Choose 2 Think: Renew Your Mind. Live with Purpose.

Choose 2 Think: Renew Your Mind. Live with Purpose.

By Victoria D. Lydon, MA | Author and Certified Christian Life CoachReligion & SpiritualityChristianity
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Choose 2 Think: Renew Your Mind. Live with Purpose. episodes

  • 095: The Thinker Mindset and the Vital Importance of Taking Your Daily 16-minute Mental Vacation or Creativity Trip (Clubhouse Mastermind)

    Do you practice allowing your mind to wander?  To be imaginative and creative?  Do you day dream? It is a critical component to your mental self-care regimen and your quality “me” time. Rebooting your brain is a  must every single day!

    The Benefits to Practicing The THINKER MINDSET :

    • Decreases dementia
    • Increases intelligence
    • Provides awareness and deep insight
    • Helps to clarify your thinking and
    • Gets you unstuck in toxic thought loops
    • Inspired by Dr. Leaf Think, Learn, Succeed

      16 mins. / Day recommended!

      GUESTS: Rebecca Wilcox and Becky Fisher

      We chat about the importance of: 

      • being proactive with our self-care
      • sticking to your morning routine
      • disconnecting from social media
      • Doing nothing
      • decluttering
      • FREEBIE: 5 R’s to taking thoughts captive 

        26 min
      • 094: When Praising God Is Much Easier than You May Think (Psalm 150)

        God is so good to us!

        As we take a look at Psalm 150 (the last psalm in the entire book), what messages can we infer? We'll examine the psalm from several different angles, and you will sure to be rejoicing within minutes!

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        12 min
      • 093: My Candid Conversation with Ashish from Nepal on Christianity (Clubhouse Mastermind, Part 2: Controlled Emotions)

        This Clubhouse Mastermind on Controlled Emotions took a bit of a twist and became more of a discussion about faith. I was just about to close out the room when a young gentleman named Ashish entered. 

        You may want to go back to listen to Part 1, Episode 091: Your Mind Creates Your Feelings: Practicing Self-Control to Improve Emotional Health to have a better idea of the backdrop to our chat.

        He was drawn to the title of the room "The Controlled-Emotions Mindset" because he was personally struggling with handling his emotions.

        During our chat he shared a personal and life-altering childhood memory that he felt shaped him and had negatively impacting him to this day. 

        We talked about:

        • the power of the mind and taking thoughts captive, 
        • the Bible, 
        • forgiveness, 
        • our religions and faith
        • and even how to pray.  
        • Needless to say, I was not prepared really for this type of discussion, but I did my very best.

          I encouraged him to read through Psalm 139 (one of my favs) to begin to unpack just how much God loves him and has a great plan for him. 

          I wish I had thought about the passage where Jesus's disciples asked Him how to pray (Matthew 6) - this would have been such a simple answer to Ashish's question on prayer.  

          I would truly love to know your thoughts on this really important episode of the show - perhaps my most important to date!  Please email me at [email protected] with your feedback!

          The podcast has now been heard in 35 countries. I feel so humbled so often to think that maybe this tiny little show, broadcast out of Midway, Kentucky, could impact the lives of others so far away.  May God alone be glorified.

          Let's stay connected:

          www.victoriadwalker.com


          46 min
        • 092: Be Your Beautiful Self! Isn't It Time to Remove Those Masks You're Wearing and Show Up in Authentic, Transparent & Intimate Ways? With Jocelyn J. Jones

          Are you in the bad habit of faking how you really feel inside? Do you often feel one way, but pretend to feel another way?  Or do you have a hard time expressing your emotions in healthy and positive ways, especially those sticky, difficult-to-manage ones like:

          anger

          fear
          sadness
          frustration
          anxiety

          embarrassment

          shame
          unforgiveness
          self-doubt
          rejection

          Are you longing for freedom, authenticity, transparency, and intimacy in your relationships, but you don't know where to start?  

          If so, my guest today Jocelyn Jones, an ordained minister, is sure to help you! 

          She is a native of Hazel Crest, IL. She received her bachelor’s degree from the University of Iowa in journalism. After receiving her B.A., Jocelyn worked for channel 20, WYCC. She left the television industry to work at the ARK of St. Sabina, where she served for eleven years; eight of which were in the role of Executive Director. While working at the ARK, Jocelyn earned her master’s degree from the University of Chicago in social work.


