Chambua - Dissecting Ideologies Behind Culture, Relationships, Beliefs, Success, and Leadership.

Join Sauti Zetu Team discussing the difference between being civilised and being open minded. This our first episode together face to face since we started working together last year. 

Most complaints and disagreements come from lack of understanding. When we fail to listen carefully what the person is saying, they remain unheard which leads to feeling dissatisfied. Our job in any relationship is to understand other people's needs and find a way of meeting them since we are the only people who promised to meet their needs. This goes both ways. 

Most relationships fade not because of lack of passion but because of lack of attention and intentionality. To be able to maintain a long term relationship one needs to be able to self regulate, correct, and lead in supporting and meeting their significant other's needs. If you can control your attention and what you do with it, you can definitely build a long lasting relationship. It all begins with ourselves. We blame others while we can't even notice what's going on with people in our lives. 

If you want to be a billionaire, you need to reach a billion of people. There is a system to wealth creation and job creation. In this episode you will discover the most obvious system behind wealth. No one becomes rich by accident unless they've won lottery. 

There is a reason why Jews believe they were meant to be rich. This doesn't mean all Jews are wealthier. But those who are rich, are those who believe they were destined for greatness. What you tel yourself determines the quality of your life. You cannot become successful is you believe your salvation will come from outside. You will never be free if you believe it's someone else's duty to create that. Those who are wealth, free, and happy in life, are those who believe they have what it takes and can create anything they want in life.

The biggest challenge facing our continent is wealth creation. With the highest unemployment rates, we need to understand how wealth is created which will lead us to be self sufficient. We don't need outside help to save us from poverty. What we need is understanding how wealth countries created their wealth. In this episode you will discover how rich we are in terms of row material and resources that is needed to create our own wealth and employment. 

If you met the love of your life, would you confidently say you are ready for them? The truth about relationships is that we were never raised with necessary tools and knowledge that would prepare us for love and marriage. Most of us just know what we want but we have no clue what it takes to keep it and maintain it. The person you are searching for won't just happen by accident. And if they happened, do you know what it takes to meet their needs and maintain a long lasting relationships with them? Everybody knows what is good and great, but few of us want to be the best version of ourselves.

What if the person you've been looking for isn't from your religious background, race, or social class? For most of us, the issues isn't even finding someone who would love us. The issue is our biases, ignorance, and prejudice towards others. If we believe we are all human beings, then let's start acting and doing what we preach. If what we need is love, let be love and not our indifferences. This a compiling story of how two young people found love in the most unexpected places.

To sum it all up, if you want a long lasting relationship, start doing this. 

It would be foolish and unwise to ask for a job without proper skills and requirements. Why would you take on an assignment knowing well that you are not build to maintain it? Relationships are built. They are like a house that needs specific skills, commitment, and work ethic. You can't acquire an assignment and leave it unfinished or undone. Most of us think we lack good people, but what we actually lack is the ability to build whatever we sign up for. Are you ready to build what you signed up for? Are you even aware of the task that you have been assigned to? If you can answer these questions then you will know if you are a builder. You won't be afraid of challenges. You will be able to face anything because you understand that nothing good will happen unless you make it happen. The quality of your relationships is proportional to the amount of efforts and care you put in.