Classically Ever After

Hyper-Masculinity, Toxic Masculinity, And GODLY Masculinity: PART 2

Here on our podcast, we will discuss the ins and outs of marriage and relationships, parenthood, classic living, and navigating the modern era while maintaining traditional values. From philosophy to practical advice, you’ll find out what we REALLY think!

On today’s episode, Jacob and I are discussing hyper-masculinity through the lens of Fight Club. We discuss the difference between hyper-masculinity, toxic masculinity, and Godly masculinity - and why masculinity when shorn of its purpose is simply a waste of time. If you missed part one, make sure to go back and listen to our discussion of hyper-femininity as seen in Breakfast at Tiffany’s! And stay tuned till the end of today’s episode to hear our highlight of the week. If you want to leave a comment, become a premium subscriber today.

TONIGHT: Livestream Q&A With My DAD

Hello, classic crew! TONIGHT at 8:30 pm EST I’ll be doing my monthly livestream Q&A on YouTube - but I’ll only be answering questions from my premium subscribers, the people who have access to my exclusive content here on Substack. This week, my father will be joining me. Submit your questions for both of us!

This Month’s Book Club Selection!

I’m excited to share this month’s book club selection! This month we are reading non-fiction (we switch up month-to-month) and the book we will be reading is…The Lifegiving Home: Creating A Place of Belonging and Becoming! I’ve been wanting to read some books about homemaking, and this looks perfect. It’s from a Christian perspective, so for my Christian followers, I think you’ll really enjoy that part of it! I can’t wait to discuss it with you all.

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What You Might Have Missed At Classically Abby…

Welcome to Classically Abby! 

I'm a wife, mama, opera singer, entrepreneur, YouTuber, and your guide to becoming the classic woman you've always wanted to be! Follow me on YouTube, Instagram, and Twitter to see how! And together, let's be classic. 

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The Case Against The Sexual Revolution - Interview With Louise Perry

Here on our podcast, we will discuss the ins and outs of marriage and relationships, parenthood, classic living, and navigating the modern era while maintaining traditional values. From philosophy to practical advice, you’ll find out what we REALLY think!

On today’s special episode, I interviewed Louise Perry, author of The Case Against the Sexual Revolution and asked her YOUR questions from book club. We discussed everything from the regret women feel engaging in random hookups to how to justify moral values without the fundamental basis of religion. If you want to leave a comment, become a premium subscriber today.

TONIGHT at 8:30 PM EST: Zoom “Girl Chat”

TONIGHT at 8:30 PM EST is our monthly Zoom “girl chat” and I can’t wait! Let’s get cozy and talk about Spooktober, what we’ve been watching and reading lately, motherhood, and dating! Meet you there with a cup of tea or hot cocoa and a warm snuggly blanket :)

ANNOUNCING: This Month’s Book Club Selection!

I’m excited to share this month’s book club selection! This month we are reading fiction (we switch up month-to-month) and the book we will be reading is…Treasure Island! After last week’s book club, I asked you all what you would be interested in reading and you said you wanted to read an adventure novel! I can’t wait to discuss it with you all.

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If you are enjoying your free subscription to the Classically Abby Substack newsletter, I would love if you would upgrade to a premium subscription and share it with your friends! Let’s meet new people and grow our community. Share the link below with someone you think would love to become a premium subscriber, and she will get one whole month for FREE, or take advantage of this special offer yourself!

What You Might Have Missed At Classically Abby…

Welcome to Classically Abby! 

I'm a wife, mama, opera singer, entrepreneur, YouTuber, and your guide to becoming the classic woman you've always wanted to be! Follow me on YouTube, Instagram, and Twitter to see how! And together, let's be classic. 

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Hyper-Femininity And Hyper-Masculinity: PART 1

Here on our podcast, we will discuss the ins and outs of marriage and relationships, parenthood, classic living, and navigating the modern era while maintaining traditional values. From philosophy to practical advice, you’ll find out what we REALLY think!

On today’s episode, Jacob and I are discussing hyper-femininity vs. hyper-masculinity through the lens of Breakfast at Tiffany’s and Fight Club. We got so into discussing hyper-femininity that we realized we needed to divide this topic into two episodes, so this is part one! And stay tuned till the end of today’s episode to hear our antonym of the week: stuff we like, stuff we hate! If you want to leave a comment, become a premium subscriber today.

TONIGHT: Livestream Q&A With Jacob!