          After accepting her call to ministry, she went on to complete her master's degree in theological studies from McCormick Theological Seminary. Jocelyn is an ordained minister and the founder of Faith on the Journey, a company committed to showing the world that God's word has the power to heal.


          She is the author of the book, Breaking the Power of the Mask, and a training facilitator with the Trauma Healing Institute.


          CONNECT WITH JOCELYN:


          faithonthejourney.org
          YouTube Channel 
          Facebook
          Free Mini Course and Workbook

          Snag Jocelyn's book here*.


          CONNECT WITH VICTORIA:

          www.victoriadwalker.com

          YouTube Channel





          *amazon affiliate link on book that may benefit my ministry

          38 min
        • 091: Your Mind Creates Your Feelings: Practicing Self-Control to Improve Overall Emotional Health (Clubhouse Mastermind, Part 1: Controlled Emotions)

          Do you control your emotions or do your emotions control you?

          Use these 5 tips to help you recognize your emotions and process them in healthy ways:

          • Understand that you actually make your emotions
          • You are responsible to manage them
          • Practice reframing toxic emotional moments (like extreme anger or sadness) to what they are sign-posting about your values
          • Name your emotions, declare and write them down
          • Feel what you're feeling (don't stuff, deny, or bury uncomfortable emotions)
          • Connect with Victoria:  www.victoriadwalker.com


            2 Part Clubhouse Mastermind on Controlled Emotions. Be sure to catch Episode 093 for Part 2.


            23 min
          • 090: Be Doused Daily with God's Goodness, Love, and Grace to Help You Thrive in Brotherly Unity, Peace, and Forgiveness (Psalm 133)

            Psalm 133 speaks of the sweetness and pleasantness of unity among brothers--and offers us two striking metaphors for this unity:  oil and dew. In today's episode we chat about Moses and Aaron (real-life brothers) as well as unity amidst diversity in our 21st century world.  

            We conclude with the reminder that God made unity possible through the giving of His One and Only Son.  The call is for us to consider our own relationships and to get rid of any toxic thoughts that may be causing division. 

            Check out this I CHOOSE GOD'S PRESENCE to remind you that God is always with you and He anoints you to do good work for His glory! 

            Connect with me at www.victoriadwalker.com

            You might enjoy this BLOG POST 3 QUICK TIPS TO HANDLE CONFLICT AT HOME 

            Want personal 1-1 coaching?  I'd love to offer you a 60-minute FREE Thought Strategy Session!  DM me for details at [email protected].

            16 min
          • 089: Willpower, Motivation, and Your Brain's Power to Help You Change Starting Today! (Clubhouse Chat)

            WILLPOWER MINDSET

            This is the mindset that allows you to persevere even when you don’t FEEL like it! (similar to the expectations mindset).

            Mel Robbins website https://melrobbins.com/

            Referenced article: https://melrobbins.com/5-second-rule-hack-science-explained/

            • 5, 4, 3, 2, 1 GO
            • operate out of habit on autopilot
            • Switch on prefrontal cortex
            • Momentum and control
            • “Activation Energy” -- just START!
            • Progress Principle - take small steps!
            • Stop debating!
            • Disengage OLD BAD HABITS and Create NEW habits for NEW rewards!
            • Importance of Value and Identity Based goal setting
            • “White knuckling” method needed sometimes
            • Excuses and Thoughts that take us in the wrong direction and DECREASE motivation and willpower:

              I can’t do this anymore.

              I quit.

              I’m not good at this anyway. What’s the use?

              Nobody cares. It doesn’t matter anyway.

              This is too hard.

              I don’t feel like it.

              Special Guests:

              Rebecca C. Wilcox https://www.facebook.com/womencourageouslyliving/

              Monica Thelmas @monicathelmas (on all social media platforms)

              Inspired by Dr. Caroline Leaf:  Think, Learn, Succeed


              CONNECT WITH VICTORIA:

              Your support of this podcast is greatly appreciated! Simply click the Listener's Support Tab for more information on how you can help us continue to produce inspirational, Christ-centered messages.

