training, and products to organizations, professionals, family members, the lay public, and people living with brain change.

Listeners will gain valuable insights into recognizing the communication needs and physical limitations of those with dementia. Teepa’s strategies, such as using visual cues and gentle guidance, offer a roadmap for more effective caregiving. Additionally, the episode introduces the Gems Workbook, a resource to aid caregivers on their journey.

Teepa’s wisdom and the GEMS model provide essential tools for crafting connections and maintaining dignity and respect for individuals with dementia. Tune in for an episode filled with transformative strategies for compassionate dementia care.

(03:36) - The Gems Model of Dementia Care

(09:14) - Exploring Dementia Through Gemstone States

(16:00) - Understanding and Navigating Dementia Care

(25:32) - Understanding Dementia Through Gemstone States

(30:41) - Caregiving for Dementia and Parenting

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Season 02 Episode 12

Recognizing Dementia Symptoms in Aging Parents: A Guide for the Holiday Season

Get ready for an insightful episode, where we explore the critical topic of recognizing dementia symptoms in aging parents, especially during the holiday season. With families gathering around during the Christmas and winter holidays, these weeks become an opportune time to observe any changes in your loved ones and address potential concerns.

In this episode, find out how to distinguish between normal aging and early signs of dementia, such as significant memory loss, difficulty with familiar tasks, and mood changes. Understanding these differences is vital, as early detection can lead to more effective management. I always emphasize the importance of consulting specialists like neurologists or gerontologists for proper diagnosis, steering clear of general practitioners for such specific evaluations.

We also talk about the importance of caregivers prioritizing their well-being, offering practical advice on maintaining balance while managing caregiving responsibilities. For those seeking further guidance, grab my new book, Sensible Senior Solutions, available on Amazon, as a comprehensive resource for navigating elder care challenges.

Look forward to expert insights in future episodes, including a special guest appearance by dementia specialist Teepa Snow. As the holiday season approaches, empower yourself with knowledge and strategies to support your loved ones effectively while taking care of yourself.

(00:20) Recognizing Dementia Symptoms in Parents

(11:04) Identifying Warning Signs of Dementia

(19:36) Early Detection and Care for Dementia

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The information in the Pacific Northwest Seniorcare podcast is for educational and informational purposes only. The content shared by the host, guests, and any affiliates is not intended to substitute for professional medical, legal, or financial advice or any professional advice specific to your situation. Always seek the advice of a qualified professional with any questions you may have regarding these matters.

The host is not a medical or legal expert, and the opinions expressed on the show by the host or guests are those of the individuals and do not necessarily reflect the views of Pacific Northwest Seniorcare. Pacific Northwest Seniorcare, the host, guests, and affiliates are not responsible or liable for any care, medical, or legal decisions made by listeners or actions taken hereto based on the information discussed in this podcast. By listening to this podcast, you acknowledge and agree to release Pacific Northwest Seniorcare, the host, affiliates, and guests from any liability.

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Season 02 Episode 11

How Assisted Living Empowers Aging Parents

What if assisted living could actually enhance your aging parent's independence rather than limit it? Join me, Lynn Smargis, on this enlightening episode of Caring for Your Aging Parents, where we shatter common misconceptions about assisted living facilities. These communities are designed with the goal of fostering an active and engaged lifestyle for seniors. 

From offering assistance with daily activities like dressing and medication management to organizing social and recreational events such as book clubs and scenic tours, assisted living provides a supportive environment that promotes both independence and a higher quality of life for your loved ones.

Discover the multitude of benefits that assisted living offers, especially for seniors who have experienced falls. We'll discuss how these communities provide comprehensive care, a built-in social network, and 24-hour emergency assistance, all of which contribute to peace of mind and potentially lower overall costs compared to staying in a paid-off home. 

As a caregiver, your well-being is crucial too, and we'll explore why prioritizing self-care is essential for providing the best care possible. Reach out to me for resources and guidance, including finding a senior advisor in your area. Tune in for valuable insights and practical advice to support you on your caregiving journey.