Hello, classic crew! TONIGHT at 8:45 pm EST I’ll be doing my monthly livestream Q&A on YouTube - but I’ll only be answering questions from my premium subscribers, the people who have access to my exclusive content here on Substack. This week, Jacob will be joining me. Get a man’s perspective and submit your questions for both of us!

ANNOUNCING: This Month’s Book Club Selection!

I’m excited to share this month’s book club selection! This month we are reading fiction (we switch up month-to-month) and the book we will be reading is…Treasure Island! After last week’s book club, I asked you all what you would be interested in reading and you said you wanted to read an adventure novel! I can’t wait to discuss it with you all.

Share Classically Abby With Your Friends!

If you are enjoying your free subscription to the Classically Abby Substack newsletter, I would love if you would upgrade to a premium subscription and share it with your friends! Let’s meet new people and grow our community. Share the link below with someone you think would love to become a premium subscriber, and she will get one whole month for FREE, or take advantage of this special offer yourself!

What You Might Have Missed At Classically Abby…

Quote of the Week:

“The love of heaven makes one heavenly.” - William Shakespeare

Classic Style Inspo

I loved this post from my friend Caitlin’s on her Instagram! She is a beautiful example of femininity, and yet here she is in a cute T-shirt and fun pants. It may not look classically feminine, and yet, with a baby on her hip, her hair swinging behind her, she epitomizes womanhood. It’s not always about wearing a pretty dress and a full face of makeup. Sometimes it’s about wearing something cute, comfortable, and practical so you can be the best mom you can be!

Things I’ve Been Loving: Baby Playpen

This baby playpen has been a gamechanger for Mr. Baby! Because he’s moving around so much, I was concerned that he could roll into wires or hit himself on the floor. This playpen gives him the perfect place to play without parental supervision at all times. It’s perfect!

Welcome to Classically Abby! 

I'm a wife, mama, opera singer, entrepreneur, YouTuber, and your guide to becoming the classic woman you've always wanted to be! Follow me on YouTube, Instagram, and Twitter to see how! And together, let's be classic. 

*Disclosure: This email may contain affiliate links, which means I may receive a commission if you click on a link and purchase something. Thank you for your support!

Forget What You THINK You Know...And Live A More CLASSIC Life!

Here on our podcast, we will discuss the ins and outs of marriage and relationships, parenthood, classic living, and navigating the modern era while maintaining traditional values. From philosophy to practical advice, you’ll find out what we REALLY think! As a premium subscriber, you will get access to 3 exclusive podcast episodes every month.

On today’s episode, Jacob and I are discussing what you have to forget in order to start living a more classic life. For example, number one: Forget what you think you know about DATING. And there’s four more tips to follow! We are also sharing our antonym of the week - engagingly earnest and irritatingly ironic - our weekly highlights, and stay tuned till the end of today’s episode for our classic thought of the week. If you’d like to listen to the rest of today’s episode, become a premium subscriber now:

TONIGHT: The Classically Abby A.V. Club

TONIGHT we will convene our very first ZOOM Classically Abby A.V. Club! Join our Zoom call at 8:30 PM EST to discuss Breakfast at Tiffany’s - a classic. If you’d like to participate, become a premium subscriber now:

Share Classically Abby With Your Friends!

If you’re enjoying your free subscription to the Classically Abby Substack newsletter, I would love if you would consider upgrading to a premium subscription and sharing it with your friends! Let’s meet new people and grow our community of women. Share the link below with someone you think would love to become a premium subscriber, and she will get one whole month for FREE, or take advantage of this special offer yourself!

What You Might Have Missed At Classically Abby…

Quote of the Week:

“You call yourself a free spirit, a ‘wild thing,’ and you’re terrified somebody’s gonna stick you in a cage. Well baby, you’re already in that cage. You built it yourself. And it’s not bounded in the west by Tulip, Texas, or in the east by Somali-land. It’s wherever you go. Because no matter where you run, you just end up running into yourself.” - Breakfast at Tiffany’s

Classic Style Inspo

Today’s newsletter is very inspired by our movie for A.V. Club tonight! Audrey Hepburn’s style in Breakfast at Tiffany’s is truly the epitome of classic. Despite the fact that initially her character is far from it, Holly Golightly’s clothing is always beautifully tailored, modest, and timeless. A boatneck dress, pearls, and kitten heels never go out of style.

Things I’ve Been Loving: Made In Italy Sandals

I love this company’s sandals so much. I bought one pair and found them so comfortable, I bought a second pair in a different color! They are an elevated flip-flop that I can walk in for hours and never feel any pain. I think you’ll love them - just go up 1/2 a size!