              Please be sure to subscribe, rate, and write a review of the show on Apple Podcasts. If you share a link on social media, be sure to tag me @victoriadwalker when you do!

              website: https://www.victoriadwalker.com/

              34 min
            • 088: The Fascinating, Maddening & Beautiful Journey of Parenting Your Child Diagnosed with Autism Spectrum Disorder with Susan Mills

              Join Susan Mills, founder of My Autism Tribe, and me as we chat about the fascinating, maddening, and beautiful aspects of Autism Spectrum Disorder (ASD).

              Susan's mission is to educate and serve others dealing with family members who have ASD. 

              Our discussion takes many twists and turns as Susan shares her fight and voice regarding autism. 

              Some of our talking points include:

              • rewiring the brain through ABA Therapy
              • self-blame, shame, and guilt as a parent
              • the before-bed practice of "positive speak"
              • encouragement for those dealing with autistic children

              • CONNECT WITH SUSAN:

                Facebook and IG:  @myautismtribe

                Website: Myautismtribe.org

                My Autism Tribe podcast

                Other non-profit organizations if you need additional information:

                https://www.autism-society.org/

                https://nationalautismassociation.org/


                CONNECT WITH VICTORIA:

                Your support of this podcast is greatly appreciated! Simply click the Listener's Support Tab for more information on how you can help us continue to produce inspirational, Christ-centered messages.

                Please be sure to subscribe, rate, and write a review of the show on Apple Podcasts. If you share a link on social media, be sure to tag me @victoriadwalker when you do! 

                website: https://www.victoriadwalker.com/


                42 min
              • 087: Expectations vs. Reality: How the Proper Expectations Mindset Will Improve Your Emotional Health and Stamina Today (Clubhouse Mastermind)

                The expectancy mindset is crucial for emotional self-care and well being. Too often, we focus more on preconceived notions about our day, our life, our situations which cause us to sink into negative feedback loops in our minds and brains.

                Today's show walks us through the importance of fostering an expectancy mindset as well as how to practice it daily with practical examples. This mindset will help you avoid overwhelm, fear, and distress.

                Special guests include:

                Rebecca C. Wilcox https://www.facebook.com/womencourageouslyliving/

                Monica Thelmas @monicathelmas (on all social media platforms)

                Topics include:

                • Better do it, might get better!
                • Psalm 5:3; Prov. 13:12; Isa. 40:31
                • Fasting, praying, worshiping and waiting
                • Hoping in Lord
                • Importance of Positioning ourselves to receive the blessing or the result of our expectations
                • Thinking is believing to a certain extent
                • Self-care so important
                • Faith over fear!
                • God’s word will not return void
                • God will show us the path of life
                • Inspired by Dr. Caroline Leaf:  Think, Learn, Succeed

                  GET YOUR FREE: EXPECTANCY MINDSET PDF PRINTABLE/DOWNLOADABLE

                  Connect with Victoria:  www.victoriadwalker.com

                  I would really appreciate your support! Click Listener's Support tab below.  And if you rate and write a review on Apple podcasts, I'll send you a special gift!  OR if you share your favorite episode and tag me on social media, I've got something for you!  DM me your US Mailing Address at [email protected]. 

                  31 min
                • 086: How to Win Every Battle You Face One Thought at a Time (Psalm 21)

                  What personal stories of victory do you have? 

                  In what areas of your life have you been an overcomer? 

                  Have you beaten a really bad habit once and for all? 

                  Have you won recently at a sports event? Or maybe received a special certificate of achievement? 

                  Did you set a goal and achieve it?  

                  Are you a dream chaser, not letting go, not giving up on something that you know is a good idea?


                  I might venture to say that every HERO made the win first in his or her mind.  You and I can do the same!  


                  Featured inspirational story:

                  Amy Purdy - Find her here. 


                  Connect with me at www.victoriadwalker.com

                  Want personal 1-1 coaching?  I'd love to offer you a 60-minute FREE Thought Strategy Session!  DM me for details at [email protected].

                  14 min

                About Choose 2 Think: Renew Your Mind. Live with Purpose.

                From the publisher's feed

                What if the way you think could change the way you live?