“Just be faithful in the things God is asking you to do. Don’t look at the numbers, don’t look at the other person’s outcomes, don’t look at the socials and the comparisons you make, just be faithful in the way you believe God is leading you on…just be faithful”. 

Today’s episode is for all of us - the mehs of heart, the yays of heart, the nahs of heart, even the wows of heart! It is time to talk about our true north as believers and believing in the part we have in this covenant relationship. 

Three Thoughts

• Be faithful - this is your steadfast loyalty that isn’t easily swayed. Loyalty to God, to yourself, and in your covenant relationships. In your contract relationships, remember to remain the true child of God too.   

• For as difficult as life can be sometimes, remember you can choose to not do life alone. This is why in 2023 we will be launching our Dear Sister Summits to take place monthly, and our Dear Sister Membership and Coaching community. I am very excited because we are creating a unique space for women who want to heal, thrive, and have abundant joy everyday. This is a global community with the purpose of healing ourselves as we also reach out and heal another sister - truly all about A Sister’s Heart.  

• Let your Yes be Yes and your No be No. I heard this in a movie once and it stayed with me “don’t think so much about the mess, the process, the steps, focus on the outcome, the fruit." Jesus said we will know them by their fruits right? So, think more with your heart dear sister, and your head when necessary.  

Merry Christmas 2022! Enjoy this time with family and loved ones. See you for the last episode of year next week...yay!

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You are never to be underestimated in the seasons you find yourself in…with your family, your workplace, your community. Maybe you can’t speak up for yourself. Maybe you find yourself doing for others and running on empty. Maybe you don’t feel like a helper in any area and more like the only captain in everything. Maybe life circumstances have you being the lone ranger for yourself and your kids and so you have no choice but to be the captain and co-captain. No matter what the circumstances are, there is always a good time to reclaim your time and own the inherent power and purpose you have been given.

Three Thoughts

1. Reclaim your time - your time. Know your inherent purpose and believe you are capable of being that.   

2.Only you know what you need to thrive in your reclaimed time. It could be spiritual, such as literally figuring out how to create space to hear the voice of God, or physical, getting some much needed sleep, rest or mental, practicing what I call the great escape which is mental health break, or emotional such as journaling etc However reclaimed time looks like for you, just choose to own it. 

3.You have a little Deborah in you, a little Jael in you, a little Mary in you, a little Esther in you, and Jesus is always ready to listen. Have faith in reaching out for what you need and believe that you will receive it.

Thank you for supporting us - listening, sharing, following, sending your encouragements.

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When the vision is so big, I mean very big, that it scares the living daylights out of you, you need a big big big God. In this podcast, you are invited to explore seeds of faith with me as you get to hear the rawest parts of the beautiful tensions I hold in my heart in my faith walk toward embracing all the ways God directs me to. Here are three thoughts for you

Three Thoughts

• Seeds of faith sown at a younger age, helps your inner child thrive when she grows; however, if for some reason, you did not have that, remember your inner child is still there and you can always help her by believing in the littlest seed you have. Or just borrow a little bit until yours grows.   
• Take time with God because He takes his time with you. Do not rush through the journey. Even if you detour like me, you are disobedient sometimes, like me, or you drag your feet and delay, like me, remember, you have that seed of faith and nothing is impossible. 
• We all have a little bit or a lot of Abram in us. Ultimately, you are blessed and destined to be a mighty fortress in your community, in your family, in your friendship circles, in your small groups, in your church, in the workplace, in the world… take a step towards faith. 

Are you looking to achieve big in 2023? Whether you have a vision, a goal, a plan, or you don't, whether you need balance in your everyday priorities, whether you want to cut the overwhelm and actually feel human...lol, go to www.chiefjoyactivator.com/systems-of-life-workshop and sign-up for my 3-day workshop. You will find more details there and get ready to achieve!

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The first time I met Tania Brown I was captivated by her confident spirit. Then she started talking about money and my ears perked up even more! I have never met a sister who talks about money like that! And to do it in a godly way that brings honor to the one who provides all our needs is so admirable. But hearing her speak you wouldn’t know that she was a former atheist whose journey with God has only become stronger and sweeter. This podcast episode is about our financial wellbeing, dear sister and also, about Tania’s personal journey of FREEdom, so take a listen. 

Tania Brown, an Army veteran, is a CERTIFIED FINANCIAL PLANNER® and is currently the Director of Financial Coaching. For 20 years she’s taught thousands at multiple Fortune 500 companies how to achieve financial security and build wealth. She's consulted with corporations and tech companies to create products and services to help people of all income levels improve their finances.

 She's written and been quoted in several news outlets including Forbes, Business Insider, CNBC, and USA Today, and was a contributing writer on a book on personal finance. She was also the lead researcher on Optimizing Financial Wellness For A Diverse Workforce. 