(00:23) Assisted Living Maintains Senior Independence

(10:50) Benefits of Assisted Living for Seniors

(15:37) Support for Caregivers in Finding Resources

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The information in the Pacific Northwest Seniorcare podcast is for educational and informational purposes only. The content shared by the host, guests, and any affiliates is not intended to substitute for professional medical, legal, or financial advice or any professional advice specific to your situation. Always seek the advice of a qualified professional with any questions you may have regarding these matters.

The host is not a medical or legal expert, and the opinions expressed on the show by the host or guests are those of the individuals and do not necessarily reflect the views of Pacific Northwest Seniorcare. Pacific Northwest Seniorcare, the host, guests, and affiliates are not responsible or liable for any care, medical, or legal decisions made by listeners or actions taken hereto based on the information discussed in this podcast. By listening to this podcast, you acknowledge and agree to release Pacific Northwest Seniorcare, the host, affiliates, and guests from any liability.

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Season 02 Episode 10

Real Estate Solutions for Funding Long Term Senior Care with Rachel Cook

Unlock the secrets to funding long-term care through real estate with our guest Rachel Cook, whose inspiring story will leave you motivated and informed. Discover how Rachel's family overcame financial challenges after a traumatic accident left her mother disabled, requiring extensive and costly nursing care. Learn the strategies they used, from settlements and social security benefits to smart real estate investments, to ensure Rachel's mother received the best possible care as her health declined.

Generating Long Term Care Income from Real Estate Rentals

In this episode, Rachel shares her hands-on experience with generating income through Airbnb rentals, a faster alternative to traditional real estate investments. Hear about her journey managing a riverside cottage, from selecting the perfect location to balancing upfront costs and quality to attract steady bookings. Rachel's practical advice on maintaining short-term rental properties and securing reliable income streams is invaluable for anyone looking to support long-term care needs through real estate ventures.

Lastly, Rachel provides essential tips on managing and scaling vacation rental properties as a serious business. Gain insights into researching local demand, setting strategic pricing, and building repeat clientele to maximize profits. Plus, learn about the importance of robust business systems and financial planning to secure long-term funding for senior care. 

Rachel's no-nonsense approach offers a wealth of knowledge for both business owners and caregivers striving to navigate the complexities of long-term care funding. Don’t miss this enriching conversation with Rachel Cook that blends personal experience with expert advice.

(04:45 - 05:30) Financing Full-Time Nursing Care

(08:30 - 10:26) Cash Flow Strategies for Long-Term Care

(18:05 - 18:59) Comparison of Airbnb and VRBO Fees

(25:14 - 26:17) Real Estate Investing Strategies

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The information in the Pacific Northwest Seniorcare podcast is for educational and informational purposes only. The content shared by the host, guests, and any affiliates is not intended to substitute for professional medical, legal, or financial advice or any professional advice specific to your situation. Always seek the advice of a qualified professional with any questions you may have regarding these matters.

The host is not a medical or legal expert, and the opinions expressed on the show by the host or guests are those of the individuals and do not necessarily reflect the views of Pacific Northwest Seniorcare. Pacific Northwest Seniorcare, the host, guests, and affiliates are not responsible or liable for any care, medical, or legal decisions made by listeners or actions taken hereto based on the information discussed in this podcast. By listening to this podcast, you acknowledge and agree to release Pacific Northwest Seniorcare, the host, affiliates, and guests from any liability.

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Season 02 Episode 09

The Benefits of Using a Senior Advisor

Discover the invaluable role of senior advisors as Lynn walks you through the critical stages, from understanding your loved one's medical needs and lifestyle preferences to the intricacies of facility availability and care types. Learn how a senior advisor ensures that every aspect—from pet accommodations to desired amenities—aligns perfectly with your parent's unique requirements, whether they need independent living, assisted living, or memory care.

