Clear the Clutter

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Have you been feeling the "calling" to go bigger? To show up and a bolder way?  To go after the thing that has been on your head, heart and pinterest board for a while now?

Or is it just me.  Lately I have been feeling this deep sensation that is almost pulling me forward. At first, I was reaching out to one of my besties and seeing if it was something in my astrology chart.

And while there a bigger calling in my stars, its more than that.  Last time I felt this feeling, within 4 months we sold our motorcycle shop and moved 3 hours south.  It was like hitting turbo boost on changing our lives for the better.

Of course it was scary to do something unknown. But I had also been cleaning out the clutter of my life while I was feeling this feeling.  I started saying no to things.  I donated and sold some old things around the house that no longer served us.  I let go of old ideas.  I did a TON of journaling to call in what I wanted. What I desired and dreamed of.  I made a new pinterest board to help me "see" what I wanted.  I made massive amounts of space of what ever was coming into our lives.

So, when this feeling came around again.  Instead of hiding from it, I got excited. I've officially dubbed this time as "Training time".  Im training my body, brain and abundance receptors to be ready for the next up leveling.

But of course, I didn't always have this level of confidence. Or heaven forbid, trust in myself that I could even handle the calling.  So, depending on where you are at.  I want to take you through the beginning steps that I used to feel comfortable when its easier to stay small.

That way, when the universe calls on you. You can show up and be ready for what ever comes your way.

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I am always surprised when episodes seem to find there perfect timing. Todays episode is about developing unshakable faith in yourself.

Its so easy to get discouraged with everything that is changing right now. Gas is crazy expensive, we don't know what the new normal looks like. Housing and interest rates are like a mini roller coaster.

But through out all of this. I have faith. Not just faith in a job or in money or the economy. But in me.

Because of that mindset, its lead me to opportunities, that on paper never should have happened.

I take you on the journey of developing my rock solid belief system to have faith in myself. That what ever habits I develop, I will bring them with me where ever I go.

Which means you can take my examples and use them to build up your own unshakable faith. It can be in money. It can be in your health. It can be in starting your side hustle.

Unshakable faith to me is building that foundation. That no matter what goes on in the world, you can always take care of yourself.

Which is the best part. Once it becomes a part of your foundation, then it truly does become a part of you. You cant lose it or miss place it. No one can take it from you. Over time it becomes a part of your soul. Which will be able to grow with you regardless of what's going on in the world.

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For most of us, we have been going STRONG for the last two years.  Regardless of what your home and work life looked like. Or even how often it changed on you.  You stepped up to the change that we have collectively experienced. But we have gotten lost in the process.

I feel that we are collectively getting back into that burn our stage.

Which can be such a dark place that is hard to come back from. Every time I have been burnt out, it took an EQUAL amount of time to recover fully.  Which drove me nuts.

Being on/available all the time is not sustainable. Its perfectly fine when you have to switch on that skill in a crisis mode. But when its your default. Well, that is the fastest way to burnout.

Instead of getting to burn out, lets break the cycle.

Todays episode will teach you how to set boundaries that help keep you from burnout.  Where instead of setting boundaries on either our time or our obligations. I can give you practical examples of how to evaluate what is actually worth your time and what isn't.

Plus,  practical examples of learning how to say no around the feel that you always must be on.  Hint, it always starting with saying no.

Which means that the next time you sit down to reevaluate your goals or desires. You wont feel that you are the one getting lost while taking care of everyone/everything else.  Plus you will actually be able to identify/create pockets of time to work on those tasks that mean so much to you.

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Todays episode took a lot of courage to publish.  I would never consider myself a jealous person. But, this was something that triggered the hell out of me.  I read a post on Instagram and hit angry and heartbreak in 2.5 seconds.

I was so upset.  It had me going into the bathroom and crying in the middle of a work day. Then slipped into a mini dark place for about a week while I was trying to process how this was affecting me.

Even though It took a few weeks longer than I was wanting to publish this episode. Im still committed to teaching you how to use everything that life throws at us to grow. Even when its painful.

Im going to teach you what to do when you are jealous of someone else's results.  Plus, get the journal prompts that I used to walk my self out of hurt, jealously and anger.

Which means that the next time you are triggered with a situation that is hitting every button you have. Its making you jealous, upset and sad that you don't have what the other person wants. You will know how to go from those emotions to peace, and possible action steps if they apply.

Here is to love and growth and more kindness for ourselves.

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If I told you that you money mindset affected what your life looked like. Would you think I was crazy? Or would you be able to point to the times in your life that because of fear, you held back.

from asking for the raise, asking to get paid what your worth, admitting what you actually wanted but didn't believe that you could have.