Welcome to Classically Abby! 

I'm a wife, mama, opera singer, entrepreneur, YouTuber, and your guide to becoming the classic woman you've always wanted to be! Follow me on YouTube, Instagram, and Twitter to see how! And together, let's be classic. 

*Disclosure: This email may contain affiliate links, which means I may receive a commission if you click on a link and purchase something. Thank you for your support!

Forget What You THINK You Know...And Live A More CLASSIC Life!

Here on our podcast, we will discuss the ins and outs of marriage and relationships, parenthood, classic living, and navigating the modern era while maintaining traditional values. From philosophy to practical advice, you’ll find out what we REALLY think! As a premium subscriber, you will get access to 3 exclusive podcast episodes every month.

On today’s episode, Jacob and I are discussing what you have to forget in order to start living a more classic life. For example, number one: Forget what you think you know about DATING. And there’s four more tips to follow! We are also sharing our antonym of the week - engagingly earnest and irritatingly ironic - our weekly highlights, and stay tuned till the end of today’s episode for our classic thought of the week. If you want to hear the whole episode, make sure to subscribe below:

TONIGHT: The Classically Abby A.V. Club

TONIGHT we will convene our very first ZOOM Classically Abby A.V. Club! Join our Zoom call at 8:30 PM EST to discuss Breakfast at Tiffany’s - a classic. If you’d like to join, become a premium subscriber today!

Share Classically Abby With Your Friends!

If you are enjoying your free subscription to the Classically Abby Substack newsletter, I would love if you would upgrade to a premium subscription and share it with your friends! Let’s meet new people and grow our community. Share the link below with someone you think would love to become a premium subscriber, and she will get one whole month for FREE, or take advantage of this special offer yourself!

What You Might Have Missed At Classically Abby…

Quote of the Week:

“You call yourself a free spirit, a ‘wild thing,’ and you’re terrified somebody’s gonna stick you in a cage. Well baby, you’re already in that cage. You built it yourself. And it’s not bounded in the west by Tulip, Texas, or in the east by Somali-land. It’s wherever you go. Because no matter where you run, you just end up running into yourself.” - Breakfast at Tiffany’s

Classic Style Inspo

Today’s newsletter is very inspired by our movie for A.V. Club tonight! Audrey Hepburn’s style in Breakfast at Tiffany’s is truly the epitome of classic. Despite the fact that initially her character is far from it, Holly Golightly’s clothing is always beautifully tailored, modest, and timeless. A boatneck dress, pearls, and kitten heels never go out of style.

Things I’ve Been Loving: Made In Italy Sandals

I love this company’s sandals so much. I bought one pair and found them so comfortable, I bought a second pair in a different color! They are an elevated flip-flop that I can walk in for hours and never feel any pain. I think you’ll love them - just go up 1/2 a size!

Welcome to Classically Abby! 

I'm a wife, mama, opera singer, entrepreneur, YouTuber, and your guide to becoming the classic woman you've always wanted to be! Follow me on YouTube, Instagram, and Twitter to see how! And together, let's be classic. 

*Disclosure: This email may contain affiliate links, which means I may receive a commission if you click on a link and purchase something. Thank you for your support!

The TOP Board Games For EVERY Occasion!

Here on our podcast, we will discuss the ins and outs of marriage and relationships, parenthood, classic living, and navigating the modern era while maintaining traditional values. From philosophy to practical advice, you’ll find out what we REALLY think! As a premium subscriber, you will get access to 3 exclusive podcast episodes every month.

On today’s episode, Jacob and I are sharing our TOP board games - and we had a blast going through 14 categories we came up with! If you’re looking for a new board game to add to your collection, hopefully you’ll find something here to try out. We are also sharing our antonym of the week - exercises we love, and exercises we hate - our weekly highlights, and stay tuned till the end of today’s episode for our classic thought of the week. Plus, scroll to the end of today’s newsletter for links to all the board games we mentioned! Make sure to leave your thoughts in the comments below!

What You Might Have Missed At Classically Abby…

Quote of the Week:

"It’s worth remembering that it is often the small steps, not the giant leaps, that bring about the most lasting change." - Queen Elizabeth II

Classic Style Inspo

Today, I wanted to talk about the beautiful, classic, and timeless style of Queen Elizabeth II. The Queen passed away yesterday, and in her memory, we should be inspired to dress as beautifully, modestly, and classically as she did. Pearls, tailored dresses, and wonderful suits were staples of hers and made her look like a true lady!