Join us for an insightful journey into the myriad benefits of partnering with a senior advisor. Lynn shares her expertise on everything from scheduling and attending tours to navigating contracts and ensuring a smooth transition post-move-in. You'll also gain insider tips on why timing your tours is crucial and how these professional services are typically covered by the retirement communities themselves. 

Tune in to learn about the extra value offered by certified senior advisors, especially those with specialized certifications in dementia care, and make the best-informed decisions for your aging loved ones.

(00:21) Finding a Senior Advisor for Retirement

(06:16) Benefits of Using a Senior Advisor

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The information in the Pacific Northwest Seniorcare podcast is for educational and informational purposes only. The content shared by the host, guests, and any affiliates is not intended to substitute for professional medical, legal, or financial advice or any professional advice specific to your situation. Always seek the advice of a qualified professional with any questions you may have regarding these matters.

The host is not a medical or legal expert, and the opinions expressed on the show by the host or guests are those of the individuals and do not necessarily reflect the views of Pacific Northwest Seniorcare. Pacific Northwest Seniorcare, the host, guests, and affiliates are not responsible or liable for any care, medical, or legal decisions made by listeners or actions taken hereto based on the information discussed in this podcast. By listening to this podcast, you acknowledge and agree to release Pacific Northwest Seniorcare, the host, affiliates, and guests from any liability.

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Season 02 Episode 08

Mastering the Move to Retirement Living with Personal Items and Pets

Unlock the secrets to a seamless move into retirement living with Pacific Northwest Senior Care. You'll walk away with practical strategies for organizing the transition, from crafting a precise floor plan to determining which treasured belongings should make the move. 

Learn how to optimize your new space, deal with excess items through sales or donations, and understand the decoration policies of your retirement community. Plus, discover tips on working with professional home organizers to make your new residence truly feel like home.

But that's not all—pets are family too, and Lynn dives deep into the specifics of bringing your furry companions along. Understand the varying pet policies across different types of senior living communities, including independent living, assisted living, memory care, and adult foster homes. Get insights on weight and behavior requirements, the logistics of pet care, and any associated costs. 

Lynn also highlights the importance of communicating pet ownership to senior advisors to ensure a perfect match for you and your pet. To cap it all off, we emphasize the importance of caregiver self-care during this significant life transition. Tune in for essential tips to make retirement living a fulfilling and comfortable experience for both you and your pets!

(00:04) Bringing Personal Items Into Retirement Living

(06:47) Senior Living Communities and Pets

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The host is not a medical or legal expert, and the opinions expressed on the show by the host or guests are those of the individuals and do not necessarily reflect the views of Pacific Northwest Seniorcare. Pacific Northwest Seniorcare, the host, guests, and affiliates are not responsible or liable for any care, medical, or legal decisions made by listeners or actions taken hereto based on the information discussed in this podcast. By listening to this podcast, you acknowledge and agree to release Pacific Northwest Seniorcare, the host, affiliates, and guests from any liability.

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Season 02 Episode 07

How to Get Paid as a Caregiver for Your Parents with Nancy May from Eldercare Success

Join us this week as we welcome Nancy May, a seasoned corporate leader and business advisor, who shares invaluable insights from her personal caregiving journey. Nancy's wealth of experience spans managing finances, ensuring quality care, and assembling a team of independent caregivers to reduce costs significantly—all while balancing the emotional complexities of caring for elderly loved ones.

Can You Receive Caregiver Compensation?

Discover the crucial nuances of caregiver compensation, including how to navigate Medicaid qualifications, leverage long-term care insurance, and explore the potential benefits of obtaining a CNA certification. Nancy emphasizes the importance of open communication with parents about financial arrangements and provides a detailed guide on the procedural requirements for getting paid through state Medicaid agencies. Learn from her practical advice on balancing caregiving responsibilities with personal boundaries to avoid emotional and social isolation.

