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Radical acceptance is this notion that we accept people with all that they have and with all that you have to accept them with.

Because when we don't conflict develops in those relationships, we become angry and resentful. It makes it difficult for us to see the people we love, in loving ways.

But acceptance doesn't mean to allow yourself to be abused or mistreated, it doesn't mean that you sidestep issues, but what it does mean is accepting people for who they are, and then moving on.

It's natural to see the potential in people and want to see things differently for them. But ask yourself, is it for them or is it for you? The more you want to see their lives differently the more conflict it creates.

Especially if that person isn't ready to see it the way you see it. And even more so if that person isn't ready for a change.

So how do you manage a situation like this?

In this episode, Frantzces talks about the three stages of radical acceptance and why it's so important to begin to practice it. Doing so, not only brings more peace into your life but also helps you to better manage your relationships.

You can check out my story in Episode 1 Part 2 and you can get more details about my journey from our webinar From Novice To Nomad: The Ultimate Blueprint To Moving Abroad.

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We are celebrating our 100th episode! We can't believe we've reached this amazing milestone.

All because of all of you, thank you for your support, thank you for downloading, listening, sharing, commenting and all of that good stuff.

Your comments and encouragement keep us going. We did something a little differently, we went live on Instagram completely off script to connect with you, our audience.

We talked about how the show got started and how we sat on this idea for quite a few months before actually just doing it. It goes to show you, the world is in need of whatever idea you're sitting on.

We also share about our time abroad, and how we lived in a three bedroom two bath house (with all the fixings) for under $600 a month. You'll listen to the changes we've experienced, the community we've encountered and all of the connections we've made over time.

In this episode, you'll be inspired by the following:

1. Don't sit on your ideas, just get it out there no matter how messy it may seem.

2. You don't need to completely sell all of your things, just do a trial run to test out what living abroad feels like.

3. Continue to tap into your network for support. You never know who might be able to support you along your journey.

Thank you again! Be sure to leave us a review, send us an email, DM. anything, we'd love to support you as much as you've supported us.

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If you've ever thought about moving abroad because you're in need of a change, maybe you're feeling unfulfilled, maybe you know there's something more for your life but you're just not sure.

So you might be feeling overwhelmed unsure where or how to start. Maybe you have more questions than answers. We created this webinar just for you. Watch the webinar.

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Tori spent some time talking to us about the power of activating your network. She moved to Bangkok as an English teacher in the summer of 2017 with the plan to stay for only six months. But two years later she is thriving in Thailand.

If you're interested in working abroad but you don't want to teach, then this episode is filled with nuggets about the different ways you can secure non-teaching jobs abroad.

Tori is known as a Connector, and she lives by her coined phrase: "Activate Your Network". Find out how Tori landed an amazing job in Thailand by using her marketing and PR background.

Not only is Tori working in a profession that she loves she's also the creator of a community of over 200 people of color living, traveling and working in Bangkok.

She curated a group called Ebony Expats as a collaborative space to highlight the diverse narratives of Black Expats. Tori continues connecting and building community in meaningful ways.

Tori gives lots of tips on how to build a community and how to tap into your network.

In this episode, you'll be inspired by the following:

1. Network with a purpose and not just to collect business cards.

2. If something doesn't exist then create it yourself.

3. Don't be afraid to go to networking events and meetups.

Want to see what Tori is up to? Check her out on the following media platform:

Instagram @ToriTalks

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If you've ever thought about moving abroad because you're in need of a change, maybe you're feeling unfulfilled, maybe you know there's something more for your life but you're just not sure.

So you might be feeling overwhelmed unsure where or how to start. Maybe you have more questions than answers. We created this webinar From Novice To Nomad: The Ultimate Blueprint To Moving Abroad just for you. Watch the webinar.

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Have you ever had the feeling that you're just forcing it? Like no matter what you do it's just not working out. It's not working in your favor. Like, you're trying to make something work that may not be for your highest good.

You know, that whole forcing a circle into a square sort of thing. We force things all the time and sometimes we're able to catch it quickly enough and then other times, we have to go through it until we're ready to let it go.

What happens we force things? When we literally go out of our way in every which way to see how we can make something work.

When we continue to hold on to and grasp on to things, it turns into toxicities in our bodies and our lives. It creates more work than it's actually worth. But why do we really do it? Why do we have such a hard time recognizing that this may not be for us?

Because typically we want to see what we want to see. Because seeing how it really is, shows us the truth. How our life truly is.

Listen, as Frantzces explores why we force things and what we can do about it.

We really love hearing from you, so if you have a question, a comment, or concern feel free to reach out to us at [email protected]

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Kenna Williams is an avid world traveler and creator of the infamous BOOKDATISHT hashtag. Which means to book your flight and ask questions later.

Featured in essence, Kenna's friends call her Pusha Kee for her incredible ability to gently encourage individuals to step out of their comfort zone and push life to the edge.

Kenna is constantly manifesting her dreams and uses the term #YearOfYesManifest to get what she wants out of life. She's known in travel circles for her infamous annual #DubaiBlackOut trips.

One of her mottos is… "It is so because I said so!"

If you can walk out of the door every day hey you just faced the world, so this means you can get on a plane. You can die waiting for people.

