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  • 051. Prioritizing Pleasure with Melissa Louise

    Why is pleasure the first thing to go in our busy lives? Why are we so quick to deny ourselves the simplest of pleasures? Why should we prioritize pleasure in our lives? This week we talk with Melissa Louise, pleasure advocate, sex educator and cockologist about why pleasure should be a priority for everyone.

    Check out Melissa Louise on Instagram @thepleasurestudio or on her website.

    Sex at Dawn by Christopher Ryan and Cacilda Jethá - Amazon.com, Amazon.ca

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    1 hr 19 min
  • 050. The Jellyfish Sting and Other Tactics with Dr. Maryanne Fisher

    Would your best friend tell you if you had toilet paper stuck to your shoe if there was a cute guy at the bar? Research says: probably not. This week on the podcast, Beatrice and Dante speak with Dr. Maryanne Fisher about how and why women compete, and the benefits of cooperation over competition.

    You can find Dr. Maryanne Fisher at her website.

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    49 min
  • 049. Attract, Comfort, Seduce: Unpacking The Pickup Game

    If it takes coercion, trickery and manipulation to get someone into bed, it's not enthusiastic consent. This week Beatrice and Dante unpack the 2019 documentary The Pickup Game. They discuss the origins of the "pick up artist" industry, the exploitative nature of the business, and how pick up artistry can quickly turn from aggressive to criminal.

    The Pickup Game trailer - Amazon.com

    The Game: Penetrating the Secret Society of Pickup Artists by Neil Strauss - Amazon.com, Amazon.ca

    Jennifer Anniston being a Horrible Boss - Amazon.com, Amazon.ca

    Tea Consent video

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    1 hr 4 min
  • 048. A Year of Cheating on Fear

    It's our first anniversary! Since there is no paper in a podcast, Beatrice and Dante talk about the origins, challenges and lessons learned about the podcast, and share listener feedback of favourite moments, episodes and guests.

    Untrue by Dr. Wednesday Martin - Amazon.com, Amazon.ca

    Queen’s Gambit trailer - Amazon.com, Amazon.ca

    Cheating on Fear has partnered with Café Hacienda Real to get this amazing coffee in your next cup. Visit GoldenBean.net and be sure to use the promo code CHR2023 for 10% off your order!

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    1 hr 13 min
  • 047. The Lie of Hustle Culture with Kelly Rolfe

    Creating a work life balance has always been something entrepreneurs have had to grapple with. Over the last 500+ days the majority of the working population is working from home, and more people than ever have been coming to terms with what it's like to live and work in the same place, with the same people, 24 hours a day.

    This week on the podcast Beatrice and Dante welcome Kelly Rolfe, multi-passionate entrepreneur, business coach and author to talk about the death of hustle culture, and how balancing your masculine and feminine energies may be the key to deeper connections in your relationships.

    You can find Kelly on Instagram (@kellyrolfecoaching), and at her website.

    Dear Stress, I’m Breaking Up with You by Ky-Lee Hanson - Amazon.com, Amazon.ca

    Dear Limits, Get Out of My Way by Ky-Lee Hanson - Amazon.com, Amazon.ca

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    1 hr 11 min
  • 046. The Last Straw

    How do you know when a relationship is over? This week Beatrice and Dante talk about the subtle, and not so subtle, signs of the end of a relationship.

    The break-up scene from The Break-Up.

    The Break-Up - Amazon.com, Amazon.ca

    Hitch - Amazon.com, Amazon.ca

    A little Worth It by Fifth Harmony to get your day started right!

    Cheating on Fear has partnered with Café Hacienda Real to get this amazing coffee in your next cup. Visit GoldenBean.net and be sure to use the promo code CHR2023 for 10% off your order!

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    1 hr 32 min
  • 045. Non-Monogamy Myth Busting

    Quiz time! Beatrice quizzes Dante on some pervasive myths about non-monogamy, and Dante draws on his anthropology background to provide some context to these fears, and how we can overcome them.

    Sex at Dawn by Christopher Ryan and Cacilda Jethá - Amazon.com, Amazon.ca

    Cheating on Fear has partnered with Café Hacienda Real to get this amazing coffee in your next cup. Visit GoldenBean.net and be sure to use the promo code CHR2023 for 10% off your order!

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    1 hr 2 min
  • 044. The Whoring Twenties

    The whoring twenties are upon us! Beatrice and Dante discuss what the world is going to look like as the pandemic recedes, how to get ready for the whoring twenties, and how this collective global experience will shape our society in years to come.

    Find Melissa Kelly on Instagram (@melissakellyboudoir), Facebook and at her website (www.melissakellyboudoirphotographer.com).

    Lil Nas X provides definitive proof that the COVID-19 vaccine does indeed “make you gay”. 

    Cheating on Fear has partnered with Café Hacienda Real to get this amazing coffee in your next cup. Visit GoldenBean.net and be sure to use the promo code CHR2023 for 10% off your order!

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    1 hr 13 min
  • 043. To the Hilt! with Ruby Ryder

    Fun fact: butts have no sexual orientation. This week on the podcast Beatrice and Dante speak with THE Ruby Ryder. She is a sex educator, podcaster and shame slayer, who believes pegging will save the world.

    You can find the wonderful Ruby Ryder online at her websites Pegging101.com, PeggingParadise.com as well on social media:

    Twitter - @ruby_ryder
    Instagram - @therubyryder
    Tik Tok - @peggingparadise

    Deadpool Celebrates International Women’s Day

    Deadpool - Amazon.com, Amazon.ca

    Cheating on Fear has partnered with Café Hacienda Real to get this amazing coffee in your next cup. Visit GoldenBean.net and be sure to use the promo code CHR2023 for 10% off your order!

    Motivate, and smarten, your ass with SmartAss Undies. Click the link to support the podcast, and don’t forget to use the code CHEATINGONFEAR10 for 10% off your order!

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    1 hr 25 min
  • 042. Lessons Learned: The NXIVM Cult

    This Week Beatrice and Dante discuss the takeaways from Season 1 of HBO's docuseries on the NXIVM cult, The Vow. Cult leader Keith Raniere used guilt, shame and emotional blackmail to control and exploit his members, both male and female.

    The Vow trailer

    NXIVM brand on DOS members (NSFW)

    Seven Years in Tibet - Amazon.com, Amazon.ca

    Role Models - Amazon.com, Amazon.ca

    Paul Rudd and the Venti scene in Role Models


    Cheating on Fear has partnered with Café Hacienda Real to get this amazing coffee in your next cup. Visit GoldenBean.net and be sure to use the promo code CHR2023 for 10% off your order!

    Motivate, and smarten, your ass with SmartAss Undies. Click the link to support the podcast, and don’t forget to use the code CHEATINGONFEAR10 for 10% off your order!

    www.cheatingonfear.com
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    1 hr 19 min

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Beatrice and Dante unpack the things that might be holding you back from living the life you want. Sex, relationships, fitness and training, travel, pop culture and parenting are just some of the…