Things I’ve Been Loving: Battery Daddy

This is such a great organizing tool for your batteries! If you’re like me, you have a ton of loose batteries hanging around your house. You have no idea which ones are new or which ones are dead, and it’s a real pain to figure out! With this case, you can store all of your batteries in the same place as well as test them to figure out if they still have any juice. This is a great buy!

Welcome to Classically Abby! 

I'm a wife, mama, opera singer, entrepreneur, YouTuber, and your guide to becoming the classic woman you've always wanted to be! Follow me on YouTube, Instagram, and Twitter to see how! And together, let's be classic. 

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Board Games We Mentioned

If I haven’t linked board games below because they aren’t available on Amazon, check out BoardGameAtlas.com and eBay! BoardGameAtlas.com will show you comparison prices across websites and eBay has some games that are no longer available on mass market websites.

Cosmic Encounter, Pax Pamir

Ghost Stories, Betrayal At The House On The Hill

Twilight Imperium

Clans of Caledonia, Fog of Love

Chinatown, Settlers of Catan,

Lords of Vegas, Above and Below

Nevsky, Res Arcana

Imperial 2030

Time of Crisis

Scattergories, Boggle

Monikers, Dead Last, Jackbox TV, Wavelength

Taboo, Space Cadets Dice Duel

Battle Line

How To End A Fight Without HATING Your Spouse!

Here on our podcast, we will discuss the ins and outs of marriage and relationships, parenthood, classic living, and navigating the modern era while maintaining traditional values. From philosophy to practical advice, you’ll find out what we REALLY think! As a premium subscriber, you will get access to 3 exclusive podcast episodes every month.

On today’s episode, Jacob and I are sharing what we’ve learned about how to argue over the years, and share our tips for keeping our relationship at the forefront of our minds even during a heated discussion. We are also sharing our antonym of the week - something that drives us crazy, and something that makes us saner - our weekly highlights, and stay tuned till the end of today’s episode for our classic thought of the week. Make sure to leave your thoughts in the comments below!

ANNOUNCING: Book Club Is This Week!

I’m excited to share this month’s book club selection! This month we are reading fiction (we switch up month-to-month) and the book we will be reading is…The Undomestic Goddess! Since we have been some doing some major reading, I thought it would be fun to do something more fun and laidback. A quintessential beach read to finish out the summer! And the values align perfectly with what we talk about here. I can’t wait to discuss it with you all! Book club is convening this Thursday (9/8/2022) at 8:30 PM EST.

What’s New On Classically Abby…

Welcome to Classically Abby! 

I'm a wife, mama, opera singer, entrepreneur, YouTuber, and your guide to becoming the classic woman you've always wanted to be! Follow me on YouTube, Instagram, and Twitter to see how! And together, let's be classic. 

*Disclosure: This email may contain affiliate links, which means I may receive a commission if you click on a link and purchase something. Thank you for your support!

How We Got Here: Our CLASSIC Origin Story!

Here on our podcast, we will discuss the ins and outs of marriage and relationships, parenthood, classic living, and navigating the modern era while maintaining traditional values. From philosophy to practical advice, you’ll find out what we REALLY think! As a premium subscriber, you will get access to 3 exclusive podcast episodes every month.

On today’s episode, Jacob and I are sharing our personal stories of where we came from and how we got here - believing in traditional values and classic living. We are also sharing our antonym discussion (you’ll have to listen to know what we mean!), our weekly highlight, and our classic thought of the week! Make sure to leave your thoughts in the comments below!

ANNOUNCING: This Month's Book Club Selection!

I’m excited to share this month’s book club selection! This month we are reading fiction (we switch up month-to-month) and the book we will be reading is…The Undomestic Goddess! Since we have been some doing some major reading, I thought it would be fun to do something more fun and laidback. A quintessential beach read to finish out the summer! And the values align perfectly with what we talk about here. I can’t wait to discuss it with you all!

What You Might Have Missed At Classically Abby…

Quote of the Week:

“What we have once enjoyed we can never lose. All that we love deeply becomes a part of us.” - Helen Keller

Classic Style Inspo

If you want to be feminine without being too cutesy, small ruffles along seams is a great way to do it! Big ruffles can look immature, but small ruffles add just the right amount of whimsy.

Things I’ve Been Loving: Tocca Perfume

I’ve had this perfume for a while and I really love it for spring and summer. It’s light, soft, and feminine. If you’re looking for a new scent, I really love this!

