Cheating on Fear

This week we welcome back beloved regular Dr. Tom Murray. Topics and digressions include: Lil Nas X, bi invisibility, erectile disappointment, attraction in long-term relationships, marriage mortgages and what the root of love is. So much meat… and a little bit of cheese!

If you aren’t following Dr. Tom Murray on Instagram and Twitter, you ought to be! You can also find Dr. Murray at his website.

Instagram - @drtommurray
Twitter - @drtommurray1
Web: www.drtommurray.com

MONTERO (Call Me By Your Name) - Lil Nas X

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Beatrice and Dante welcome back Dr. Treena Orchard to talk about her research into sex work, the invisible labour that many woman have to endure by virtue of their gender, how the patriarchy hurts everyone, and how a common tactic of conflating something horrible with something potentially innocuous can lead to a divisive battle, even when everyone is trying to “do the right thing."

You can find Dr. Treena Orchard on her website, on Instagram (@treenaorchard), Twitter (@stickysexysad), and on Facebook.

Eight People Killed in Shootings That Targeted Atlanta-Area Massage Parlors by Daniel Kreps in Rolling Stone

Check out Dr. Orchard’s chapter Pretty Vacant: Stolen Girls and Girlhoods in Anti-Trafificking Discourse in the SAGE Handbook of Human Trafficking and Modern Day Slavery - Amazon.com, Amazon.ca

Shared Precarities and Maternal Subjectivities: Navigating Motherhood and Child Custody Loss Among North American Women in Street-Based Sex Work (2018 Ethos vol. 46: Issue 1)

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There has been a growing trend over the last few years of celebrities and online experts offering health and wellness advice, usually with a giant price tag. Over the last year it has expanded to include white privilege and anti-science sentiment. This week Beatrice and Dante talk about the four wheels of wellness and how better health is more accessible and less exclusive than you thought.

Food, Inc. - Amazon.com, Amazon.ca

Bananas!* - Amazon.com, Amazon.ca

Mindless Eating by Dr. Brian Wansink - Amazon.com, Amazon.ca

We Need to Talk About the Rise of White Supremacy in Yoga by Anusha Wijeykamur at InStyle

A User’s Guide to Cheating Death - Prof. Timothy Caulfield

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Beatrice and Dante sit down and chat with holistic online coach Johnna (Soul Searching and Squats) who shares an early job experience working as a make-up artist, and later production manger, in the adult film industry. You've never seen a Target shopping list quite like this one!

You can find Johnna on Instagram (@soulsearchingandsquats) or her website www.isquatforpancakes.com.

If you’re looking for some sources of ethically produced porn and erotica, you can check these sites out (obviously NSFW!):

OMGyes

Make Love Not Porn

Kinkly

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Have you ever wondered what it might be like to take a closed, monogamous relationship, and open it up? This week Beatrice and Dante discuss There is No "I" in Threesome, a mainstream documentary that tracks the trials and tribulations of a couple attempting just that.

Rock Star - Amazon.com, Amazon.ca

300 - Amazon.com, Amazon.ca

Blair Witch Project - Amazon.com, Amazon.ca

There is No “I” in Threesome trailer

Community Property - Steel Panther (SFW version, but still probably not appropriate at work!)

Parks and Recreation - Sister City (S02E05) - Venezuelan Officials Talk About Jailable Offences

Comeback Kid - John Mulaney Why Buy The Cow bit

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Relationships today are under more pressure and stress than ever before and it can leave partners feeling overwhelmed and resentful, all while tanking their sex life. This week, Beatrice and Dante speak with Rachel and Stacey from Decoding Couples about maintaining desire in long-term relationships, including practical tips on opening up a previously closed relationship.

You can find Rachel and Stacey (and their amazing reels!) on Instagram @decoding_couples or on their website.

Untrue by Dr. Wednesday Martin - Amazon.com, Amazon.ca

Opening Up by Tristan Taormino - Amazon.com, Amazon.ca

More Than Two by Franklin Veaux and Eve Rickert - Amazon.com, Amazon.ca

Come As You Are by Dr. Emily Nagoski - Amazon.com, Amazon.ca

Old School - Amazon.com, Amazon.ca

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Everyone knows someone who peaked in high school. How are they doing now? Are they still wearing their letterman jacket? Hitting you up on Facebook with the MLM and anti vax talk? This week, Beatrice and Dante talk about how they glowed up late, and and the unexpected benefits of the long game.

Gross Pointe Blank - Amazon.com, Amazon.ca

Beautiful Girls - Amazon.com, Amazon.ca

White Nights - Amazon.com, Amazon.ca

Monica Finally Gets to Date Chip Matthews

Last F*#%able Day - Inside Amy Schumer

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This week Beatrice and Dante welcome back Dr. Tom Murray, AASECT member and sex positive therapist, to talk about Highly Sensitive Persons (HSPs), what it's like to be one and what it's like to love one.

If you aren’t following Dr. Tom Murray on Instagram and Twitter, you ought to be! You can also find Dr. Murray at his website.

Instagram - @drtommurray
Twitter - @drtommurray1
Web: www.drtommurray.com

Same Time Next Year - Amazon.com, Amazon.ca

The Highly Sensitive Person in Love by Dr. Elaine N. Aron - Amazon.com, Amazon.ca

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Beatrice and Dante speak with boudoir photographer Melissa Kelly. She shares her journey and the inspiration that turned her "hobby" into a full-time career telling woman's stories through photography. Also, best date night… ever?

Find Melissa Kelly on Instagram (@melissakellyboudoir), Facebook and at her website (www.melissakellyboudoirphotographer.com).

Cheating on Fear has partnered with Café Hacienda Real to get this amazing coffee in your next cup. Visit GoldenBean.net and be sure to use the promo code CHR2023 for 10% off your order!

Motivate, and smarten, your ass with SmartAss Undies. Click the link to support the podcast, and don’t forget to use the code CHEATINGONFEAR10 for 10% off your order!

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Dante gets Beatrice to dish about her time as an exotic dancer; the events and culture that shaped her decision to try it, what it was like, and some things she learned along the way.

Hustlers - Amazon.com, Amazon.ca

Roadhouse - Amazon.com, Amazon.ca

Rick and Morty - Season 4 - Amazon.com, Amazon.ca & Inside the Vat of Acid Episode

F is For Family - Best of Bob Pogo

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