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Do you ever turn down a tip or compliment? Do you ever downplay your abilities, or try and make sure that "everyone" gets the credit. Even though you did 80% of the work. If your not comfortable getting recognized, then your probably doing this with money too.

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I don't know about you, but I'm still running high of new years goals and dreams vibes.  I'm paying attention to the action I'm taking and calling in that aligned action.

I had noticed that in last weeks podcast episode I neglected to dive into how to let go.  I believe that one of the big steps of calling in abundance is making room for what you want. I used this example in episode 51, but If there is no room on your plate, then its hard to handle the abundance.

But that can be super hard when you don't know how to make space.  All you know is that you want to go big, and achieve so bad. But somehow, your actions are not matching your words.  So I wanted to break this down ever further.  Its all about finding and paying attention to the canary in the coal mine signals. AKA, how to find where friction makes taking action harder than necessary.

This episode I give you tons of examples how see and learn the signs of when you are ready to move on.  Then I transition into the heart of the matter.

Recognizing how you are sabotaging your growth. Most of the time the easy answer is fear.  But again, instead of stopping there.  I help you find out why you are afraid to begin with.  Is it that your afraid that you cant handle the growth?  Are you afraid that its all just going to slip between your fingers like water?

Non of this has to be your reality.  Think of this episode as your YES, And guide.  Yes, you want growth. Yes, you deserve to create a life that you are happy with. ANNND, you can overcome the obstacles. You can finally let go of the baggage that's been holding you back. Its safe to have more of what you desire in your life.

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I felt like there was a block for this episode. I couldn't seem to get into the groove for this one. I was struggling with my topic. While at the same time I was feeling a bit of mental fog. Which is crazy when you think about it. I have no problem talking and I always feel that each episode is divinely called in from above.

But yet, the fog persisted, both around this podcast episode and our income. I have been super clear for months now that I am going to show up, be willing to see and do things differently, and help our family double our income. But it was as if the steps were not coming to me.

I knew that logically I would have to add in additional income streams to our life that were not dependent on us being present to make this happen. I knew that I wanted to create merch and more courses this year to get all of these ideas out of my and my muses head. But it still felt like I was being held back.

That's when I realized that I needed to just keep cleaning. Cleaning has always been a therapeutic method that I have used to process what's going on. So during my last cleaning session. ( I spent 3+ hours organizing papers!!!) I had my AH HA moment.

All this cleaning was literally clearing the path way toward the new abundance I was calling in. In this episode I give you 2 big examples of what it looks like when you have called in abundance, but your body/life isn't ready to receive it yet.

Plus, we revisit my favorite, the universe café. And how to properly ask for what you want and make room for the things that you do want to show up.

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Starting fresh always gets me excited.  I don't care if its a new start because of of the time of year, or because I've hit my goals.

There is something to be said for starting over.

Before I was aware of how intoxicating a new start was, I use to blow up my life over and over again.  Or even worse, I would set these small, baby goals. That way, I could "accomplish" a ton of stuff and have bragging rights.

But just like with anything else, three is an easy and timeless way to start fresh. And then there is the messy chaos way to do that.

Its so easy to fall into the patter that most of us are doing right now.  Its a new year, things are slowly getting better. So why not set some new goals.

Instead of just setting some vague goal of get healthier, sleep more or make more money. Ill teach you how to identify then focus on the big picture.

Once you can explain the big picture to me, preferably over a cup of coffee. ( So that I can hold you accountable. ) Then I'll walk you through how to identify the feeling that your chasing.  Feelings are the foundation to EVERYTHING.

If you don't have both the feeling and clear goal set. Then its just a bunch of unnecessary steps to get what you want.

That's were the long term timeless change comes from. I'll show you how to subliminal message your self to reprogram your brain. Yes, that means sticky notes, screen savers and even the story behind why I created audios that I listened to in my sleep.

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Archiving Love Course

Love is everything to me.  Its a part of my foundation. Its required in my daily life. Its what fuels me during the good and bad.

If you had asked me years ago, why I kept all these memories of our life. I would have told you for our future kids.  But the reality is that each birthday card, photo, video or memento is a way for me to walk back in time.

Its my version of a memory palace and can instantly transport me into that wonderful memory. It can help me relive the love.

Needless to say Archiving Love is a foundational course for me. Its more than just storing photos and videos easily.

It the only way I can listen to my grandmothers voice on a voice mail I saved from her. It a watch that can tell me the time. But also bring back the late night car ride home conversations that I had with my madrina (godmother) before she passed.

It's a photo of me and one of my babies when I was sixteen years old and seeing if I could get Angel to climb a wall on photo.

These memories mean everything to me. Archiving them is like being able to preserve parts of my soul. I am who I am because of my experiences and the love that is abundant in my life.

I will always be forever grateful that  I had the foresight to preserve these memories. My desire is to help you do the same.