Cheating on Fear

In the second part of this two-part episode, Beatrice and Dante wrap up Rich Cooper's 20 Red Flags and we discuss how human relationships are more complex than a collection of arbitrary traits. Good communication is key to having, and building, strong relationships.

BBC Short Film Leading Lady Parts

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Continuing the discussion from the 9 Iron Rules episode, Beatrice and Dante start to unpack the 20 Red Flags that Rollo Tomassi fanboy Rich Cooper identifies for men who date women.

Dummy on Quibi

Athlete A on Netflix

Untrue by Dr. Wednesday Martin - Amazon.com, Amazon.ca

Everything is F*cked: A Book About Hope by Mark Manson - Amazon.com, Amazon.ca

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Beatrice and Dante talk about Rollo Tomassi's 9 Iron rules and red pill philosophy, and how kernels of truth can be wrapped up in misogyny and packaged as a way to "deal" with the opposite sex. Warning: heteronormative relationship strategies ahead!

The Matrix - Amazon.com, Amazon.ca

One Percent Better’s 9 Iron Rules video

Hitch - Amazon.com, Amazon.ca

How to Get Rid of a Plantar’s Wart video

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The expectations put on men today have led to a rise of negative outcomes, and an entire industry of male self-improvement, both positive and negative, has risen as result. In this week's episode Beatrice asks Dante about his experience doing a Warrior retreat and how it led to bettering himself as a man, a father, and a partner.

The Good Men Project

Billy Madison - Amazon.com, Amazon.ca

The Inbetweeners - Amazon.com, Amazon.ca

Wise Warrior Retreats run by Grace Cirocco

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Everyone can agree that your health is the most valuable thing you have; something that most of us probably aren't prioritizing as much as we should, and something we would all like to be better at. In this episode Beatrice and Dante talk about their individual fitness stories and how they got to the point they are at today. They discuss how training is good for their relationship AND sex life, as well as how current events have led to an explosion of home-based gyms.

StrongLifts 5x5

Wanna build your own home gym? Rogue Fitness USA and Rogue Fitness Canada are a great place to start!

Beatrice’s HIIT professor, Dr. Martin Gibala has an awesome website and his One-Minute Workout is on Amazon.com and Amazon.ca.

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What's the best way to find you potential life partner? Should you use online and mobile dating apps? Should you be setup by friends and family on an endless string of blind dates until you either find your mate or give up? Or, should you outsource your matchmaking to an expert? In this episode Beatrice and Dante discuss the Netflix series Indian Matchmaking and whether having Sima Auntie find your perfect match is the way to finding traditional happiness in this modern world.

Netflix Original Series Indian Matchmaking trailer

90 Day Fiancé

Blue Lagoon - Amazon.com, Amazon.ca

The NY Times Modern Love - The 36 Love Questions That Lead to Love

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What do you do when your relationship has hit a road block? Do you end the relationship, or do you take a break and regroup later? Beatrice and Dante talk about their "freezer", how it came about, how to negotiate a freezer that doesn’t kill the relationship, and what the experience was like for both of them. And the best part: what their relationship developed into after the freezer.

It - Stephen King - Amazon.com, Amazon.ca

Pet Sematary - Stephen King - Amazon.com, Amazon.ca

Pony - Ginuwine

Win a Date with Tad Hamilton! - Amazon.com, Amazon.ca

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In 2003 the original Fab 5 broke ground and changed lives, while helping to normalize their sexuality and lifestyle. 15 years later a new Fab 5 are changing lives and opening hearts and minds, and being more inclusive and accepting of even more people. Beatrice and Dante talk about what the original series meant to them, and the reboot is changing the lives of not only the heroes being made over, but the audience that follows their journey.

Netflix Original Series Queer Eye trailer

Savage Lovecast

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In the second part of our two-part series, we dig into how to get started with consensual non-monogamy and the various smartphone apps that are out there that put potential play partners just a swipe away. We’ll also dig into the different types of swaps, our relationship origin story, and some pitfalls and highlights of our journey so far. Plus, how tribe building became an unexpected outcome of this journey.

Untrue - Dr. Wednesday Martin - Amazon.com, Amazon.ca

Sex at Dawn - Christopher Ryan and Cacilda Jethá - Amazon.com, Amazon.ca

Opening Up: A Guide to Creating and Sustaining Open Relationships - Tristan Taormino - Amazon.com, Amazon.ca

The Ethical Slut - Janet W. Hardy and Dossie Easton - Amazon.com, Amazon.ca

DocZone Why Men Cheat? Trailer

90 Day Fiancé

Rick and Morty - Amazon.com, Amazon.ca

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It’s fairly easy for someone to define monogamy, and almost as difficult to define non-monogamy. In the first part of a two-part series we delve into what monogamy and non-monogamy are (including the differences between cheating and consensual or ethical non-monogamy), some useful terminology, and some resources to get you started in learning the language and skills that will be useful if you are embarking on a path of consensual non-monogamy.

Untrue - Dr. Wednesday Martin - Amazon.com, Amazon.ca

Sex at Dawn - Christopher Ryan and Cacilda Jethá - Amazon.com, Amazon.ca

Esther Perel - Amazon.com, Amazon.ca

We Are the Earth - Lil’ Dicky - Youtube

Imp of Darkness

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