Branch off to what's familiar to you, if you're in the States go to another state that you haven't visited yet.

Kenna shares some strategic ways about how to take flights and how to maximize your funds.

In this episode, you'll be inspired by the following:

1. Don't focus on the destination just book the deal!

2. Stop waiting for other people to travel or move abroad.

3. Try practicing coming out of your shell by exploring cities and different places in your home country.

Want to see what Kenna is up to? Check her out on the following media platforms:

Check Kenna out on her website Bookdatisht

Keep tabs on her upcoming trips on Instagram @Bookdatisht and on Facebook Kenna

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If you've ever thought about moving abroad because you're in need of a change, maybe you're feeling unfulfilled, maybe you know there's something more for your life but you're just not sure.

So you might be feeling overwhelmed unsure where or how to start. Maybe you have more questions than answers. We created this webinar From Novice To Nomad: The Ultimate Blueprint To Moving Abroad just for you. Watch the webinar.

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Did you shoot your shot? Have you ever shot your shot? What does that even mean? It means taking the ultimate risk in something to advance your dreams.

It means going all in and doing things that are super duper uncomfortable just so you can be one step closer.

You have to take some form of risk in life. There's no other way. You have to somehow find the will to believe in yourself, to believe in your dreams without waiting for external validation.

At some point, you have to decide to be an active participant in your life, don't let your dreams die with you.

Listen, as Frantzces explores why it's so important to shoot your shot in life.

Check out Berna's episode, when we first heard about shooting your shot.

We really love hearing from you, so if you have a question, a comment, or concern feel free to reach out to us at [email protected]

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Self-proclaimed corporate America escapee, Derek the strategist, took the challenge to do better in his life and decided to up the ante and move on the other side of the world.

Chicago native, Derek up and moved to Chiang Mai, Thailand indefinitely. He is on a mission to travel more and explore other cultures.

Derek is a business coach and marketing consultant helping entrepreneurs build and grow their business online.

His 'side hustle' is to inspire Black people (especially Black men) through his experiences in travel and business.

In this episode, you'll be inspired by the following:

1. Consider building your business, while working your corporate job.

2. Not all plans work out the way you anticipate them too. Sometimes the outcome is better than you could have imagined.

3. Taking some time to research will help you feel more comfortable with the leap.

Want to see what Derek is up to? Check him out on the following media platforms:

Check him out online at Derekthestrategist.com and Instagram @derekthestrategist

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Are you an overthinker? Yeah, well join the club. Most of us overthink a lot of things. Sometimes to the point where it overtakes our lives. And we exert a lot of energy, mentally and emotionally just overthinking alone.

Overthinking something is just another form of deep, deep anxiety and worry. Because of this it really gets in the way of our lives and keeps us from reaching our goals.

How do you deal with overthinking? Well, thinking more about the thought may not be the best solution.

Listen, as Frantzces explores a bit more about overthinking, why it exists and the one thing it doesn't do for us.

We really love hearing from you, so if you have a question, comment or concern feel free to reach out to us at [email protected]

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Andrew aka Jet Set Drew is aka Mr. Urbn Trvl was born and raised in Baltimore, MD. He's an engineer currently living in Costa Rica.

Drew has lived in The Philippines, Sweden, Iraq, and has traveled to 54 countries thus far.

He is also the founder of Urban Travel, a boutique travel company that curates unique trips from all over the world where he provides the space for people to indulge in their wanderlust.

We have a thoughtful conversation with Drew about why it's important for Black men to travel more.

He says it's important for Black men to get out to see the world, to see how Black people are treated much differently than in the States. We talk about how travel has transformed his life in how he views himself.

In this episode, you'll be inspired by the following:

1. Although racism exists everywhere in the world, there's still a lot of love for Black people in other countries. 2. It's okay to begin traveling solo because if you continue to wait for others, then it'll never happen. 3. Learning about other cultures will help you to see the world differently.

Want to see what Drew is up to? Check him out on the following media platforms:

Check him out on his website Jet Set Drew Keep tabs on his upcoming trips on Urbn Trvl Instagram @jetsetdrew

Make sure you join us on our live webinar From Novice To Nomad: The Ultimate Blueprint For Moving Abroad.

We'll be answering your questions about the whole moving abroad process. You'll also hear about our stories and how we took the leap of faith abroad.

Join us this Thursday, February 28th, 2019 at 8 PM EST by clicking here.

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Last week Frantzces talked about personal responsibility. We received an email about how could we be responsible for the horrible things in our lives.

Of course, you're not responsible for the terrible things that happened to you, but ultimately, you are responsible for your own healing. At some point, you have to be an active participant in your life to create a life that you're proud of.

So this led her to talk about how we aren't immune to bad stuff happening in our lives, no matter who we are, no matter what our status, we all experience some serious hardships.

But even within those hardships, there are ways in which you too can persevere through some of the darkest in moments. By doing so you build your character and your resiliency.

When we have a much bigger calling pulling us, we're able to push through with even more diligence when things hit the fan.

Listen, as Frantzces explores a bit more about triumphing through tragedy and clarifies personal responsibility.

Shout outs to the email we received about the last Monday Message, keep them coming!

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