Edification – “oikodome”, "to build a house." Edifice – building - ation the act ofMatt . 16:18 – “And I tell you, you are Peter, and on this rock I will build (oikodome) mychurch, and the gates of hell shall not prevail against it.1 Peter 2:5 – “you yourselves like living stones are being built up (oikodome) as a spiritualhouse, to be a holy priesthood, to offer spiritual sacrifices acceptable to God through JesusChrist.1. Spiritual Building:Holy Spirit edifies – Gifts are for edification of the body, 5 fold is for edification1 Cor.14:12 – “So with yourselves, since you are eager for manifestations of the Spirit,strive to excel in building up the church.Ephesians 4:11-13- “And he gave the apostles, the prophets, the evangelists,the shepherds and teachers,12 to equip the saints for the work of ministry, for buildingup the body of Christ,13 until we all attain to the unity of the faith and of the knowledge ofthe Son of God, to mature manhood, to the measure of the stature of the fullness of Christ,2. Edify self & church - Spiritual Words1 Cor. 14:4 – “The one who speaks in a tongue builds up himself, but the one whoprophesies builds up the church.”1 Thess 5:11 - Therefore encourage one another and build up one another, just as you alsoare doing.3. The Construction method1 Corinthians 8:1b - “… Knowledge puffs up, but love edifies.”How can I build them up & Esteem others - Don’t speak to the lack draw out the goodMatt . 16:18 – “And I tell you, you are Peter, and on this rock I will build (oikodome) mychurch, and the gates of hell shall not prevail against it.Opening of hades – Mouth of hell (jaws of death) - not overtake it. Accuser of brethren1. Invest in other Christians without expecting anything in return.1 Peter 1:22 -Having purified your souls by your obedience to the truth for a sincere brotherlylove, love one another earnestly from a pure heart,2. Know when to give relationships space.Proverbs 25:17 - “Let your foot be seldom in your neighbor’s house, lest he have his fill ofyou and hate you.”3. Speak Truth in love into your friends’ life.Ephesians 4:15-16 - Rather, speaking the truth in love, we are to grow up in every way intohim who is the head, into Christ, from whom the whole body, joined and held together byevery joint with which it is equipped, when each part is working properly, makes the bodygrow so that it builds itself up in love. Proverbs 27:6 - Faithful are the wounds of a friend; profuse are the kisses of an enemy.4. Let go of relationships that harm our relationship with Christ.Romans 16:17 - I appeal to you, brothers, to watch out for those who cause divisions andcreate obstacles contrary to the doctrine that you have been taught; avoid them5. Pursue a deeper walk with Christ.- Biggest cause of conflict is a lack of Christlikeness. http://meditationsofhislove.com/2014/05/5-ways-to-build-edifying-relationships.html/