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Who am I? Who am I really?
It’s the question we often ask ourselves and usually find difficult to answer with full and authentic honesty. Instead, we may opt to conform: to do what we think is right and be the kind of person we believe will be most accepted by our peers. Such behavior is deeply rooted in us, reflecting the biology of our primal ancestors. As a result, when someone tells you to disregard what others think and “just be yourself,” you are, in a way, working against an internal need to be liked and accepted by others.
Carl Jung wrote extensively about the process of individuation, which, in short, is the layered process of finding your true, authentic self. Individuation occurs when you recognize and acknowledge your persona (the personality that you present to the world) and integrate it with the contents of your unconscious mind, including your shadow (the disowned and hidden part of you that exists in the background of your everyday life). By connecting to your inner voice—your authentic self—you become conscious and aware of your true vocation. This is the journey toward the person you are meant to be, your journey to wholeness.
https://www.psychologytoday.com/us/blog/strategies-living/202207/how-be-your-true-self?fbclid=IwAR0p7hnXnkuJIkuaiA6gRvkdL4nUkDfiNZ0-_WrvuvO0B51ocZ_UT0Dfz2c
More than ever before, we now hear the buzz words “self-love” and “self-care.” For some, the concepts may be clear, but many are still seeking clarity on exactly what self-love and self-care mean and look like.
I identify myself as a “Vocabulary Nerd” who loves to look up word definitions to deepen my understanding of a concept. So we will begin with my definition of self-love and -care:
Self-love and -care go well beyond bubble baths, a silent moment to yourself before going inside your home after a long day of work, or a cup of tea before bed. Although these are great examples of self-love and -care, they are only examples and do not capture the full essence of these concepts.
Self-care means intentionally devoting attention and efforts to enhancing and protecting your well-being.
https://www.psychologytoday.com/us/blog/make-it-make-sense/202207/self-love-is-self-care?fbclid=IwAR2zcpP3Mwvfm7v7DoOH79_d7yItdbxO52vA6uerMFy4scLPtKlfaqFGaaI
'Dirt is my makeup. Race fuel is my perfume.'
Why do women ride motorbikes? For transportation, yes, but also because we look good on one, and want all the benefits that bike riding brings. From a sense of freedom to weight loss, bike riding is an activity we should all consider.
A woman on a bike is not alone anymore. A recent Motorcycle Industry Council survey revealed that one in every five motorcycle riders is female. This revelation shifts societal expectations and mindsets altogether. Women are allowed to ride motorbikes, and we are good at it too.
Most of us want to be a better person—whether at home, in the office, or just when we’re out running errands. The problem is where exactly do you start?
I realized a couple years ago that I was a jerk at times to people I worked with and to people I feel I couldn’t get any value out of. Over the past couple years I’ve become a much better person by working on myself.
Here are some of the things I’ve been implementing into my daily routine to become a better person on a daily basis.
While the history books are filled with many a first (the first airplane to circumnavigate the globe, the first radio transmission, and the first president), there is one very notable first that is sadly omitted: the BJ.
Who honestly was it who took a look at the D and said, OK, put that in my mouth now?
After doing some research on the subject it appears there are some who trace fellatio back to prehistoric times. In fact, French paleontologist Yves Coppens suggested that the famous Lucy (the first prehistoric woman) did the job 3.2 million years ago. This underscores the belief that mammals have an inherent desire to explore their surroundings with their mouths.
But it is the Egyptians who leave us with the most traceable proof of oral sex (via cave paintings and myths alike), including some very well-hung hieroglyphic males doing it to themselves. Although it is hard to say exactly who was responsible for crossing the threshold into the nether regions for the first time, we did learn a lot in our quest for an answer.
Here, 10 interesting takeaways from the hummer’s illustrious history.
Before we see the difference between the hair in the genital areas to that of the hair in other visible areas of the body, one should know that three main types of hair grow on all human beings.
First is the Lanugo hair, the hair grown on fetus, which are lost once the baby is born.
Second is the Vellus hair, the thin, short, and light hair, which covers almost the complete human body except for some areas like the back of the ears, palms of the hands, soles of the feet, etc.
The third is the Terminal hair or the Androgenic hair, long and thicker hair, which during puberty replaces vellus hair in certain areas of the body like arms, armpits, legs, pubic, facial hair, etc.
The length, color, and thickness of terminal hair vary from person to person depending on the hair growth rate and genes.
It’s very common amongst women to shave their private parts but for men, it is still considered a bit of a taboo to shave or trim the pubic area. Most men think that shaving the pubic area will make them look like a kid which is why they just skip the idea of shaving their armpits or pubic hair.
However, the reality is quite different, manscaping is the most hygienic way to keep your genitals and private parts safe from germs and infections. Let’s discuss the three main reasons to do it.
Shaving off the pubic hair will make the base of your penis visible which makes it look bigger in size. When you shave the pubic hair the base of the penis is no longer covered with pubic hair and this is the main reason it makes your dong look 1 or 2 inches bigger in size and who doesn’t like it to look bigger in size.
This is why it’s the number one reason why you should trim or shave your pubic hair. You can order a good body groomer online and at goodelectricshaver.com you can check out the buying guide on body groomers.
Chinadoll went up to the North Woods in Wisconsin and boy did she bring home some screwed up stories
If I ever write a highly erotic version of the Bible, and I might, the scene where Moses goes up Mount Sinai to retrieve the word of God will have a slightly different spin. In my version, what the prophet will bring back to us will still be 10 Commandments, but they will be the 10 Blow Job Commandments, and they will go something like this:
1. Thou Shalt Not Use Teeth
"I gave my first blow jobs when I was a counselor at camp, and my boyfriend, Nick—he wore board-shorts while he played tennis, so hot—had to tell me what was up. If you're going to give head, your teeth cannot exist. There are a million ways to give an unsatisfactory blow job, but this is the sure-fire way to give an unpleasant one." --Erica, 27, lawyer2.Thou Shalt Explore Around Your Comfort Zone
"Be open minded about blow jobs. Tips that sound kind of awkward can be the most rewarding. Don't keep your best BJ tricks to yourself. At the very least, share them with your best friend. Or if you happen to be a sex blogger, share them with thousands of readers," says Rosemary, my fellow sex blogger. Listen to Rosemary. You're putting a penis in your mouth with the goal of getting him to come, or at very least getting him halfway there. Get into it. Try new things. Even if they sound weird or gross. All that said, you need to be comfy, both physically and emotionally. Make sure you're in a good position. If his hip movements or his hand anywhere near your head is bothering you, make sure he knows that's not OK.
Men are just so unnecessarily complex a lot of the time. A lot of women make the mistake of thinking that men are simple creatures; that it’s going to be easy to decipher their feelings and their needs.
There are so many things going on underneath that rough and rugged exterior – and you can’t be underestimated just what kind of depth a man is capable if you really want to fall in love with one.
It pays to know just what makes a man tick; so that you can tap into that knowledge in an effort to really connect and bond with him as a human being.
It’s all really a matter of making your man feel happy and fulfilled. And this can be done through both grand and simple gestures that you practice in your everyday life as a couple. You really need to be able to touch him in ways that no one else can.
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