Identify the characteristics essential for managing a reliable caregiving team and understand the pitfalls of high staff turnover. Nancy shares how to maintain a simple yet effective system for tracking caregiver hours and the significance of having a lead aide for accountability. She also introduces her book, "How to Survive 911 Medical Emergencies," offering a step-by-step guide to handle medical crises with firmness and compassion.

(01:47 - 03:19) Getting Paid as a Caregiver

(25:25 - 27:42) Qualifications for Hiring Caregiver Staff

(32:31 - 33:50) Optimal Number of Caregivers for Elders

(36:40 - 38:13) Qualities for Long-Distance Caregivers

(41:35 - 42:45) Nancy Discusses Surviving Emergencies

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The information in the Pacific Northwest Seniorcare podcast is for educational and informational purposes only. The content shared by the host, guests, and any affiliates is not intended to substitute for professional medical, legal, or financial advice or any professional advice specific to your situation. Always seek the advice of a qualified professional with any questions you may have regarding these matters.

The host is not a medical or legal expert, and the opinions expressed on the show by the host or guests are those of the individuals and do not necessarily reflect the views of Pacific Northwest Seniorcare. Pacific Northwest Seniorcare, the host, guests, and affiliates are not responsible or liable for any care, medical, or legal decisions made by listeners or actions taken hereto based on the information discussed in this podcast. By listening to this podcast, you acknowledge and agree to release Pacific Northwest Seniorcare, the host, affiliates, and guests from any liability.

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Season 02 Episode 06

Combatting Senior Loneliness: Strategies for Connecting with Aging Parents

Unlock the secrets to making a genuine connection with your aging parents and combat the silent epidemic of senior loneliness. I’m joined by Caleb from Helperly, who shares his heartfelt experiences with his grandparents and provides crucial insights into recognizing the signs of loneliness and isolation in elderly family members. Learn how fostering curiosity and engagement can transform your relationships and significantly improve your loved ones' emotional and physical well-being.

Gain practical strategies for navigating sensitive conversations about loneliness with aging parents. We'll discuss the severe health risks associated with senior isolation—including dementia, heart disease, and even premature death—and offer advice on establishing a foundation of trust through regular, casual interactions. Caleb shares tips on using sensitivity and humor to naturally frame these discussions, helping you support your parents through life's transitions seamlessly.

Finally, discover the significance of preserving family stories and memories before they're lost forever. Helperly is a company dedicated to combating senior loneliness through personal care, companionship, and a unique online platform offering free classes and activities. Listen as we explore how these resources help seniors feel valued and connected, and get excited about Helperly's upcoming expansion across new states. Don't miss this enriching conversation packed with actionable advice and touching stories.

(11:33) Approaching Conversations With Aging Parents

(23:12) Preserving Senior Stories With Helperly

(31:15) Connecting With Cross-Country Senior Resources

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The information in the Pacific Northwest Seniorcare podcast is for educational and informational purposes only. The content shared by the host, guests, and any affiliates is not intended to substitute for professional medical, legal, or financial advice or any professional advice specific to your situation. Always seek the advice of a qualified professional with any questions you may have regarding these matters.

The host is not a medical or legal expert, and the opinions expressed on the show by the host or guests are those of the individuals and do not necessarily reflect the views of Pacific Northwest Seniorcare. Pacific Northwest Seniorcare, the host, guests, and affiliates are not responsible or liable for any care, medical, or legal decisions made by listeners or actions taken hereto based on the information discussed in this podcast. By listening to this podcast, you acknowledge and agree to release Pacific Northwest Seniorcare, the host, affiliates, and guests from any liability.

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Season 02 Episode 05

Nurturing Yourself While Caring for Aging Parents with Heiki Yates

Can neglecting your own well-being truly impact the care you provide for your aging parents? Join us on this insightful episode as we welcome Heike Yates, a seasoned mid-life coach, to shed light on the importance of self-care for caregivers. 

