Tammi and Arnold Cuyler got married in 1989 and had a baby boy soon after they named Jarrell. they enlisted the help of Tammi's 21 year old cousin Chasity west to baby sit as they worked full time, and Chasity was happy to do it, perhaps because she had her sights set on Arnold. when Tammi and Arnold divorce soon after the birth of their second child in 1995, due to his infidelity, Arnold and Chasity continue on with their relationship. 3 years later, when Chasity wants to get married, Arnold refuses and Chasity believes that Tammi and her children are standing in the way of her happiness.

Brown, J. (2020). An affair led to murder when Chastity West slashed at the children of partner Arnold Cuyler with a box cutter. Daily Crime. https://www.dailycrime.com/an-affair-led-to-murder-when-chastity-west-slashed-at-the-children-of-partner-arnold-cuyler-with-a-box-cutter/FAMILY TENSIONS SPOTLIGHTED AT MURDER TRIAL. (2021, September 2). Hartford Courant. https://www.courant.com/2001/05/08/family-tensions-spotlighted-at-murder-trial/FindLaw. (n.d.). FindLaw’s Supreme Court of Connecticut case and opinions. Findlaw. https://caselaw.findlaw.com/ct-supreme-court/1388945.htmlMEDICAL EXAMINER SAYS BOY SUFFERED. (2021, September 2). Hartford Courant. https://www.courant.com/2001/08/09/medical-examiner-says-boy-suffered/POLICE ARREST THIRD PERSON IN KILLING OF BOY. (2021, September 1). Hartford Courant. https://www.courant.com/1998/08/18/police-arrest-third-person-in-killing-of-boy/State v. West, No. 16627. (n.d.). vLex. https://case-law.vlex.com/vid/state-v-west-no-887256451SUPREME COURT UPHOLDS CONVICTION. (2021, September 3). Hartford Courant. https://www.courant.com/2005/07/19/supreme-court-upholds-conviction/The Associated Press. (1998a, July 18). METRO NEWS BRIEFS: CONNECTICUT; Relative of Dead Boy Is Charged With Murder. The New York Times. https://www.nytimes.com/1998/07/18/nyregion/metro-news-briefs-connecticut-relative-of-dead-boy-is-charged-with-murder.htmlThe Associated Press. (1998b, July 18). METRO NEWS BRIEFS: CONNECTICUT; Relative of Dead Boy Is Charged With Murder. The New York Times. https://www.nytimes.com/1998/07/18/nyregion/metro-news-briefs-connecticut-relative-of-dead-boy-is-charged-with-murder.htmlTimes, C. C. (2011, January 5). Conn. jury convicts woman in child’s murder. Cape Cod Times. https://www.capecodtimes.com/story/news/2001/07/14/conn-jury-convicts-woman-in/50998019007/Watch Twisted Love Season 1 | Prime Video. (n.d.). [Video]. https://www.amazon.com/gp/video/detail/amzn1.dv.gti.d8b801fd-ee04-6242-35ee-24465c475d21?ref_=imdbref_tt_wo_tp_pvt_aiv&workflowType=Commerce-TVOD&tag=imdbtag_tt_wo_tp_pvt_aiv-20&WEST DENIES PART IN KILLING. (2021, September 2). Hartford Courant. https://www.courant.com/2001/06/15/west-denies-part-in-killing/Wood, A. (2001, December 19). Accomplice in Windsor child’s murder receives 6-year prison term “Eloquent statement” by victim’s mother among factors in light sentence. Journal Inquirer. Retrieved April 11, 2023, from https://www.journalinquirer.com/archives/accomplice-in-windsor-childs-murder-receives-6-year-prison-term-eloquent-statement-by-victims-mother/article_e7fead71-4343-51f3-9fae-375c70e9da7c.htmlSupport the showIf you enjoyed learning about this case, check out our Instagram @bookofthedeadpod or website botdpod.com
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