Welcome to Classically Abby! 

I'm a wife, mama, opera singer, entrepreneur, YouTuber, and your guide to becoming the classic woman you've always wanted to be! Follow me on YouTube, Instagram, and Twitter to see how! And together, let's be classic. 

*Disclosure: This email may contain affiliate links, which means I may receive a commission if you click on a link and purchase something. Thank you for your support!

How We Got Here: Our CLASSIC Origin Story!

Here on our podcast, we will discuss the ins and outs of marriage and relationships, parenthood, classic living, and navigating the modern era while maintaining traditional values. From philosophy to practical advice, you’ll find out what we REALLY think! As a premium subscriber, you will get access to 3 exclusive podcast episodes every month.

On today’s episode, Jacob and I are sharing our personal stories of where we came from and how we got here - believing in traditional values and classic living. We are also sharing our antonym discussion (you’ll have to listen to know what we mean!), our weekly highlight, and our classic thought of the week! Subscribe now to get access to the entire episode.

ANNOUNCING: This Month's Book Club Selection!

I’m excited to share this month’s book club selection! This month we are reading fiction (we switch up month-to-month) and the book we will be reading is…The Undomestic Goddess! Since we have been some doing some major reading, I thought it would be fun to do something more fun and laidback. A quintessential beach read to finish out the summer! And the values align perfectly with what we talk about here. I can’t wait to discuss it with you all!

What You Might Have Missed At Classically Abby…

Quote of the Week:

“What we have once enjoyed we can never lose. All that we love deeply becomes a part of us.” - Helen Keller

Classic Style Inspo

If you want to be feminine without being too cutesy, small ruffles along seams is a great way to do it! Big ruffles can look immature, but small ruffles add just the right amount of whimsy.

Things I’ve Been Loving: Tocca Perfume

I’ve had this perfume for a while and I really love it for spring and summer. It’s light, soft, and feminine. If you’re looking for a new scent, I really love this!

Welcome to Classically Abby! 

I'm a wife, mama, opera singer, entrepreneur, YouTuber, and your guide to becoming the classic woman you've always wanted to be! Follow me on YouTube, Instagram, and Twitter to see how! And together, let's be classic. 

*Disclosure: This email may contain affiliate links, which means I may receive a commission if you click on a link and purchase something. Thank you for your support!

Episode #30: How To Host The Perfect GAME NIGHT

Here on my podcast, I give you the BEST advice regarding dating, relationships, motherhood, traditional values, and classic living. As a premium subscriber, you will get access to 3 exclusive podcast episodes every month.

On today’s episode, I’m sharing how to host the PERFECT game night. I think game nights are such a great way to spend time with family and friends, but hosting one takes a little bit of practice. After a bit of trial and error, Jacob and I have really figured out how to have a great night playing board games with the people we love. I’m also sharing my weekly catch up, as well as a new segment - things I love, and things I hate. And don’t forget to stay tuned till the end for my classic tip of the week!

ANNOUNCING: This Month's Book Club Selection!

I’m excited to share this month’s book club selection! This month we are reading fiction (we switch up month-to-month) and the book we will be reading is…The Undomestic Goddess! Since we have been some doing some major reading, I thought it would be fun to do something more fun and laidback. A quintessential beach read to finish out the summer! And the values align perfectly with what we talk about here. I can’t wait to discuss it with you all!

What You Might Have Missed At Classically Abby…

Quote of the Week:

“Everyone thinks of changing the world, but no one thinks of changing himself.” -Leo Tolstoy

Classic Style Inspo

If you’re looking for a way to start transitioning into fall without dying of heat, a dress in fall colors is the perfect way to do it! I’m obsessed with this dress for a ton of reasons, but one is the color palette. Wearing these colors is a small sign that the seasons will be changing soon, but the fabric is light enough that I can continue to wear it even on the hottest of days.

Things I’ve Been Loving: Gleem Toothbrush

I recently bought this toothbrush at Walgreens and fell in love with it. Beyond the fact that it looks so nice, it has a great brush head and a timer that tells you when to move around your mouth and when 2 minutes is up. It’s great!

Welcome to Classically Abby! 

I'm a wife, mama, opera singer, entrepreneur, YouTuber, and your guide to becoming the classic woman you've always wanted to be! Follow me on YouTube, Instagram, and Twitter to see how! And together, let's be classic. 

*Disclosure: This email may contain affiliate links, which means I may receive a commission if you click on a link and purchase something. Thank you for your support!