Setting Caregiver Boundaries

Heike's extensive experience in adapting exercise routines for those with changing physical abilities is invaluable, especially when dealing with fears related to arthritis, osteoporosis, and other age-related conditions. We'll also tackle emotional hurdles such as guilt and frustration, while emphasizing the critical necessity of carving out time for your own mental and physical health.

Setting boundaries and maintaining your personal identity as a caregiver are essential to avoid burnout and ensure a balanced life. We'll share how to establish boundaries, preventing the common pitfall of being solely identified as a caregiver. Heike and I explore the idea of caregiving not as an all-consuming job, but as a role that can and should be shared, allowing you to sustain a healthy and fulfilling life.

Lastly, we highlight the incredible benefits of seeking expert support during challenging times. Heike shares personal anecdotes underscoring the value of an outside perspective from trained professionals, which can help navigate and overcome obstacles more efficiently. 

By delegating tasks and maintaining personal connections, you can prevent losing the precious parent-child relationship and rediscover joy in caregiving. Tune in for heartwarming stories and practical tips to sustain your well-being.

(02:13 - 03:11) Aging and Fitness Concerns

(11:38 - 12:52) Maintaining Identity While Being a Caregiver

(20:20 - 21:09) Active Aging Through Play and Memory

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The host is not a medical or legal expert, and the opinions expressed on the show by the host or guests are those of the individuals and do not necessarily reflect the views of Pacific Northwest Seniorcare. Pacific Northwest Seniorcare, the host, guests, and affiliates are not responsible or liable for any care, medical, or legal decisions made by listeners or actions taken hereto based on the information discussed in this podcast. By listening to this podcast, you acknowledge and agree to release Pacific Northwest Seniorcare, the host, affiliates, and guests from any liability.

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Season 02 Episode 04

Spotting Depression in Older Loved Ones

Discover the essential skills to recognize the early warning signs of depression in your aging parents and ensure they get the help they need. Join me, Lynn Smargis, Senior Care Advisor, as we explore how persistent sadness, feelings of worthlessness, and a noticeable loss of interest in once-loved activities could be crucial indicators. 

Types of Senior Living Communities

Learn why these symptoms should never be dismissed as just part of getting older and how changes in appetite and weight might be signaling deeper emotional struggles. By gaining this insight, you can take proactive steps to support your loved ones and intervene effectively.

We will also dive into other significant symptoms of depression that often go unnoticed, such as sleep disturbances, chronic fatigue, difficulty concentrating, and chronic pain. Understanding the full spectrum of signs and symptoms is key to addressing the underlying issues. Moreover, we will discuss the transformative role that palliative care can play in managing chronic pain and improving overall well-being, potentially reducing depressive symptoms. 

Tune in for practical advice and strategic insights on how to enhance the quality of life for your aging parents, ensuring they receive the compassionate care they deserve. And if you need assistance or resources, make sure to contact one of these groups: National Alliance on Mental Illness, The American Association of Retired Persons, Mental Health America, Geriatric Mental Health Foundation, The Areas Agency on Aging, The National Council on Aging, The Alzheimer’s Association.

(02:03 - 03:03) Signs of Depression in Aging Parents

(07:33 - 09:18) Warning Signs of Depression in Parents

(12:37 - 13:08) Recognizing Signs of Suicidal Ideation

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The information in the Pacific Northwest Seniorcare podcast is for educational and informational purposes only. The content shared by the host, guests, and any affiliates is not intended to substitute for professional medical, legal, or financial advice or any professional advice specific to your situation. Always seek the advice of a qualified professional with any questions you may have regarding these matters.

The host is not a medical or legal expert, and the opinions expressed on the show by the host or guests are those of the individuals and do not necessarily reflect the views of Pacific Northwest Seniorcare. Pacific Northwest Seniorcare, the host, guests, and affiliates are not responsible or liable for any care, medical, or legal decisions made by listeners or actions taken hereto based on the information discussed in this podcast. By listening to this podcast, you acknowledge and agree to release Pacific Northwest Seniorcare, the host, affiliates, and guests from any liability.