Cheating on Fear

Anthropologist Dr. Treena Orchard shares her insights on dating in the digital world, why Zoom meetings may be allowing men to understand what the constant scrutiny of women is like, and why older women dating younger men has unexpected advantages for both parties!

You can find Dr. Treena Orchard on her website, on Instagram (@treenaorchard), Twitter (@stickysexysad), and on Facebook.

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Beatrice is missing Friends on Netflix, so she and Dante delve into all the episodes where the Friends crowd tackled non-monogamy and other forms of non-traditional relationships. Oh, and their laminated celebrity lists as well.

Your F•R•I•E•N•D•S Non-Monogamy Playlist (In Release Order):
S01E06 - The One with the Butt
S01E12 - The One with the Dozen Lasagnas
S01E13 - The One with the Boobies
S02E08 - The One with the List
S02E13 - The One After the Superbowl: Part 2
S02E17 - The One Where Eddie Moves In
S02E24 - The One with Barry and Mindy’s Wedding
S03E05 - The One with Frank Jr.
S03E15 - The One Where Ross and Rachel Take a Break
S03E16 - The One with the Morning After
S04E01 - The One with the Jellyfish
S06E16 - The One That Could Have Been

F•R•I•E•N•D•S: The Complete Series - Amazon.com, Amazon.ca

Good Will Hunting - Amazon.com, Amazon.ca

Outbreak - Amazon.com, Amazon.ca

Rampage - Amazon.com, Amazon.ca

Hustlers - Amazon.com, Amazon.ca

Sex and the City: The Complete Series - Amazon.com, Amazon.ca

Queer as Folk: The Complete Series - Amazon.com, Amazon.ca

Oz: The Complete Series - Amazon.com, Amazon.ca

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Beatrice and Dante chat with cultural anthropologist and NY Times best selling author Dr. Wednesday Martin about politics, feminism, female sexuality and desire, and some of the surprising places you'll find misogyny.

You can find Dr. Wednesday Martin on her website, on Twitter (@WednesdayMartin) and Instagram (@wednesdaymartinphd). Dr. Martin also co-hosts the amazing True Sex & Wild Love podcast with Whitney Miller. Be sure to also check out Dr. Martin’s books, including Beatrice’s game changer, Untrue.

Untrue - Amazon.com, Amazon.ca
Stepmonster - Amazon.com, Amazon.ca
Primates of Park Avenue - Amazon.com, Amazon.ca
Boyfriends of Dorothy - Amazon.com, Amazon.ca
The Button - Amazon.com, Amazon.ca

What Love Is: And What it Could Be by Carrie Jenkins - Amazon.com, Amazon.ca

The Langurs of Abu by Dr. Sarah Blaffer Hrdy - Amazon.com, Amazon.ca

The Woman that Never Evolved by Dr. Sarah Blaffer Hrdy - Amazon.com, Amazon.ca

Strongmen: Mussolini to the Present by Ruth Ben-Ghiat - Amazon.com, Amazon.ca

We Need to Talk About the Rise of White Supremacy in Yoga by Anusha Wijeykamur at InStyle

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Break-ups are hard. You're hurt. You're angry. A break-up is the death of an imagined future, but it's also a chance for personal growth and becoming a better person to yourself, your exes, and to your kids. Dante and Beatrice chat about how to navigate break-ups without being an asshole. BEA an awesome ex, DANTE be a shitty one!

Adam Sandler Perfectly conveys the death of a relationship in Somebody Kill Me from the Wedding Singer.

The Wedding Singer - Amazon.com, Amazon.ca

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This week Beatrice and Dante talk about the things they are grateful for, the things they are hopeful for, and how they feel about New Year resolutions in their last episode of 2020.

Find Soul Searching and Squats on Instagram.

If you’re looking for some binge-worthy viewing to ring in the New Year!

90 Day Fiancé trailer

Rick & Morty trailer

Love is Blind trailer

Tiger King trailer

Indian Matchmaking trailer

World War Z trailer - Amazon.com, Amazon.ca

Dante’s favourite eggnog recipe (spolier… it was amaze-balls) from Joshua Weisman.

John Oliver and Last Week Tonight’s End of 2020 clip and Adam Driver bit.

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Beatrice and Dante interview fellow Canadian, author, sweary historian and twitter champion James Fell about his writing journey, his transition from fitness blogging to writing about history and his never-ending quest to burn the manosphere.

Check out James Fell on Facebook and Twitter (@BodyForWife) or online at his website.

Consider becoming a patron of James on Patreon for some awesome content!

You can get your daily dose of sweary history on James’s Facebook page, and mark you calendars (April 17, 2021!) for the daily posts compiled into his forthcoming book On This Day in History Shit Went Down, and start with his piece on The Myth of the Alpha Male.

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This week Beatrice and Dante unpack the surprising sexual politics in The Queen's Gambit. Please be advised… MAJOR SPOILERS. This episode is for listeners who have already seen the series (or never intend on watching it). The Queen's Gambit is so much more than just a story about a girl who's good at chess.

20 Ordinary Things Women Couldn’t Do in the 50’s and 60’s Is This Cheating or Not? - Do You Remember? article

The Best Thing About ‘The Queen’s Gambit’? There’s No Sexual Violence in It. - Maclean’s Article

The Queen’s Gambit by Walter Tevis - Amazon.com, Amazon.ca

Atomic Blonde - Amazon.com, Amazon.ca

Rick & Morty - Amazon.com, Amazon.ca

The Queen’s Gambit Trailer

Rick Explains the Bechdel Test to Morty

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Ever sit around and have a spirited discussion on what is cheating and what isn't with your friends? On this episode Beatrice and Dante take an "Is this cheating" quiz and decide is it cheating, not cheating, or just being a sketchbag.

Is This Cheating or Not? Buzzfeed quiz

Joey Makes a New State - Full clip is in Friends S03E19

Follow This on Netflix

Black Mirror S05E01 Striking Vipers

Without Me - Eminem

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Beatrice and Dante talk with Emma and Finn, hosts of the Normalizing Non-Monogamy podcast. Emma and Finn talk about their journey through, and podcast about, non-monogamy and how we can all find happiness in our relationships.

Check out Emma and Finn at www.normalizingnonmonogamy.com, where you can find all their episodes and links to subscribe and listen on all your favourite podcast platforms.

You can also find them on Instagram and Twitter @nnmpodcast.

Shout out to a staple podcast for Cheating on Fear and Normalizing Non-Monagmy, the Savage Lovecast and “Uncle” Dan Savage (Twitter and Instagram).

Sex at Dawn by Christopher Ryan and Cacilda Jethá - Amazon.com, Amazon.ca

Untrue by Dr. Wednesday Martin - Amazon.com, Amazon.ca

Monica and Chandler… and Greg and Jenny!

Kissing Other People - Lennon Stella

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What happens when you clean out an old drawer and find a cosmopolitan magazine from almost a decade ago? You dive in and see if the world has changed in the intervening 9 years, that's what!

The Vagina Bible by Dr. Jen Gunther - Amazon.com, Amazon.ca

Is Gwyneth Paltrow Wrong About Everything? by Timothy Caulfield - Amazon.com, Amazon.ca

Day Drinking with Seth Myers and Rihanna

How To Tell if You’re a Basic Bitch - College Humor

The Good Place on Netflix

Speck of Dust - Sarah Silverman Trailer on Netflix

Hump Film Festival Trailer

Cake by the Ocean - DNCE

Toothbrush - DNCE

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