Cheating on Fear

Beatrice and Dante sit down with MMA Fighter, Commentator, co-owner of District Martial Arts and host of The Lover & The Fighter podcast, Charles DiGisco, to talk about love, martial arts, and what brings us all together.

You can find Charles on Instagram (@cgdigisco) and his podcast and MMA gym here:

The Lover & The Fighter (subscribe on Apple Podcasts and Spotify)
Instagram - @offical_loverandfighter

District Martial Arts in Arlington, VA
Instagram - @districtmartialarts

She’s All That - Amazon.com. Amazon.ca

Crazy Stupid Love - Amazon.com, Amazon.ca

10 Things I Hate About You - Amazon.com. Amazon.ca

Hitch - Amazon.com, Amazon.ca

Stranger Things Season 4 Trailer on Netflix

The Boys Trailer on Amazon Prime

The Mandalorian Trailer on Disney+

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When, and how, should you talk to your kids about sex? How do you make sure your kids grow up with a healthy, and accurate, view of sex and sexuality? Beatrice and Dante share their experiences as parents, in two different phases of their children's lives, and give some examples on navigating the sometimes murky waters of raising children with a healthy view of their bodies and sex.

The Vagina Bible by Dr. Jennifer Gunther - Amazon.com, Amazon.ca

Drawn to Sex by -Erika Moen and Matthew Nolan
Vol. 1 - Amazon.com, Amazon.ca
Vol. 2 - Amazon.com, Amazon.ca

Jensplaining on CBC Gem (trailer if you are outside of Canada)

Callou Twitter Post - James Fell

In the No - Radiolab - Part 1, Part 2, Part 3

Tea Consent Video

Consent for Kids Video

Ross is not a Doctor

Borat 2 Trailer

WAP - Cardi B feat. Megan thee Stallion (NSFW)

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It seems that over the last few decades, people who are famous, whether or not they have actually done anything worthy of that fame (we're looking at YOU Paris Hilton!), are seen as experts on a wide variety of things, whether they are actually qualified or not. Vaccines, surviving quarantine, and how to keep your vagina clean by steaming it, are just some of the ways that celebrities have advised us, and we've often listened. But 2020 was an inflection point; as more and more celebrities encouraged us "that we are all in this together" the outrage from non-celebrities was palpable. Is this the death of celebrity culture? Beatrice and Dante dive in!

Donatella - Lady Gaga

A User’s Guide to Cheating Death - Prof. Timothy Caulfield

Ellen DeGeneres is a Monster and Here’s Why - Flagrant 2

Ellen DeGeneres Making Mariah Drink Champagne

Love is Not Enough - Mark Manson

F2020 - avenue beat

Think YOUR life is bad? At least you’re not a pearlfish…

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Beatrice and Dante sit down with sex and relationship therapist and forensic sexologist Dr. Tom Murray to discuss his approach to sex therapy, the damage caused by early programming, and what we all can do to counter that and live our best lives.

If you aren’t following Dr. Tom Murray on Instagram and Twitter, you ought to be! You can also find Dr. Murray at his website.

Instagram - @drtommurray
Twitter - @drtommurray1
Web: www.drtommurray.com

Kinsey - Amazon.com, Amazon.ca

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Beatrice and Dante speak with their good friends Cam and R.C. who have spent a lot of time perfecting their sex toy repertoire, and share their picks of what you should, and shouldn’t, spend your money on.

We-Vibe Melt - Amazon.com, Amazon.ca

Doctor Love’s Light Flesh Deemun - Amazon.com, Amazon.ca

TOM v2 The Other Man Suction Dildo Mount - Amazon.com, Amazon.ca

TOM Weight Attachment System for TOM v2 (Needed!) - Amazon.com, Amazon.ca

Chrystalino Plugs - Amazon.com, Amazon.ca

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All too often we pack up our lives and transplant it somewhere else… with palm trees and sand. What happens when you take the time to get off the beaten path, learn the local language, and get to know the people of the place you're visiting? In this episode Beatrice and Dante talk about the differences between vacationing and travelling, and what the experience of travelling has meant to both of them as they traverse the globe.

Kitchen Confidential: Adventures in the Culinary Underbelly - Anthony Bourdain - Amazon.com, Amazon.ca

A rambutan fruit!

The Shock Doctrine: The Rise of Disaster Capitalism - Naomi Klein - Amazon.com, Amazon.ca

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Sex makes the world go around. It influences almost everything we do every day. It defines who we are in so many ways. But how did we get here? Have you ever thought about what influences have shaped you as a sexual being? In this episode, Beatrice and Dante talk about their early sexual influences and how they have affected their sexuality growing up, and who they are today.

21 Jump Street - Amazon.com, Amazon.ca

The Boss Baby - Amazon.com, Amazon.ca

Kinsey - Amazon.com, Amazon.ca

Masters of Sex - Amazon.com, Amazon.ca

9 1/2 Weeks - Amazon.com, Amazon.ca

Ice Ice Baby - Vanilla Ice

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Studies have shown that learning self defense techniques decrease incidences and severity of sexual assault. But is a weekend course where women learn to jam their keys in someone’s eye the answer? This week, Dante and Beatrice discuss Brazilian Jiu Jitsu training and its benefits as a self defense modality, and as a vehicle to improving your whole life.

Looks Matter: How Criminals Choose Their Victims - Psychology Today

Self Defense Classes Are Useless… - Taylor Tougaw

Sexual Assault Avoidance - Jason Katz

The Hunting Ground - Amazon.com, Amazon.ca

Jack Ryan: Shadow Recruit - Amazon.com, Amazon.ca

The Karate Kid - Amazon.com, Amazon.ca

Cobra Kai - Amazon.com, Amazon.ca, Netflix

Superbad - Amazon.com, Amazon.ca

Trump Supporters - Jordan Klepper

Get Lucky - Daft Punk feat. Pharell

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Motivate, and smarten, your ass with SmartAss Undies. Click the link to support the podcast, and don’t forget to use the code CHEATINGONFEAR10 for 10% off your order!

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Do you ever feel like you are stressed or anxious and cannot place the reason why? In this episode Beatrice and Dante talk about how our environmental "noise" is contributing to the stress and anxiety of so many, and how we do so much good by simply being outside in nature.

Silence, Please article at the American Psychological Association

The Big Year - Amazon.com, Amazon.ca

Se7en - Amazon.com, Amazon.ca

Ripple Effect - Dr. Greg Wells (drgregwells.com) - Amazon.com, Amazon.ca

City Noise Supercharged My Anxiety article at the Washington Post

Black Betty - Ram Jam

Civilized to Death by Chris Ryan - Amazon.com, Amazon.ca

Grounding article at Healthline

Cheating on Fear has partnered with Café Hacienda Real to get this amazing coffee in your next cup. Visit GoldenBean.net and be sure to use the promo code CHR2023 for 10% off your order!

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You and your partner have decided that you would like to visit a lifestyle (sex) club. What now? How do you choose the type of club that you go to? What sorts of things do you prepare for? Do you even need to get naked and/or have sex at the club? These questions and more are answered by Beatrice and Dante as they delve into your friendly neighbourhood sex club!

BDSM Test

Bedazzled - Amazon.com, Amazon.ca

Desire Riviera Maya Resort

Temptation Cancun Resort

Cheating on Fear has partnered with Café Hacienda Real to get this amazing coffee in your next cup. Visit GoldenBean.net and be sure to use the promo code CHR2023 for 10% off your order!

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