 When she is not nerding out over the latest budgeting app, Tania is living out her other passions: fostering teens, volunteering, serving at her church, and continuing her never-ending quest to find the best chocolate.

Your three thoughts from this conversation:

- You need to understand that God can do so much more with your 90% so don’t shy away from tithing.

- No matter the obstacles you have experienced or currently experiencing, believe that the better is ahead. 

- Know that courage is you throwing up and doing it anyway, whatever that ‘it’ is. So fail often, fail fast, fail scared. 

Contact Tania at www.taniapbrown.com

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Every sister needs a sister like my guest this week! What do I mean by that? The sister friend who can keep it 100% real but in an eloquent way - she says what needs to be said without the stinging microaggressions. The sister friend that makes you feel seen, heard, known and that you are the only one in the room. There is a friend, a great girlfriend, sister friend for every season and God makes them walk into our lives at just the right moment.  

Caroline Colleen, the Mama Champion joins me on the podcast for a sister friend conversation all about being busy mamas, holiday traditions, being authentic and real to yourself and others and living a life full of rhythms. We had a whole conversation before I hit record and you wouldn’t even know we both needed a good Sunday afternoon naps! lol!. I want you to listen to some life lessons, some real talk about being a woman with a life mantra, some wisdom about living on purpose from a joy filled sister! Caroline is a mom of three girls, exuding radiant joy and radical freedom while helping other mamas do the same. Caroline shares her breaking FREE, Breaking through and Breathing again moments as she navigates a rhythmic life on purpose. 

Your three thoughts from this conversation:

- You need a life mantra, one that keeps you living on purpose and with purpose

- Pace yourself with your life dreams and goals. Life happens and so if you need to pause and start, pause and start, then do just that. Embrace the freedom to rest and lean into the trials and triumphs you experience in life.

- Have accountability with women that will inspire you to be your best self.

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Our lives are indeed always moving in the direction of our greatest thoughts! In life we experience so many seasons, some seasons repeat, and some seasons recycle with great intensity. Whether with great ease or great intensity, how we navigate these seasons can either launch us into our greatest destinies or our greatest depressions. 

This is the story of my first guest! We had a whole conversation before I hit record OK. And I can’t wait for you to listen to some wisdom, some lessons, some strength! Jovita Fenwick is a 21-month old widow and mama of four. She is a veteran and is now on a journey discovering the next adventure with God on her side, an angel on her shoulder and kids who keep her grounded. Jovita shares her breaking FREE, Breaking through and Breathing again moments as she navigates grief and discovers her life on purpose. 

Your three thoughts from this conversation:

- Do not keep your grief a secret and do not lose your character!

- Cry when and wherever you find yourself but never neglect your mental, emotional, spiritual, physical, and financial health. Your breaking FREE moment is a defining moment.

- Be intentional in your grief journey and don’t shy away from asking for help!

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Would you listen to this podcast episode with just a one line title or with a brief caption that captures and gives you enough information to make you stop, click and listen? Most likely, like me I skim the title and caption to note if I want to listen. Context! It is everything. Without it, we create our own context and out of that create more and more. 

We see that Joseph, Jesus's father needed more context to make the decision to not divorce his wife, Mary. If you have ever needed more context and did not get it, or you got more context but it was too late, and the in between, then listen to the podcast. You will learn how to use 'understanding' to guard your heart (subconscious), know how to receive and use context and be mentally and emotionally ready to be present with others - differently! Enjoy!

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We all experience seasons of highs and lows, ebb and flow. This is one of those episodes where I have practically consistently lived what I preach because life is always happening so I must work al the time.

Change in life is constant and you can never have enough tools to help you manage life’s happenings, whether in decreasing or increasing measure. In this Episode, you learn the three practical steps that I personally use to move with the ebb and flow of life.

You will be encouraged to examine your situations and begin the steps to move. Seasons of ebb and flow are never ending, but the action of ebb (decreasing) or flow (increasing) do end and begin again and again. Learn to be even-tempo through it all.

Enjoy the episode and cheers to our healing and FREEdom.

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She says "This is who I am!" Yep, there is the nature and there is the nurture. Indeed, this is who you are and how awesome would it be if we were fully nurtured by God's love? In this episode, I dive into three biblical truths about the nature AND nurture of our existence. Choosing to live FREE is you being captivated and nurtured by God's love so you are equipped with the purity of that love to love self and others well. A part of me received healing in this episode and I know you will too. Enjoy!

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Marriages are under attack! I hope that this brief recap from a great time me and my husband had at the 2022 Atlanta XO Marriage Conference - hosted at Victoryatl.com blesses you. If you aren't married, still listen, free nuggets for you. I took notes ya'll! Enjoy this bonus episode. You can find more about XO Marriage and their speakers at xomarriage.com